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Anyone else ttc #2?

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Chanel05 · 21/08/2021 15:05

My dd is 11 months old and we have decided that now is the time for number 2! My daughter took 18 months to conceive with a mmc in between, so I'm expecting a long journey. This is my first month and I'm on cd4.

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Chivari · 16/10/2021 10:18

Welcome @mightbeyesmightbeno 😊😊

Indianna2006 · 16/10/2021 10:57

@Chivari yes better than nothing like you say. And don’t rule anything out. 3 days before and 1 day after. Plus Altho you got static that day. Can ovulate anywhere from 12-36 hours. So egg could of still been hanging around this morning waiting to be fertilised 😄🤞🏼🤞🏼

2ww begins for you too I guess then!

Hope18 · 16/10/2021 13:03

@Indianna2006 defo no harm in trying again today! Equally don't stress yourself out if it doesn't happen, you've covered loads of the right days! ❤️

@chivari yayyy!! Pleased for you guys! It always feels good knowing you got another try in doesn't it! BD party! Hehe!!
Anytime for the love! ❤️🎉
We defo all need a little love in this journey it's so lonely on the outside world.. On holiday DD meeting little friends and as we speak to their family I see they all have younger siblings 😭 we had a great time, drove back late last night and straight into a party of a friend of DD today. More soft play. Ugh hahaha..
Washing pile is as big as the house too! All the fun aye 🤣 xx

Chivari · 16/10/2021 17:00

Let’s hope @Indianna2006 🤞🏻 Weirdly I still have EWCM?! I would have expected that to be clearing up by now? I had a lot earlier this afternoon.

@Hope18 awww yes you are right! I love this group, lots of love and support going around! Glad you had a good time. You must be so tired today though! Sounds like you’ve been so busy since getting home. I hate the washing after holiday, unpacking is the worst too! 😂 I always try and do it almost as soon as I get in the door so it’s out the way.

Hope18 · 16/10/2021 17:09

@chivari yes we try and do as soon as we get in usually too haha can't bare it laying around everywhere!
I usually get EWCM up to 2 days after Ov.. Xx

Hope18 · 17/10/2021 07:00

@Indianna2006
@Chivari
@mrsr87

Caved didn't I.
Tested last night on early detection digital..
Ofc BFN.
The CB with the flashy bit on.. Says could detect up to 6 days early
😭
Not sure what I was expecting but yesterday I had cramps and boobs were so sore. 😕 Guess it's just AF symptoms.

Usual cycle is 28 but the past 2 have been about 24 which would put be technically due AF Wednesday.. Although app still predicted Saturday.
Just never know what my cycle is going to do!

Indianna2006 · 17/10/2021 08:18

@Hope18 ahh it’s so hard not to test!! What soo are you though? Like 8dpo max? Egg could still be trying to implant so hang on in there.

Try hold out until 11dpo at least 🙈 although I know it’s hard.

Last month I was adament wasn’t doing it early, wanted to get a yes or no and not be left wondering and I lasted until 12dpo lol

Hope18 · 17/10/2021 08:45

Hahaa @Indianna2006 yeah I potentially could only be max 8dpo.. If not 7..
I think I ovulated last weekend as that's when I had the cramps etc and EWCM last day was Sunday.. But I thought maybe if I was due to have AF Wednesday time ( if it was a 24 day cycle) maybe it would be only like 4 days until expected AF?
Or am I mad with that theory lol? Xx

Indianna2006 · 17/10/2021 08:58

@Hope18 so how long is your usual cycle? And what CD do you think you ovulate on roughly?

Hope18 · 17/10/2021 09:10

@Indianna2006 so I've had a mixture since my covid jab in June.. And i then had covid in August.
So June into July was 28.
July into August was 24.
August into sept was 28.
And Sept was 24🙈
We've been trying 2 cycles.
I've only really tracked ovulation briefly as I haven't fulled used OPKs so 1st cycle I had the ovulation pains CD 14,15 and this cycle a mildly positive OPK cycle day 11 and then ovulation pains CD12 and 13 with fertile mucous stopping CD14..which was last Sunday. I've attached picture of my app too.. DTD 3 times leading up to the Saturday.

Any advice welcome 🙈😂

Hope18 · 17/10/2021 10:03

@Indianna2006 here's the pic of app.

Anyone else ttc #2?
Indianna2006 · 17/10/2021 10:07

@hope18

Okay so from that with a 28 day cycle and ovulating CD15 ish and 24 days cycle ovulating CD12 ish probably means your luteal phase (phase after ovulation) is usually 12/13 days.
So whenever you ovulate, regardless of whether is CD12 or CD15 you’re period should be expected 12/13 days later. So your right in thinking by that as you ovulated a bit earlier this cycle, you are likely to have a cycle length which is shorter more like 24/25 days this month.

But for testing “6 days before period” which is states on these tests obv cannot relate to each individual as our cycles and luteal phases are all diff lengths. So it uses a standard cycle and it’s where they get there stats from.
So a standard cycle is ovulate day 14. 14 day luteal phase and 28 day cycle. So AF shows up 15dpo on CD29. That is what clearblue and any others will use in testing and stats etc as they can only do it based on a standard cycle.

So for example, the fact it states can determine a pregnancy 6 days before expected period date. “Period day” for that reference is 15dpo. So it’s saying it can detect a pregnancy earliest at 9dpo.

Your luteal phase is shorter by a day or 2. Still a normal length. But therefore you can’t test 6 days before your period because it’s too early. Cos that makes you 7dpo. Does that make sense?

So realistically every single person needs to wait until 9dpo for those tests to use. Regardless of when there period is due. Can’t use the period as such need you need to go by days past ovulation.

So hence prob still too early for you to test. And the percentage of positives on 9dpo is only like 30% ish. And by day of expected period at 15dpo 99% would be positive.

Lots of period assume they can go by there own period etc but it isn’t actually what it means it means expected period of a standard cycle and 14 day luteal phase. if you don’t have a 14 day luteal phase you need to adjust the days etc to be relevant to you

🤣🤣🤣🙈🙈 I hope I’ve explained that well an it makes sense?

Indianna2006 · 17/10/2021 10:09

Yes I’d prob say your 8dpo today and likely ovulated CD13. Got lots of BD in so you stand a good chance 🥰🤞🏼

2dpo today for me..😅🤦🏻‍♀️

Hope18 · 17/10/2021 10:21

Omg @Indianna2006 can you just move in with me please? 😂😂 Your knowledge its absolutely amazing.
Are you in this line of work? If not-I feel you should be haha!

So yes, what you've said does make sense.
And tbh looking back at my first pregnancy, I had a negative test a week before AF due, had brown spotting when AF would have been which probably was implantation.. And got a clear positive about 3 days after spotting..

Hopefully going to track ovulation more next cycle so I'll know exact date etc!
Also it's so hard because deep down you just know your never going to get a defo answer until AF arrives but I just can't manage to wait😂🙈

I have some asda cheapies which knowing me, I'll do one Wednesday or Thursday if no AF xx

Chivari · 17/10/2021 10:26

Hey @Hope18 - sorry about that, sending you a hug! but as @Indianna2006 has said (and wow again Indianna you are so knowledgeable!) , even on the early tests you may be too early to test. So don’t worry! You’re not out until AF arrived and you dtd at the right times by the look of it so there is no reason why you can’t be pregnant lovely. Keep positive! I know it’s difficult and the TWW drags soooo much. Since cycle 1, I’ve given up testing early as it messes with my mind. Although I know it’s hard to resist!

Hope18 · 17/10/2021 10:29

@chivari thank you 💖💖 it defo does mess with our minds! Next cycle I'm going to wait until missed AF.
I'm making that promise to myself.

And you guys 😂😍
I'll keep you updated this week ladies!

Indianna2006 · 17/10/2021 11:44

@Hope18 haha nope deff don’t work in that field. Just have a methodical brain I think 😂😂 like a wise ole man haha.

🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼 We have to have a new BFP this cycle from someone!

Mim21 · 17/10/2021 13:02

Hey ladies hope everyone is ok!

I'm trying not to look at my app at the mo trying to be an ostrich this cycle about my dpo so i don't obsess and keep my head in the sand a bit, only thing to report is some slight twinges on my right side at the mo, nothing else. Previous 3 cycles i've had twinges on my left side after ovulation which i'd hoped were something but never were, so the right side ones (alongside the usual left side ones) are my little glimmer of hope hahah.

@Hope18 definitely a bit early for a BFP i think so still keeping my fingers crossed for you!

Sending positive vibes to everyone!

Hope18 · 17/10/2021 14:10

@mim21
Fingers crossed your different feelings are a BFP on its way! When is AF due? I really need to try and not look into timings and dates probably would help the stress! 🥰

@Indianna2006 hopefully we all get BFP soon! Xx

Mim21 · 18/10/2021 10:45

@Hope18 I think I'm 10 dpo now, I looked at the dreaded app hahah. I reckon AF will have arrived by Friday if she's going to, I'll probs cave and test on Weds but I'm not feeling hopeful, I'd so love it to happen this month!

With my first I had sore boobs by 10 DPO i think but dont have anything to speak of at the mo.

This thread is due some more positives soon ✨✨

Indianna2006 · 18/10/2021 11:26

@Mim21 oooh exciting a tester soon haha! 🤞🏼🤞🏼 Try hold out until Wednesday like you said as you will be 12dpo then.

You never know tho. 1st pregnancy my boobs were sooo sore and swollen I knew before I tested.
With 2nd pregnancy so my successful one which gave me DD. Nothing. Not a sausage of a symptom. At all. 🤷🏻‍♀️😂 was so shocked when it said positive as for sure felt like I was out!

roro87 · 18/10/2021 11:26

Hi All, hoping I can join and the luck here rubs off on me. I have a son 10months and he took 18-20 months to conceive, 18 actively trying. We started trying this month but might have missed my ovulation window as has ewcm for a full week. of that week DTD day 1, 4 & 6 so fingers crossed. Will start using opks next week.
Have a lot more discharge since having a baby in general so hard to tell. currently day 4-6 dpo

Mim21 · 18/10/2021 11:56

Thanks @Indianna2006 it's good to hear how different pregnancies can be in one person!

Welcome @roro87 hope you get your BFP soon! ✨

Chanel05 · 18/10/2021 17:36

Finished af yesterday and now on cd6. I ovulated on cd16 last cycle so i have a little bit of time I think!

Anyone else around the same point in their cycle?

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Hope18 · 18/10/2021 21:36

@Indianna2006 defo good hearing how your two symptoms were total opposites as I'm the same as you @Mim21 with DD I had back ache and sore boobs and acid reflux..
Welcome @roro87
This past two days minor boob tenderness and minor backache but very usual for AF. Also I've scoffed loads of chocolate cake today and I always crave chocolate a few days before AF 🙄🙈
🐷

Not sure I'll test now until Saturday..

(so she says) 😂😂

@Chivari how are you darling?

Welcome @roro87 sounds like you DTD a good amount of days etc though!! When AF due? Xx