Give my my bfp!!! 🙈🙌🤞🤞

[Skl2021]

New thread for us ladies trying to conceive baby #3!!!

@Skl2021 I would definitely get it checked out. Hopefully they’ll find a reason for it. It’s scary bleeding when you get closer to the ‘safe’ time. I had a little bit around that time but it was only when I wiped, I put it down to my body stretching. Have you called the EPU yet? Xx

@Nikkic2123 thankyou 💕
@Nats7504 Its scaring me because it's bright red and I'm getting period pains. Previous bleeding had no pains. Scared to go to the toilet 😩 yes IV got an appointment at 11 so not long to wait now 🤞 xx

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 thankyou 💕
@Nats7504 Its scaring me because it's bright red and I'm getting period pains. Previous bleeding had no pains. Scared to go to the toilet 😩 yes IV got an appointment at 11 so not long to wait now 🤞 xx[/quote]
Really hoping all is well x

@Skl2021 Oh no, that must be so worrying. I have everything crossed for you lovely. Let us know how you get on x

@Nikkic2123 @Nats7504 I have lost the baby at 10 weeks. We are heartbroken x

[quote Skl2021]**@Nikkic2123* @Nats7504* I have lost the baby at 10 weeks. We are heartbroken x[/quote]
Oh no! I’m so sorry. I have no words.
I lost my baby in June at 9 weeks, I know I wanted to curl up and be alone.
I’m not saying I know how you feel but I know it feels awful and no words can describe the devastation.
Keep talking to your family, I’m so so very sorry

@Nikkic2123 that's pretty much how I feel. I'm in shock / disbalief. Angry upset. Just can't process it all. If you don't mind me asking can I ask if you miscarried naturally? I'm pretty scared of what's about to happen now 😭 xx

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 that's pretty much how I feel. I'm in shock / disbalief. Angry upset. Just can't process it all. If you don't mind me asking can I ask if you miscarried naturally? I'm pretty scared of what's about to happen now 😭 xx[/quote]
I did, it was horrendous. I started bleeding normally on a Tuesday, the following Friday I soaked two pads an hour until I passed a huge clot, I then bled normally but heavy until the Monday I passed the gestational sack (it was 2cm)

I thanked God for small mercies, as my cycle went back to normal pretty soon after.
My pregnancy tests were positive for 5 weeks after! I’ll never forget it and I’m still devastated by the whole ordeal. I feel like “why me” I must be a really bad person. 😭
I’m so sorry, I hate that this has happened to you.
If you want any more questions answered, I’m here x

@Skl2021 Aww lovely. I wasn’t expecting that message. I’m so sorry 😞 My heart breaks for you both. 💔 You too @Nikkic2123 life is so bloody cruel. Xx

@Nikkic2123 I'm so sorry you have been through this 😭 it's devastating I am just overcome with different emotions. Don't think like that your not a bad person these things happen 💔 it's such a cruel world sometimes. I'm going to try the natural route but I'm just so scared of what's going to happen. I'm hoping it starts soon aswell. How long did it take for you to start? I should be 12 weeks tomorrow and baby was 10 so I'm 2 weeks waiting now xx

@Nats7504 thankyou 💞 I don't know what to do or feel. It's like it's not real I really wasn't expecting this outcome 😭 xx

@Skl2021 I don’t think anyone does when you are pretty much 12 weeks. You think you’re safe and through the worst. I’ve never been through it so have no experience but I can only imagine how scary the process must be. Be kind to yourself.. cry, mourn, scream when you need too. Xx

@Nats7504 you never think it will happen to you until it does 😩💔 I think I'm just numb need a few days to let it sink in. I thought I was safe especially after seeing a strong heartbeat but it wasn't meant to be. I don't know if I can do this again 😭 xx

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 I'm so sorry you have been through this 😭 it's devastating I am just overcome with different emotions. Don't think like that your not a bad person these things happen 💔 it's such a cruel world sometimes. I'm going to try the natural route but I'm just so scared of what's going to happen. I'm hoping it starts soon aswell. How long did it take for you to start? I should be 12 weeks tomorrow and baby was 10 so I'm 2 weeks waiting now xx[/quote]
I was 9 weeks but baby stopped growing at 7 weeks.
We went for a private scan on Monday thinking everything was ok, there was no heartbeat. I was referred to the hospital and got an appointment on the Wednesday but started bleeding by coincidence the day after the scan, the day before hospital appointment, they were happy to let it pass through itself and warned if I soaked more that 3 pads an hour I’d to go straight to a&e

This is for anyone who needs it!
I seen it today! Life has dealt me some very shitty hands! This i can relate to.

@Nikkic2123 thankyou. I hope it happens soon I just want it over with now. The waiting is horrible. Thanks for that picture we will get through this 💕 I hope you get your happy ever after soon 🤞 xx

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 thankyou. I hope it happens soon I just want it over with now. The waiting is horrible. Thanks for that picture we will get through this 💕 I hope you get your happy ever after soon 🤞 xx[/quote]
Some people need the time to process etc, I just wanted it over with too. I wanted to start again.
I’m still hoping for my rainbow 🌈 baby, I’m on cycle 5.
Trying every month, this month I’m not opk testing.
I’m sorry again x

@Nikkic2123 yes I just want to be able to move on don't want to drag it out it's hard enough. I was going to ask if your meant to wait to try or if u need to wait for period. I'm still in two minds whether I want to ATM. Maybe the stopping of the opks might be helpful for you sometimes It can be stressful testing xx

@Skl2021 I know lovely, we always believe when hope it happens to someone else. I’m so gutted for you and been thinking of you all today. 💔 I hope things happen for you soon so you can start to think of how to move on from this. I hope your OH is at home with you giving you lots of cuddles, it’s a horrible time for you both xx

@Nats7504 I just need to get through these next few weeks 🤞😩 I'm absolutely terrified now. Yes I have oh here and my boys. Trying to take my mind off it with some Halloween decorations need to try and keep it normalish for them 💙 xx

[quote Skl2021]@Nats7504 I just need to get through these next few weeks 🤞😩 I'm absolutely terrified now. Yes I have oh here and my boys. Trying to take my mind off it with some Halloween decorations need to try and keep it normalish for them 💙 xx[/quote]
When I found out on the Monday there was no heart beat, I had to get up on Tuesday morning, get the kids breakfast, ready and out the door to school. Pretending all was well.
I was told I could try when I was ready. That asked me to wait one month so they could accurately date the next pregnancy xx

@Nikkic2123 yes life goes on doesn't it I'm just scared IL get a gush or something will happen when I'm out 😩 I will get there thankyou for the support 💕 x

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 yes life goes on doesn't it I'm just scared IL get a gush or something will happen when I'm out 😩 I will get there thankyou for the support 💕 x[/quote]
Keep thick pads on. Good luck, I’ll let you be now, check back in, in a few days when you have had a chance to get your head round it, take care 😘

@Skl2021 You’ll get through it. Us women are made of strong stuff. Day at a time. Hopefully your body will start it off naturally for you. The boys will be a good distraction. Big hugs lovely ❤️ Xx

@Skl2021 Hey lovely. Just wanted to check in on you. Hope you’re ok ❤️ Xx