Give my my bfp!!! 🙈🙌🤞🤞

[Skl2021]

New thread for us ladies trying to conceive baby #3!!!

@Nats7504 hey 👋 thanks for checking in! Nice to speak to people other than my oh 🙊 I'm doing ok. As good as can be. It's a tough time but I'm doing my best to ride this storm. Sometimes I'm ok and then others I just break down. Trying everything to keep my mind of it as all I can think about is getting pregnant again. Xx

@Skl2021 I can imagine. Your emotions and hormones must be all over the place. How is your OH doing?

From what I’ve been told by friends etc, wanting to get pregnant ASAP is very normal. You’re meant to be very fertile afterwards too. Do what feels right for you, that’s all you can do xx

@Nats7504 hes doing ok. He's had to work through it all so it's been tough. Had a nice weekend together and then today I feel a bit lonely again as he's back at work. I do have the kids off but they don't know what where going through and wanting to go here there and everywhere. And I can't keep up with it. So I'm having to be the mean mum and say no to alot of things 😩 my body isn't ready yet I feel so weak and tired.

Yes it's crazy how my head is like no way not after what IV been through but my heart is like desperate to be pregnant again. It's literally all I think about it's mad. I find myself on the pregnancy boards stil on here like nothing has happened. Driving me mad. Guess I can't do anything until I either ovulate or my period turns up. Knowing my luck with my cycles it will be ages before it returns! 🙈 Xx

@Skl2021 Oh, you didn’t tell the boys did you. Did you tell anyone else? You need support as it’s a lot for you to take on. I would be a mess and useless. Your boys won’t remember any of this so listen to your body and rest. It’s been such a big thing. That’s shit that he’s had to work through it all, some people find going back to normal straight away helps and others don’t. When my mum died, my sisters and I all dealt with it completely different.

You were pregnant for 3 months lovely, your mindset won’t change that quickly and I would be looking at them too. I hope your body knows what to do and if you want to try again it will happen soon for you xx

@Nats7504 yes I had to tell them. We just said baby was poorly and had to go to heaven. My youngest was ok as he doesn't understand but my eldest asked if he can have another one day and my heart broke 💔 I think that's what's pushing me to do it again the fact he was so excited. And like you said it was three months and we had all these plans and hope and dreams that just don't go away overnight. Yes I'm trying to go back to normal and do as much as I can but I feel lost like I can't remember what I did before I got pregnant if that makes sense. I had all the next few months planed with appointments and reveals and scans etc and now I just feel lost like I have nothing to do. My scan should have been tomorrow so I think it will be a tough day for me 😭 And I'm still getting appointment reminders by text and last week I got a letter. Just another kick while your down xx

@Skl2021 Aww, that must’ve been hard to tell them when it wasn’t good news. I worried about something going wrong and mine knowing so early. At least with them knowing you don’t have to hide your emotion or if you’re having a bad day. Day at a time lovely. I’m so sorry this has happened. 😞 reading that message makes my heart hurt for you. It’s so unfair and sad that women have to go through this. Tomorrow will be tough and make sure you’re easy on yourself and let yourself feel what you need to feel. Cuddle the boys and your OH xx

@Nats7504 I have been trying not to cry in front of them and be as normal as I can for them. Don't want them getting upset too. I can't believe how many women go through this it's scary! I never thought it would happen to me and then it did. I just wish the bleeding will stop soon as it's just a constant reminder. It's a tough process doing it naturally I don't think your prepared for what is going to happen and the fact your left to do it alone. It's just like labour. It just wasn't meant to be this time. Hopefully I get another chance 🤞 xx

[quote Skl2021]@Nats7504 I have been trying not to cry in front of them and be as normal as I can for them. Don't want them getting upset too. I can't believe how many women go through this it's scary! I never thought it would happen to me and then it did. I just wish the bleeding will stop soon as it's just a constant reminder. It's a tough process doing it naturally I don't think your prepared for what is going to happen and the fact your left to do it alone. It's just like labour. It just wasn't meant to be this time. Hopefully I get another chance 🤞 xx[/quote]
Thinking about you x

@Nikkic2123 thankyou 💞 I think I'm over the worst. I passed the baby on Wednesday. Think the bleeding is slowing down now. Well on and off. Just getting alot of period pains now but guess it's my body trying to get back to normal. It was a horrible process to go through well still going through the bleeding is just a constant reminder. Can't wait to get through this and hopefully try again even through its the thought is so scary xx

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 thankyou 💞 I think I'm over the worst. I passed the baby on Wednesday. Think the bleeding is slowing down now. Well on and off. Just getting alot of period pains now but guess it's my body trying to get back to normal. It was a horrible process to go through well still going through the bleeding is just a constant reminder. Can't wait to get through this and hopefully try again even through its the thought is so scary xx[/quote]
I bled for 2 weeks it was awful I ovulated about 3 weeks after the first day of bleeding, I couldn’t test tho as my tests were still positive for pregnancy and for LH xx

@Nikkic2123 I was also wondering this. How did you know you were ovulating if all the tests were still positive? I get ewcm around ovulation but apart from that I wouldn't know I'm ovulating without the test! Xx

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 I was also wondering this. How did you know you were ovulating if all the tests were still positive? I get ewcm around ovulation but apart from that I wouldn't know I'm ovulating without the test! Xx[/quote]
I can feel Ovulation every month so I took a guess, I started bleeding on 1st June, period came 4th July, when I counted back I was right when I thought I felt it. X

@Nikkic2123 ahh I see I don't get any symptoms just ewcm but I can get that for around a week so still wouldn't know when ovulation actually is. I don't know if I should try straight away or wait especially if my tests are still positive it might get a bit confusing wouldn't know if I was pregnant again. The thought of going back to ttc is draining it can be such a long hard process. X

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 ahh I see I don't get any symptoms just ewcm but I can get that for around a week so still wouldn't know when ovulation actually is. I don't know if I should try straight away or wait especially if my tests are still positive it might get a bit confusing wouldn't know if I was pregnant again. The thought of going back to ttc is draining it can be such a long hard process. X[/quote]
It’s a terrible journey, but I’m thankful I’m in a position of a happy marriage and secure family unit to be able to try, some people aren’t unfortunately. I’m nearing Ovulation again now, my last period was slightly more settled that previous ones, I’ve no headaches this cycle after my period and up to Ovulation do something got better x
If you get pregnant again, your tests will keep getting darker, it will be easy to tell.
Maybe wait for your own peace of mind.
I’ll be 42 in December, I’ve blood tests 7 days after ovulation, I wasn’t going to test this month but I’ll do one cd 13/14 then again 15/16 so I know when to go for tests xx

@Nikkic2123 aww yes I'm fortunate that I have support and love around me too 💞 glad things are finally settling for you. Yes I took a pregnancy test and an ovulation test and they are stil really dark don't think you could get much darker 😩 never wanted a pregnancy test to go lighter so much!! Xx

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 aww yes I'm fortunate that I have support and love around me too 💞 glad things are finally settling for you. Yes I took a pregnancy test and an ovulation test and they are stil really dark don't think you could get much darker 😩 never wanted a pregnancy test to go lighter so much!! Xx[/quote]
If u test again in 7-10 days I think u will see a significant difference providing all passed through ok, stay strong, hoping we both get there again x

@Nikkic2123 I hope so it's not nice seeing them so strong. Finding today quite hard I should be here now with my 13 week scan pictures and announcing it to family 😭 such a cruel world. Just about holding it together. Hope you have success this month got Everything crossed for you 🤞🤞 your near ovulation now arnt you? Xx

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 I hope so it's not nice seeing them so strong. Finding today quite hard I should be here now with my 13 week scan pictures and announcing it to family 😭 such a cruel world. Just about holding it together. Hope you have success this month got Everything crossed for you 🤞🤞 your near ovulation now arnt you? Xx[/quote]
I’m cd11 do any day from cd 13 onwards x
I need to do a few opks to get right Day for bloods next week, I’ve been so relaxed I’m afraid of forgetting but I’ll stay chilled- I’ll dip an opk tomo and see where I’m at with the strength of it, I don’t want it to go to the forefront of my mind

@Nikkic2123 sounds like your doing the right thing! It sometimes consumes you and causes so much stress! It will happen when you least expect 🤞 I feel myself getting dragged back into the ttc life. Can't seem to relax it consumed me too 🙈😩 Lets hope this thread is lucky and were able to get our 🌈 xx

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 sounds like your doing the right thing! It sometimes consumes you and causes so much stress! It will happen when you least expect 🤞 I feel myself getting dragged back into the ttc life. Can't seem to relax it consumed me too 🙈😩 Lets hope this thread is lucky and were able to get our 🌈 xx[/quote]
I think you need to hit the peak of ttc and it’s then you say, I give up, it’s then it happens.
(Secretly we don’t give up tho, always have a little hope)

@Skl2021 You’re doing amazing lady. ❤️ Be kind on yourself today, it’s going to be an emotionally tough one.

Both of you ladies amaze me with your strength. I’ve been very lucky to have never experienced loss and can’t imagine the strength you need to get through it and try again. Xx

@Nikkic2123 yes definitely have hope we will get there 👋💞

@Nats7504 yes it's a hard one today. It's just the thoughts of what we could of had. But it wasn't meant to be 💔 such a horrible experience I wish people didn't go through this it's devastating. After what I went through with my youngest and now this I didn't think I would have the strength to try again. So I'm proud of myself for fighting on and doing my best to get through it all. It's amazing how much strength you find in the darkest times 🌟 hope keeps me going. I keep being drawn to that name and I'm sure the baby was a girl so I think I will name her hope and she gives me hope to keep going 💞 xx

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 yes definitely have hope we will get there 👋💞

@Nats7504 yes it's a hard one today. It's just the thoughts of what we could of had. But it wasn't meant to be 💔 such a horrible experience I wish people didn't go through this it's devastating. After what I went through with my youngest and now this I didn't think I would have the strength to try again. So I'm proud of myself for fighting on and doing my best to get through it all. It's amazing how much strength you find in the darkest times 🌟 hope keeps me going. I keep being drawn to that name and I'm sure the baby was a girl so I think I will name her hope and she gives me hope to keep going 💞 xx[/quote]

How you doing @Skl2021 ? X

@Nikkic2123 thanks for checking in on me 💕 I think I'm over the worst. Some days are hard dont get me wrong but I'm starting to be a bit more positive. The bleeding has stopped however I'm still like spotting when I wipe. So don't know if I should wait until that's completely stopped. I took a pregnancy test yesterday for the first time and it's nearly negative. Like the tinyest shadow of a line which u can't see unless you really look. So hoping this is a good sign? I will be two weeks post miscarriage this Wednesday. My opks are still really positive so don't know what's happening there unless it's picking up the tinyest bit of HCG left. Just want to think positive and try again when it's time xx

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How you getting on?