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Give my my bfp!!! 🙈🙌🤞🤞

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Skl2021 · 24/07/2021 13:28

New thread for us ladies trying to conceive baby #3!!!

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Nats7504 · 14/09/2021 18:32

@Skl2021 I know! I don’t dare look at any as it feels like jinxing stuff. Plus as you said they cost a fortune. Can you not blag another gift for this baby? It’s been a while since your last 🙈 Did you OH agree to telling the folks?
@Nikkic2123 Welcome to the group. It’s pretty quiet and only us 2 on here. We’ve both had a fairly POAS obsession before we got out BFP and now anxious messes 🙈 I hope your journey is a quick one and it’s a sticky bean xx

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Lozzie118 · 17/09/2021 13:20

Well I'm back after my early pregnancy loss a few months ago CD1 xx

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Springflower3 · 17/09/2021 14:44

Hello ladies!!!!! I am so sorry about doing a disappearing act! I had the most horrendous sickness, I feel like I have Slept and vomited or the last 7 weeks!!
How are we?????? @Skl2021 massive massive massive congrats on your BFP!! How far along are you.??
@Nats7504 have you had your 12 week scan?? What's your due date?? Xx

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Skl2021 · 17/09/2021 14:52

@Nats7504 how did the scan go!!
@Lozzie118 sorry to hear that! Hopefully this is the month for you 🤞🤞
@Springflower3 yaaaayyy! Your back! How's the morning sickness now? I'm 7+2 😁🙌 have a bit of sickness and really tired all the time!! Were are you upto have u had scan?! Xx

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Springflower3 · 17/09/2021 15:43

@Skl2021 you are flying through this!!! Hopefully the sickness doesn't get much worse!! 😬😬 have you told many people??

I had my 12 scan last week so I'm actually near 14 weeks now.... and the sickness has defo subsided but if I'm hungry it comes back! It's the strangest thing! Also my bump is so big and noticeable!! Must be cause it is 3rd pregnancy! Xx

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Skl2021 · 17/09/2021 15:48

@Springflower3 I was so worried about you as you hadn't come back on!! I was on my lonesome on here! Then I got my bfp and had no one to share it with! Then nats finally came back 🙌 now you 🤣🙌 aww wow did everything go ok? I had an early scan on Tuesday as I had some bleeding. Haven't got my 12 week appointment yet and haven't seen a midwife yet. We have only told immediate family. My kids don't know yet! Yes I feel sick if I'm hungry and then sick when I eat 🤣 can't win but I'm never sick just constant feeling sick 🙈 hope it goes I hate it already. Oh my don't say that I feel like a whale already 🙈🤣 xx

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Nats7504 · 17/09/2021 17:32

@Springflower3 Welcome back lovely!! 😊 We were shit buddies and left poor @Skl2021 on her own 🙈 You sound like you’ve been suffering too. I literally thought I was going to die 🤣 Starting to feel better now though. I had my scan yesterday and all was well, I’m due 21st March. Just waiting on my screening blood tests now. Anxious to know that everything is ok so I can get excited.

@Skl2021 Glad your scan went ok lovely. Take it all the bleeding has stopped? Sorry you’re starting to feel pants. Don’t you hate it when people tell you it’s a good sign?! 🙄 xx

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Nats7504 · 17/09/2021 17:33

@Lozzie118 Sorry to hear your back again 😞 I hope it’s a very short stay for you xx

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Skl2021 · 29/09/2021 09:14

@Nats7504 @Springflower3 how we all doing ladies 💞 xx

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Nats7504 · 01/10/2021 09:06

@Skl2021 Hey lovely, sorry for the late reply, I didn’t get a notification 😘

I’m doing ok, sickness has pretty much left the building so am going to start weaning myself off the tablets in the next week or so. Wish the tiredness would do one but I’m sleeping crap!

How are you? Feeling ok? Xx

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Skl2021 · 05/10/2021 12:54

@Nats7504 hey lovely! Sorry I went away for the weekend. Nice to get away and change scenery for a bit! Well my sickness is ramping up 🤦😩 I'm getting to the point now we're I'm so fed up it's actually depressing me! Had a few moments of I can't do this!! And why am I doing it. Are we making a big mistake etc etc 😩 hoping it passes soon as I can't deal with it. I'm never sick just feel sick 24/7 yesterday hit a new low running out of Asda mid shop borking 🙈🤦 and yes the tiredness I'm sat here now contemplating a nap but I feel shit after them 🤔 so can't win!! Xx

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Nats7504 · 11/10/2021 11:58

@Skl2021 Hey lovely! Sorry I’ve not been online so didn’t see your message.

A weekend away, how lovely. Get them in before baby arrives and you have a car load of stuff to take with you! 🤣

I’m sorry to hear you’re suffering with sickness, it’s grim isn’t it? I contemplated a termination as it got so bad and my mental health plummeted. Have you spoken to your doctor about getting some meds?

I still feel queasy with meds at 17 weeks but I can live with that! We found out at the weekend that we’re having a boy 💙 I am going to be surrounded by testosterone 🙈 xx

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Skl2021 · 11/10/2021 12:27

@Nats7504 lovely to hear from you again!! I can definitely see where your coming from with the sickness and mine was no were near as bad as yours!! I was also saying I didn't want to carry on and then I felt guilty for feeling like that when IV wanted this baby for so long! But it just completely takes your life away my mental health was also terrible I was miserable! I think it's starting to get better don't want to say it too soon and then it comes back with avengance!! But these last couple of weeks were tough! So 🤞🤞 hope your settles soon aswell!!
Omg congratulations 🎉💕💙 how lovely your not 20 weeks already are you 🙊 this is flying by!! We are thinking of going private to find out at 16 weeks as I want to know asap 😂🤦 I have my 13 week scan 2 weeks tomorrow 🙌 need it to hurry up! Xx

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Nats7504 · 11/10/2021 12:51

@Skl2021 I’m so glad it’s starting to settle, that’s really promising. Once the placenta kicks in most sickness starts to ease.

Have you told the kids yet? 👶 Will they be happy? Your pregnancy is flying by if your scan is only a few weeks away. Does it feel real yet?

I’m 17 weeks and found out with a private scan, my 20 week is in 3 weeks time. It’s flying by to be fair. Life is hectic! OH is bouncing to start buying everything xx

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Nikkic2123 · 11/10/2021 12:57

@Lozzie118

I've got neck pain and been Googling........:I am a nightmare!!xx

I've had weird pain in one side of my neck. It's weird.
Was this before off after your BFP?
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Skl2021 · 11/10/2021 13:04

@Nats7504 it's still there on and off but I'm praying it's starting to end 🙌 yes we told the kids. Eldest was happy and youngest said he didn't want one and wants a dog 🤦🤣 I think he's slowly coming round to the idea. Maybe when I get a belly or they can feel baby move it might sink in more. Yes I'm 11 weeks tomorrow! And nope doesn't feel real at all. I just keep thinking something will go wrong. Have use told anyone else yet? Aww bet your oh is over the moon! Have u started buying yet? I don't know when I should start but we need everything so need to start soon! And Christmas coming up everything is getting expensive! Xx

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Nats7504 · 11/10/2021 13:10

@Skl2021 Aww bless them. They fear the unknown. I’m sure he will come round once he understands what it means. He will be a big brother instead of the little one 💙

Wow, 11 weeks already. It’s scary how quickly it flies by doesn’t it. You’ll have to make a list and start getting organised!

We’ve told most people now as I’m starting to show and nearly half way through. We bought a few outfits after the scan but apart from that, nothing! We have to buy everything too 🙈 xx

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Skl2021 · 11/10/2021 13:35

@Nats7504 yes I'm sure he will 💙 are you boys excited? Yes I need a list 🤣 just don't want to start too early 🙈 but I am desperate to start buying 🤦 oooo have u got a noticeable bump? I hope I don't get a bump too early I'm clumsy and unbalanced already 🤣 nearly went flying at work the other day with plates in my hands and that without a bump 😂🙈 have u started thinking names? Xx

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Nikkic2123 · 11/10/2021 13:48

Hi girls, I'm 7dpo and feeling a bit glum.

That's great you are both so far in now. This is my 4/5th cycle after my mc in June. Still early days but feels like a life time. We feel after 4/5 months trying and mc at 9 weeks. Almost a year from first trying 😭

I'm holding out for those two beautiful pink lines in a week or so. AF is due this Saturday or Sunday.

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Skl2021 · 11/10/2021 14:12

@Nikkic2123 sorry you have had such a hard time! We al go through times when we are low but you will get there. Keep the faith 🤞🤞 hopefully you get them lovely pink lines very soon! 💕 Good luck with testing 🙌 xx

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Nikkic2123 · 11/10/2021 14:16

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 sorry you have had such a hard time! We al go through times when we are low but you will get there. Keep the faith 🤞🤞 hopefully you get them lovely pink lines very soon! 💕 Good luck with testing 🙌 xx[/quote]
Thanks, I’m not a pre period tester. I’ll most likely wait until my AF doesn’t turn up x

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Skl2021 · 11/10/2021 14:32

@Nikkic2123 oh I was the opposite started testing stupidly early every time even though there was no chance it would be positive 🤦🙊🙈 got my 🤞🤞 for you not long to wait now xx

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Nats7504 · 11/10/2021 15:01

@Skl2021 I’m starting to get a little bump now and can feel him move around. My stomach muscles must be shot 🤣 The boys are made up I’m pregnant but don’t know what we’re having yet as they want to find out with a gender reveal football that they kick 🙄 Do you have one of each?

Getting a bump makes it all the more real. Do you have any maternity stuff from last time? I went out and got some bits from H&M at the weekend.

@Nikkic2123 I’m sorry to hear you’re having a hard time at the moment. TTC is such an emotional period and not the exciting time that it’s made out to be. I felt so low at time.

We took 9 cycles to conceive this one and I honestly thought it would never happen for us. Are you using ovulation sticks? I only ask as I ovulate earlier than I thought so pretty much missed the peak! Xx

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Skl2021 · 11/10/2021 15:08

@Nats7504 omg that's so weird u just said that I was thinking the exact same reveal 🤯🤯 no I have 2 boys so desperate for a girl but if it's a boy it will be loved the same! They are football mad! Have u managed to find one? And no maternity stuff left and I can feel my pants getting tighter so will need pants soon 🤦🙈 xx

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Nikkic2123 · 11/10/2021 16:22

@Nats7504
I’m using opks every month. I managed to hit the relevant days except Ovulation day. This month.
I’d love To be able to join in the pregnancy talk. 🤞
I’ve a boy 7 & girl 5 so am very blessed already x

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