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Give my my bfp!!! 🙈🙌🤞🤞

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Skl2021 · 24/07/2021 13:28

New thread for us ladies trying to conceive baby #3!!!

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Nats7504 · 05/09/2021 13:30

@Skl2021 I chased the midwife to check she’d actually put the request through. I just want to know that everything is ok with baby!

Brown blood is old blood, I had it got a few hours around 5 weeks. Have you DTD recently? I think you ring the EPU at your local hospital but I’m not 100% sure xx

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Skl2021 · 05/09/2021 16:11

@Nats7504 yes don't u have to have it before s certain time for tests and stuff? Yes I'm 5 weeks now but no I haven't DTD or anything so don't know were it's come from 🤔 I don't even think we have a epu at our hospital it's not very big xx

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Nats7504 · 05/09/2021 18:53

@Skl2021 I’m not sure of the weeks but I think you need to be under a certain amount to have the screening test. Hopefully I’ll get the letter next week. 🙈
Hopefully it’s just baby getting comfy. Has it stopped now? XX

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Skl2021 · 05/09/2021 20:15

@Nats7504 yes I hope they get a wriggle on for you!! Must be hard waiting when your desperate to see baby 💞 maybe there's 2 in there 👀🤣 well IV been having it all day today only when I wipe like a brown watery discharge 🙈 sorry tmi!!! Wasn't as bad last time I went to the toilet so hoping it's stopping 🤞 xx

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Nats7504 · 05/09/2021 21:38

@Skl2021 I am starting to get a bit impatient as I want to be able to tell people and not hide away like I have been doing. 🙈 I hope there’s only 2 in there!!
It’s promising that it’s still brown and decreasing! Try not to worry, I know that’s easier said than done 🤷🏻‍♀️ Keep an eye on it and ring the drs if it doesn’t go XX

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Skl2021 · 14/09/2021 14:08

@Nats7504 how u doing 😁 xx

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Nats7504 · 14/09/2021 14:23

@Skl2021 Hey lovely! I was thinking of you the other day.

How are you getting on? Seen the midwife yet?

I’m doing ok, have my scan in Thursday so very nervous. I’ll be 13+4 so pretty late. I feel much better, although still on the anti sickness meds and don’t dare come off them yet xx

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Skl2021 · 14/09/2021 14:30

@Nats7504 I was thinking of you to hoping your sickness was getting better!! Well my all day sickness has started 😩 I'm never actually sick just constant sick feeling. I also caught a cold off the kids So not been feeling great it floored me. I also have been bleeding again since last week still am now so I managed to get a early scan this morning were thankfully baby is doing fine 🤞🙌 so I can breathe again now. They can't find a reason for the bleeding and I just hope it doesn't get any worse. X

Give my my bfp!!! 🙈🙌🤞🤞
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Nats7504 · 14/09/2021 15:33

@Skl2021 Oh no, bet that was worrying. Glad the scan went well and baby was healthy. Did you bleed with your other 2?

Sickness is so joke is it? Gets you really down and you feel helpless to it. XX

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Skl2021 · 14/09/2021 15:42

@Nats7504 im so glad it went well was prepared for the worst! Nope not had bleeding with the others so this is a different journey for me! And yes no joke I feel useless all I want to do is sleep! Feel bad for the kids as I can't do anything. Cant imagine what u went through yours was another level!! Glad you finally have scan! So excited for you they have made u wait long enough 🤦🙈 bet you can't wait now! Xx

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Nats7504 · 14/09/2021 15:49

@Skl2021 I think anyone would think the same when they see blood. It’s scary but also common and not always the worst case scenario. 3rd babies have a lot to answer for! Your last pregnancy too?! 🤣🙈
You need to rest and try and eat/drink when you can so you don’t end up feeling worse. The kids will understand. Have you told them yet?
I’ll feel better once we’ve had the scan and know everything’s ok. I go back to work next week and I they’ll ask why I’ve been off for the past 6 weeks too 🙈 xx

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Skl2021 · 14/09/2021 15:55

@Nats7504 yes definitely my last 🤣🙌🙌 can't handle the sickness and feeling crap getting to old for this shit!! Feel like death 🤣🙈 nope we haven't told them yet I'm only 7 weeks. We actually haven't told anyone yet! Don't know if we will tell our parents tonight now we have had the scan 🤔 haha yes are you going to tell them? Have u told anyone yet x

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Nats7504 · 14/09/2021 16:00

@Skl2021 Same for me. I don’t think me or my body is cut out for anymore. Im feeling 37 and struggling 🙈 We had to tell the boys as I was bedridden for 6 weeks and throwing up 10+ times a day so couldn’t hide it. Mine are older too so kind of guessed 🤦🏻‍♀️ We’ve told my sisters and his Mum, waiting until the scan for everyone else.
Tell them if you’re feeling rotten as they may have to help you with the kids if you feel worse in the coming weeks xx

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Skl2021 · 14/09/2021 16:06

@Nats7504 yes I keep saying to them I'm not well 🙈 everytime they want to go park or something and I'm just like wait for your dad to get home! Yes we might tell some people now I feel a bit better about the bleeding. Didn't want to tell people incase it was bad news xx

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Nats7504 · 14/09/2021 16:23

@Skl2021 I don’t understand why we have this concept of tell no one until after the scan. Surely we need the support during the first 12 weeks and if anything was to go wrong more than ever! Xx

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Skl2021 · 14/09/2021 16:25

@Nats7504 yes I know tell everyone once we have been through the shit 😂🤦 let me know how your scan goes on Thursday got Evey crossed for you 🙌🙌🤞🤞💞 xx

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Nats7504 · 14/09/2021 16:30

@Skl2021 it’s a weird British thing I think. Are you going to tell them tonight?
My DPs mum was bouncing when we told her. First and ONLY grandchild. She’s ready to buy everything so should be cheap for us 🤣 XX

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Skl2021 · 14/09/2021 16:34

@Nats7504 IL see what my partner says when he gets home from work. I don't think anyone will expect it 😂🤣 they all think we're done! 🙈 Aww I'm not surprised she was!! Haha let her buy everything 😉 it's so expensive!! Wish I had that option 🤣🙊 need a money tree 👀 xx

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Nats7504 · 14/09/2021 16:36

@Skl2021 Yeah, best have him onboard 🤣 although if you need a hand it might be good to have someone to help out. It’s hard work running a house and kids when feeling so shitty.
I intend on doing so! 🤣 I have no baby stuff as got rid of it after my youngest. She’s offered to buy the pram but she won’t be able to stop xx

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Nikkic2123 · 14/09/2021 16:38

Hi girls
Can I join? TTC no3.
Mc on 2nd June.
On cycle no 3 now 5DPO

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Skl2021 · 14/09/2021 16:40

@Nats7504 oh my I had a quick look at some prams and the prices are ridiculous 😬🤦 Yes we don't have anything left either so will be buying it all again you forget how dear everything is 🤦 xx

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Nikkic2123 · 14/09/2021 16:56

[quote Skl2021]@Nats7504 oh my I had a quick look at some prams and the prices are ridiculous 😬🤦 Yes we don't have anything left either so will be buying it all again you forget how dear everything is 🤦 xx[/quote]
Congratulations @Skl2021 &
@Nats7504

And everyone else x

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Skl2021 · 14/09/2021 16:58

@Nikkic2123 welcome! I don't know if there is alot on this thread it seems to have gone quiet! Sorry to hear about your MC. Good luck with this cycle 🤞🤞 xx

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Nikkic2123 · 14/09/2021 17:13

Thank you.
That’sa shame- great bunch of girls here

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Skl2021 · 14/09/2021 17:21

@Nikkic2123 your welcome to stay me and nats will help u along! Maybe some others may pop back on! X

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