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Give my my bfp!!! 🙈🙌🤞🤞

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Skl2021 · 24/07/2021 13:28

New thread for us ladies trying to conceive baby #3!!!

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Lozzie118 · 01/11/2021 17:43

[quote Nikkic2123]@Lozzie118

How you getting on?[/quote]
Completely missed this month tbh we were away with family and it just didn't happen. On to next month. Xx just caught up with the board x

Lozzie118 · 01/11/2021 17:45

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 thanks for checking in on me 💕 I think I'm over the worst. Some days are hard dont get me wrong but I'm starting to be a bit more positive. The bleeding has stopped however I'm still like spotting when I wipe. So don't know if I should wait until that's completely stopped. I took a pregnancy test yesterday for the first time and it's nearly negative. Like the tinyest shadow of a line which u can't see unless you really look. So hoping this is a good sign? I will be two weeks post miscarriage this Wednesday. My opks are still really positive so don't know what's happening there unless it's picking up the tinyest bit of HCG left. Just want to think positive and try again when it's time xx[/quote]
I am so sorry for your loss I hope you are ok x

Nikkic2123 · 01/11/2021 17:53

@Lozzie118 I’m 1dpo today, I want for testing but have blood tests 7dpo so I need to know when that was x

Skl2021 · 01/11/2021 18:26

@Lozzie118 thankyou been a tough few weeks but want to try again when everything settles down and hopefully ovulate again x

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Lozzie118 · 01/11/2021 20:13

To be honest after my early pregnancy loss in July my heart wants another but my head is telling me I'm scared to go through it all again. It's a scary process I know it's nothing like you have been through which I am terribly sorry for.x

Skl2021 · 01/11/2021 20:24

@Lozzie118 I totally understand how u feel the thought of going through this again absolutely terrifies me. So I am also scared of trying again but then part of me is desperate to be pregnant again. It's a hard one but I think I would regret if I don't try again. I would be an absolute nervous wreck if I got pregnant again tho 😩 I need to see when ovulation turns up for me now tho could be a long wait. Are u trying this month? Xx

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Lozzie118 · 01/11/2021 23:08

[quote Skl2021]@Lozzie118 I totally understand how u feel the thought of going through this again absolutely terrifies me. So I am also scared of trying again but then part of me is desperate to be pregnant again. It's a hard one but I think I would regret if I don't try again. I would be an absolute nervous wreck if I got pregnant again tho 😩 I need to see when ovulation turns up for me now tho could be a long wait. Are u trying this month? Xx[/quote]
I'm CD 18 and have missed ovulation this month, so waiting for next cycle. I am also desperate to be pregnant but worried about the heartache and uncertainty that may come with it x

Sootycat99 · 01/11/2021 23:10

Hi, sorry to jump on, i think i got a false positives on 2 freedom test strips from tesco a couple days ago, I've heard some say about false positives with the freedom brand, I also did a frer 3 days after and was negative , I’m waiting to test again tomorrow morning, please can anyone have a look xxx

Nikkic2123 · 02/11/2021 07:13

@Sootycat99

Hi, sorry to jump on, i think i got a false positives on 2 freedom test strips from tesco a couple days ago, I've heard some say about false positives with the freedom brand, I also did a frer 3 days after and was negative , I’m waiting to test again tomorrow morning, please can anyone have a look xxx
If you can upload them, I can look. If I were you I’d go by the frer if they were bought from a highstreet store and not online
Sootycat99 · 02/11/2021 08:04

@Nikkic2123 , hi nikki thank you ill upload now xx I brought frer on ebay xx

Give my my bfp!!! 🙈🙌🤞🤞
Give my my bfp!!! 🙈🙌🤞🤞
Give my my bfp!!! 🙈🙌🤞🤞
Nikkic2123 · 02/11/2021 09:23

[quote Sootycat99]@Nikkic2123 , hi nikki thank you ill upload now xx I brought frer on ebay xx[/quote]
I had a blazing positive on the strips in feb and an indent on same in august. It was false, was pink and looked like a real positive.
Confirmed false with aFRER
The frer are fake bought from eBay and Amazon. There also have very bad reviews. I would confirm positive or negative with a shop bought frer xx

I’ve added a picture of my False Positive back in Feb on those same strips.

Give my my bfp!!! 🙈🙌🤞🤞
Nikkic2123 · 05/11/2021 14:21

@Sootycat99 @Lozzie118 @Skl2021
How you getting on?

@Nats7504
How you doing? How many weeks are you now?
Hoping we all join you soon. Will not be without worry but what other choice would we have except not try 🤔 that's not an option for me xx

Skl2021 · 05/11/2021 14:32

@Nikkic2123 im doing ok. Just stuck in limbo land 🤣 so I'm still getting positive tests it will be 3 weeks next week so might have to ring epu and see what to do next. Bleeding has stopped however I still spot random times. My opks are like nearly positive aswell but guessing there picking up on the leftover HCG so I don't know where I am in my cycle. How u doing xx

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Nikkic2123 · 05/11/2021 14:44

[quote Skl2021]@Nikkic2123 im doing ok. Just stuck in limbo land 🤣 so I'm still getting positive tests it will be 3 weeks next week so might have to ring epu and see what to do next. Bleeding has stopped however I still spot random times. My opks are like nearly positive aswell but guessing there picking up on the leftover HCG so I don't know where I am in my cycle. How u doing xx[/quote]
I’m ok. 5dpo and within the next 2-4 days is when I start to get upset when the ovary pings and pangs start. I should be sure AF around two weeks from last Saturday, so perhaps next Thursday or Friday I would say.
I’ve to get blood taken on Monday, see what’s happening with my hormones x
Oh well, nothing I can do apart from good with it until AF either appears or doesn’t appear, it’sa long few days 😢

Nats7504 · 05/11/2021 15:20

Hi ladies. Happy Friday! It’s bloody freezing here in the North West, I’m a southern softie so don’t cope well with the cold 🥶 I’m 21 weeks now, going so quick!

@Nikkic2123 The TWW is the worst, it dragged! What tests are you getting? Just before I got my BFP, I had called to start fertility testing and they told me to call back when I’d hit 12 months even though I’m over 35. Fingers crossed everything is fine. How long have you been TTC since your loss?

@Skl2021 I’ve been thinking of you lots. Positive OPKs and pregnancy tests must be so hard 😞 Bodies can be so cruel. Hopefully things will settle down soon and you can get back into the TTC train again when you’re ready xx

Skl2021 · 05/11/2021 15:27

@Nikkic2123 ohh the dreaded tww. I go test crazy 😩 did u try this month? Sorry I can't keep up 🤦 hope your bloods come back ok! Try and keep yourself busy I know it's easier said than done hopefully go a bit quicker!
@Nats7504 lovely to hear from you 💕 yes it's bloody freezing! I'm north west too. Kids want to go to firework displays tonight and all I can think about is the cold 🤣❄️ I'm back at work tomorrow since my miscarriage hoping to try and get back to as normal as I can. Just wish these tests would go negative so I know were I am. I'm desperate to start trying again 😩 xx

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Nats7504 · 05/11/2021 15:48

@Skl2021 You’ll have to wrap up warm as I doubt you’ll get out of going to a display 🤣
Maybe work will be a good thing. Distraction and a little bit of normality. I can imagine being in limbo land would drive you crazy. How long does it normally take for your hormones to settle down? Xx

Skl2021 · 05/11/2021 15:54

@Nats7504 I'm trying my best to bribe them 🤣 yes I am nervous to to back IV been like a hermit these past few weeks haven't wanted to go out or see people. Just scared incase something sets me off. I cry at random times and little things set me off 😩 I'm strong and I will get through this 🙌 I don't know how long it takes I'm going to ring epu next week and see what I need to do next. I'm just concerned about anything being left up there and infections etc. And also I'm not going to ovulate until all this is over which is slowing the process down. Just want something to happen 🙈🤞I would even be happy for af to turn up at this rate!! X

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Nikkic2123 · 05/11/2021 16:05

@Skl2021
You might find within the next week or all happens quite quickly, tho the spotting is questionable, that could settle quickly too.

I’ve to get Day 21 bloods, progesterone, folic, fsh, and few others

Skl2021 · 05/11/2021 16:11

@Nikkic2123 I haven't bled or spotted at all this week apart from last night only when I wipe. So not sure what's going on. Tests don't seem to be getting any lighter. So gues I'm just stuck for now. Hopefully u get somewhere now with these tests 🤞 just horrible waiting x

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Skl2021 · 10/11/2021 19:33

@Nikkic2123 how u doing? X

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Pugmumm · 10/11/2021 19:39

I got my BFP Monday 😊 good luck everyone xx

Give my my bfp!!! 🙈🙌🤞🤞
Give my my bfp!!! 🙈🙌🤞🤞
Skl2021 · 10/11/2021 19:52

@Pugmumm congratulations 🎉 xx

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Pugmumm · 10/11/2021 19:56

Thank you @Skl2021 xx

Nikkic2123 · 10/11/2021 20:06

@Pugmumm

I got my BFP Monday 😊 good luck everyone xx
Wow, congrats 🥳
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