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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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TheDaydreamBelievers · 16/07/2021 14:46

In the shimmering summer heat, we need to head for the water to cool down and relax. Bring your inflatable flamingo, your romcom read and your sunscreen, cause it's time for a pool party!

Welcome to the 12th post pill party thread. We are here for women who have recently come off the pill... and women like me who not-so-recently came off the pill! Share and get support with the highs and lows of TTC.

I can see these people rockin' up with their cossies on:

Ladies already at the soiree:

@ChinChilly
@Juno231
@CharWils
@Moocher90
@MissM94
@MissC07
@Kay00
@TheDaydreamBelievers
@pineapple2021
@Theosmommy2011
@Lovebug06
@WhirlingD
@Carolinesturn
@Tillybabs
@redclueless
@Cams50
@sunshinedaisybuttermellow

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Sunshinedaisybuttermellow · 26/09/2021 20:58

@MissC07 if your boobs are that sore have you tried doing a test just in case? Maybe if AF doesn't show in the next day or two it might be worth just checking. You never know!

Moocher90 · 26/09/2021 21:17

@Sunshinedaisybuttermellow we are still going to try as there’s no gynaecological reason why I can’t get pregnant other than I have low AMH. I only do OPKs as my cycles are not regular and want to make sure we are BDing before a positive OPK. Temping is “normal” for me now as I get up at 6am for work every morning and take my levothyroxine before I get out of bed.

TheDaydreamBelievers · 28/09/2021 10:07

Hey all, no update from me. I better not ovulate this week as we are now banned from DTD until thursday night (for semen sample quality)

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ChinChilly · 28/09/2021 14:26

Not alot going on here really, 3dpo today trying to forget about testing until me period is atleast a few days late... I really don't want to know about any more chemicals that might happen.

@TheDaydreamBelievers fingers crossed ovulation holds off until after OH SA

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MissC07 · 28/09/2021 16:42

Just got back from my gynae appointment, she's prescribed me Provera to bring on a bleed and they are booking me in for blood tests and an internal scan again after the bleed.... got another appointment in 3 weeks for follow up and results but she said 'basically we'll probably just need to give you clomid..'
Only positive to come out of the session was that she told me I was tall and slim (the latter definitely not being true!!) good old autumn weather and hiding underneath jumpers!

TheDaydreamBelievers · 28/09/2021 19:39

@MissC07 do you mind me asking if this was nhs? I have NHS gynaecology soon and am a bit hopeful theyll give clomid. I'm NHS Glasgow

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MissC07 · 28/09/2021 20:13

@TheDaydreamBelievers of course I don't mind 😊 It was private unfortunately. I didn't go down the NHS route (except when I had my initial blood tests and scan) as my work has really good private cover. I hope they do give you clomid though 🤞

TheDaydreamBelievers · 28/09/2021 20:32

That's okay @MissC07 - our private assessment is this week so might end up getting the same from them! Jealous yours is under insurance though

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TheDaydreamBelievers · 28/09/2021 20:32

And thank you! You tall slender thing!

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MissC07 · 28/09/2021 20:42

@TheDaydreamBelievers good luck with your appointment this week. Have they said what is involved at the appointment?
Haha I'm starting to worry my consultant was blind 😂 I'm in need of losing about 10kgs!!

mrsmacmc · 29/09/2021 23:10

@Kay00 💐 ❤️

No real update here, initial appt is next tues.

Baby dust ✨ to all ❤️

TheDaydreamBelievers · 30/09/2021 19:01

Today was assessment not results but the scan tech said anatomically everything looks great, which rules out polycystic ovaries for me. Still no answer about why not ovulating though!

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Kay00 · 01/10/2021 06:24

Hi ladies! Sorry for the huge absence. I have had a lot going on these past few weeks: my grandad came to stay for a week (which was like looking after a toddler), then my sis in law moved in (escaping her abusive bf), she brought with her her pregnant dog who has since had 7 puppies (see pics 🥰), and my stepmother died of Covid. It has been difficult to grieve with a full house and I im exhausted!

How are you all? Have we had any good news?

I'm 3DPO on my 1st Clomid cycle. It has so far gone to plan 😇 during my scan af CD14 I had 3 x dominant follicles, which was more than they were happy with. They recommended I don't try this cycle due to the risk of multiples, but I didn't fancy dropping out of my 1st Clomid cycle when the risks are still pretty low. So we continued to try and got pretty good coverage 😅 I hope its successful... but I hope its not triplets!

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Kay00 · 01/10/2021 06:28

@thedaydreambelievers no offence but surprised you didn't have polycystic ovaries! I'm mean it's great that you don't, but it would have been the obvious explanation for your long cycles. Did the nurse who scanned you give any explanation? When is your appointment with the consultant?

ChinChilly · 01/10/2021 07:57

@TheDaydreamBelievers good news on the PCOS but also frustrating as no clear answers.

@Kay00 are those little lab puppies? I've really got a soft spot for labradors 😍
Triplets could be exciting! Lol

6dpo here, temps are still up. I've been having crazy vivid dreams the last 2 nights, I think that's just part of the LP though, too early to be anything exciting

TheDaydreamBelievers · 01/10/2021 08:00

Zero offence taken @Kay00 - I though the exact same! Ovaries size, shape, number of follicles all normal for age and no cysts seen. Uterus all healthy with a couple of cysts of a type that are normal and nothing impeding conception. Cervix fine.

She said cause could be metabolic and seemed surprised that thyroid etc all came back fine. Asked if GP had done hormone profiling and was super unsurprised that they had but on the wrong days (she rolled her eyes hard at GP). Was also very happy that I track and said it gives them loads of good info. She said she suspects their recommendation will be IUI with triggered ovulation.

Consultation is 27th october

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TheDaydreamBelievers · 01/10/2021 10:06

Also @Kay00 those puppies 😍😍😍 can I just take them home?!

@ChinChilly crossing my fingers hard for you!

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Sunshinedaisybuttermellow · 01/10/2021 18:08

@TheDaydreamBelievers sorry you didn't get an answer! Hopefully they get on with the next steps quickly!

@Kay00 sorry about your stepmum. The puppies are beautiful 😍. And you have such good coverage this cycle too!

@MissC07 sounds like the appointment went relatively well then.

Nothing really to say from me. Didn't track this month so don't really know where I'm up to. Think I'm most likely somewhere between 10 and 15 dpo based on previous cycles and symptoms.
No symptoms of anything much really yet. Boobs not really sore, little bit achy but nothing to speak of. Relatively normal cervical mucus for this stage of my cycle. Cervix high, firm and closed.
I'm thinking if there's no AF, spotting or bloodshot cervical mucus by Tuesday I'll do a test maybe.

Kay00 · 01/10/2021 21:25

@sunshinedaisybuttermellow that sounds quite promising 🤞🤞🤞

@thedaydreambelievers I think IUI with situmulated ovulation (likely Clomid) would be a great option for you 😊

The puppies are super cute 😍 they have started to open their eyes and today they have been trying to walk on all fours 🥰

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MissC07 · 01/10/2021 22:36

@TheDaydreamBelievers how annoying your scans didn't show anything. I hope your consultation appointment comes around quickly for you.

@Kay00 fingers crossed for your clomid cycle! The puppies are so adorable!!

Am on day 3 of taking Provera today, it's making me super bloated and moody. I keep snappjng at my OH. Although tbh don't know if that's the tablets or him being a general douche 🤣 Have got my bloods and scan on 14th, so lets hope AF has started by then! Has anybody on here been given Provera before??

ChinChilly · 01/10/2021 22:43

@MissC07 I've never been on it but I'm not sure if there is something in the air, I've been exactly the same tonight I think at one point I was actually picking for an argument with OH, road rage was an issue this evening aswell 🤣

MissC07 · 01/10/2021 23:14

@ChinChilly honestly he was driving me insane today. Asked me what the weather was like outside... when I was still in bed with the blinds shut. Started trying to have a conversation with me whilst I was on a conference call, and generally just breathing!! Road rage is a killer, the petrol issue down here is a joke too, did a loop of 6 petrol stations this evening and none are open!! I only have 50miles left on the car 😫

TheDaydreamBelievers · 01/10/2021 23:24

Jeez @MissC07 where are you? I'm raging at my DH too today. Hes just pissing me off!

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ChinChilly · 01/10/2021 23:40

@MissC07 petrol situation is crazy here aswell, the petrol station near me filled up and was stripped again a few hours later, luckily I filled up just before the mayhem started so I should be ok for another couple of weeks.

@TheDaydreamBelievers shall we just say there is something in the air with the men...the seem like the common theme here 🤣

MissC07 · 01/10/2021 23:41

@TheDaydreamBelievers I'm down in Surrey (about 20miles from London) It's an absolute joke - it's like the toilet roll situation all over again 🤬 I'm glad my OH isn't the only one being a giant pain in the arse today! He's gone for a boys night out which no doubt means he'll come home crashing around soon too....