Bus 5-ttc for what feels like an eternity, so well and truly in the donkey club. No judgement here, just well wishes and advice on endo/ivf/MFI etc.

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Our regular riders on the donkey train 🚂
@Annny27 29, no1 since June 19
@RobinRose 27, no1 since Oct 2019
@Motherofkittens28 39 no 1 since aug19
@Yutes 34 no1 since aug19
@Crazydoglady123 32 pregnant 🥳
@Marvellouslymadmum 42 no3 since April 18
@Tofu35 35 no1 since sep19
@Hayley19835 38 no1 oct18
@Narwhal88 32, no1 since jun19
@Theawkwardblonde pregnant 🥳
@CreativeThinkerTequilaDrinker 15 months ttc ivf in June, ov 8th April
@2020mission pregnant 🥳
@Sjhigs 37 no1 since sep18 ivf consult mid April
@crazycatlady1981 39 no1 since Oct18, ivf in May
@PeanutButterBrownies
@Juno231 33 no1 since jan20
@clolo 31 no1 since jun19
@Aimzie 28 no1 4 years NTNP 22 months ttc
@VenusStarr 37 no 1 since nov17 ivf started in May!
@paintfairy ttc no 1
@polejunkie
@MIW0

Hi ladies I went out for the day with my mum and tried to stay off here to have a normal few hours lol

So we have 1 doing as it should and 1 a little slower but still in the running not sure what will happen over night. I don't know if I'd be happy to put 2 in and the embryologist said its not looking hopeful for a freeze I really don't think I would realistically cope well with twins financially and mentally but I don't want to waste one either my consultant is very against 2 as it increases risks also so just a waiting game till tomo to see what they suggest I really feel like I just want to concentrate on the little healthy one I have and give it my everything X

@Sjhigs completely understand, wait and see what tomorrow brings, it may be a decision you don’t have to make, I was the same and lost one so needn’t have worried too much about how many to put back, thinking of you x

@polejunkie Thankyou how are you feeling? Z

@Sjhigs yeah ok, just apprehensive knowing we have nothing in the freezer 😬 x

@Sjhigs ah that’s good that they are both still going and you have a strong little one! Hopefully by tomorrow there will be more news on how they are growing and it will help make your decision as @polejunkie says! x

@polejunkie just look at it as you've got a chance that's what I'm doing could you imagine what it would be like if it was game over before we had even finished treatment we'd be gutted be happy we've got this far I'm looking at it as the best outcome and a positive thing some of the stories you hear are heartbreaking people don't even get past meds

You have an embaby on board how unreal and amazing is that 🙌🙌🙌 I'm slightly excited now lol for the first ever lol xxx

Girls I have literally just passed out do you think it's just stress has anyone else had this x

That doesn’t sound normal to me @Sjhigs, could it be either blood sugar or blood pressure?

@Sunbird24 I dunno 🙈 I'm in bed now hoping I feel better tomo my transfer is 9.15 I'm wondering is it the stress 🤦‍♀️

@Sjhigs hope you’re ok, doesn’t sound right, take it easy x

@Sjhigsmake sure you stay hydrated and someone is looking after you! Fingers crossed for a successful transfer tomorrow 🤞

@clolo that is sooooo amazing! So happy for you mate 😃
@CreativeThinkerTequilaDrinker yay great number for you too hun, hope more good news to come!
@polejunkie congrats on being PUPO! X
@Sjhigs glad you're still in the running, tricky decision to make. Hopefully they give you good advice.
Oh sorry to hear you passed out! I guess it could be stress, hope you're ok now?! ♥️

@clolo that’s a good thing though, means your wait to transfer is shorter!

🍀 lots of love and luck today @Sjhigs and @crazycatlady1981 x

🍟🍍& 🇧🇷 🥜 for today’s transferees! Everything crossed for you!

Thanks ladies! 😘

@Sjhigs hope you are feeling better today!💕 Sending you lots of luck! Rest up afterwards and stay hydrated xx

Thanks ladies on my way feel a lot better than I did yesterday morning too scared to tell them incase they cancel me 🙈 as I feel fine every other way definitely scared of peeing on him that's my biggest worry today 🤦‍♀️

I’m officially PUPO!!!! 💕🎉😬

Had one good blastocyst which was transferred and then 2 others which may or may not reach blastocyst stage and we’ll find out tomorrow if they’ve been frozen 🤞🏻

Off for a celebratory day out with my DH!! x

@crazycatlady1981 🥳 congrats! I prefer that term PASP now 🤣 pregnant and staying pregnant!!
@Sjhigs hope your transfer went ok!
@polejunkie congrats on you being PASP too!

God the tww is hard. Today is 5dp5dt and this is where the negativity starts for me. I feel completely normal. If it wasn't for shoving hard fat pellets up my foof, stabbing myself twice a day and shoving pills down my throat I wouldn't think anything was going on!