. 🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 6 🦕

[Annny27]

Hi ladies! The dinosaurs are around plus a few newer ladies too :)

Welcome @PeanuttyButter I'm sorry for your loss. I think my cycle returned to normal from the first af after my mc but can't remember exactly how long the first af took- have you tested again to check for pg? @Babyghirl I'm trying to decided whether to watch or not - it's such a time commitment 😂😂

@kiwi17
You have to I love it look forward to it every night and it takes my mind of other things 😂😂😂😂 and I love the bitchness after a while lol

@babyghirl @kiwi17 yep I was trying to decide whether I would watch it or not but then thought i have no holidays to look forward to myself so may as well 😂

Even though they are all younger than me now....last time I watched (summer2019) there was atleast some people my age haha

@Annny27
😂😂😂😂😂 I knw lol I love it thou it's addictive lol, really wish they would do an normal life person one like your norm Joe blogg would be quite good I think lol. 💚

Sorry ladies, I dropped my phone down the blooming loo! Hope everyone’s okay! Welcome to all the new ladies, sorry you find yourself here but the support is amazing! I’m 5weeks and keep pulling all my symptoms apart, today I woke up and my boobs aren’t sore, so obviously thinking the worst! I didn’t realise how hard pregnancy after a loss is!

Thanks @kiwi17 and @Babyghirl
Did a pregnancy test a few days ago and negative but I would only have been 7dpo at that point I think.
As for my LP it's all over the place to be honest, usually on the shorter side, I think the month I conceived i ovulated on cd 16 which was later than I usually do and tested positive cd25 with IC.
I just feel so useless right now as I don't know where I am, feel as though I'm literally starting again trying to figure out what's going on with my body.

Thanks for making me welcome all.

@slcxxx
Bet ya won't be bringing that phone in there again sitting on the toilet as u type 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 how r u feeling a pregnancy after a loss is harder that ttc after a loss, you symptoms will come and go though and ur hormones rise, 💚
@PeanuttyButter
Try not to stress I knw its not easy but ur body still levelling its self out and will take time to start seeing a pattering again, after each of my losses I have been different but trust me you will get there 💚

@SLCxxx I've dropped mine in the loo before too, trying to watch something while brushing my teeth. We have a yellow let it mellow situation in our house too which doesn't help haha.

@babyghirl it's so hard not being in control. I struggled with that the first few weeks after finding out I was pregnant. Then all I wanted once it was 'sorted' was to feel like that again.

Sorry girls if I'm getting you all down - I promise to try and be more positive from now

@PeanuttyButter
Don't apologise we have all been where u r its hard you will have ur up days and down days I still do, that's what this group is for venting we r here to listen always x

Right ladies need some serious advice as time isnt on my side at all... so had my fertility consultation today the doctor was amazing and really told me not to worry regarding my ectopics and that there are things they can do to help me he actually seemed positive about it all finally 🙌🏻 However on the call I mentioned I have my hycosy next Thursday and he has advised against having it done just incase I get an infection he is concerned it could make things worse for me due to having 2 ectopics already he wasn't concerned about my fertility with conceiving so he has recommend I be referred back to the bmi hospital for them to carry out the lap I was suppose to have done in jan before I found I was having my first ectopic so they can do a full check of everything including tubes and remove any damage bits where possible... I like to call it a MOT with full service 😂 so my question is would you still go ahead with the hycosy or leave it?? I am so confused now!!! I see where he is coming from and it makes sense but i honestly don't no what to do he said go to the appointment to have a chat and if they say the infection rate is like 1 in 10 then run.. please help xx

@sweetbabydust1989
My head would be all over the show to after him saying that, but I would listen to him and go with the other test at the end of the day he's a fertility specialist so must know what these test can cause try phoning the place tomorrow and asking what the infection rate is xx

@Babyghirl that's what I am thinking he said if I get an infection it could potentially make things worse he didn't seem to be worried about my other tube which I am worried about as it's my right that keeps picking my beans up... oh gets what bloody come on today aswell was praying it would happen before the test now I wish it had come on the test so I could cancel Sod's law 🙈 with the op I won't be waiting long as it's private and the nhs pay so could get as early as a month I don't need no more scans as I was seen in March so it's a cause of rebooking my op I managed to speak to my other consultant he just asked for the gp to refer me back to him which will be done next week when I speak to my gp my head is all fuzzy xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Just phone and let on ur on ur period and will phone to rebook as your going away to visit family but coming bck when u will be on ur period again lol, it just happens to be the times u have fell pregnant that's the Overy that released the egg xx

🤣 I will be known as one of those patients that cancel 🤣 apparently my egg came from the left on both times as the corpus was seen on left ovary but broken tube picked it up it's like rebellious teenager 🤣 xx

What a tricky decision @Sweetbabydust1989 but I think I agreed with @Babyghirl as he's the specialist and you get loads of tests to check tubes etc anyway I would go with that :) also do we need to set up a new thread?? Doesn't it cap at 1000 posts?

@kiwi17 that's what I am thinking I am very lucky to have these lovely professionals around me aswell as you ladies never felt so much support ever it's been a tough time especially doing most of it alone and finding out my SIL is pregnant and due on my would of been due date... my gp are amazing and all my consultants too least with the Lap I am knocked out and they can do what's needed I feel drained need a break glad I have something to pause ttc atm or I would be trying this month and could potentially end up with a 3rd ectopic least this way I get my mot and full service I am petrified of the outcome I really am I just hope my bmi consultant will agree to do it he was going to for suspected endo so don't see why this will be much different same surgery just more in-depth... and yes to a nee thread lol xx

@Annny27
Will you set up the new thread please 💚

@Sweetbabydust1989 I think you've got a plan! Fingers crossed for you. I know it's all so exhausting 😖 @Babyghirl good delegation there 😂 do I get promoted to dinosaur now I've seen a whole thread through?😂🦕🦕

@kiwi17
That makes me dead cause I have been here why to long 😂😂😂😂😂😂 yep so ur an old timer nw 😂😂😂💚

Yep will set up new thread now 🥰

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/4284124--Catching-up-ttc-after-miscarriage-part-7?watched=1&msgid=108639931#108639931

Please add yourselves ladies :)

Sorry girls been a while so had my consultation told and I am having the surgery I was suppose to have done in jan!!! I am so scared he is doing a full mot and service... I might have to have my tube removed too if my left is ok.. I am scared and confused emotionally drained and a wreck.. he was like please don't get pregnant when I walked out he wants this app to be third time lucky 😂 poor sod has seen me since last year and every time my surgery is booked I end up with am ectopic grr.. thankfully it's with a bmi hospital so shall be done next month or the month after please say this is light at the end of the tunnel xx