. 🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 6 🦕

[Annny27]

Hi ladies! The dinosaurs are around plus a few newer ladies too :)

Hi ladies feeling like shit tonight just found out through a family member my SIL is pregnant nice aye not even told had to find it out 10th hand feeling really rubbish about it and I don't no why one side of me is really happy then the other side wished she had shut her legs for a bit 🤣 xx

Morning ladies :) I am around cd13 and had ewcm so past few days but no positive opk or ovulation pain yet so probably round the corner!

@kiwi17 my ovulation pain feels like a stitch kinda stabby pain. I also never noticed it untill I stayed ttc and put two and two together that it only happens around ovulation. So many things about my cycle that I cant believe I never noticed until ttc haha!

@babyghirl so jealous you are already 5dpo haha! We used to be cycle buddies but the latest miscarriage delayed my last cycle

@sweetbabydust1989 sorry lovely! I live in fear of a family announcement :(

@Annny27 I no it was like someone punched me in my ovaries... just cannot believe I had to head it from another family member and my SIL is the type to shove it down your throat we don't get on at all well until she gets that pole removed from her arse 😂 xx

Hi all!

Not been very active on here. I'm on my first cycle since mmc in April. Had a 3 day long af last month and now on my tww. Done tests already and all negative I keep thinking I see shadows but I think my eyes are playing games!

I can see a lot of chat about SIL and it must be the season. My SIL has announced to the family she's off the pill and trying. So my competitiveness is flaring hahaha!

Also just found out that my SIL's due date would of been my due date now that's a right kick in my vagina 🙈 xx

@sweetbabydust1989
It's like a slap to the face but I'm like you don't like her either lol this will be her 5th and she a piss poor mum not just saying That she needs to look after the 4 she has. Awww finding out is one thing but the same date would be awful so sorry😠😠😠😠😠😠 xx
@Annny27
Yep we use to be lol I'm in my friends the one terminal with cancer scrubbing her flat and waiting on the blinds man coming out to measure up said will be here between 9 and 1 we'll my luck he will be here at 1 lol
@apwilso
It's bitter sweet when u find that out like a knife to the heart when they fall before you even though you where trying first welcome back 💚

@Babyghirl I know. I was told by a medium June was my month apparently but we will see. Just want it to happen now though been trying since October but taking it relaxed since January thinking I need to get testing now!

@Babyghirl lol I no how you feel I honestly feel rubbish knowing all my mum keeps saying is I will be next I was like I highly doubt it due to my tubes and ivf is well out of my price range... I kinda feel like cancelling my hycosy for fear of Knowing the worst.. someone could kick me in my vag and it wouldn't hurt as much as this pathetic I know.. I had sort of finished my grieving and now it's back xx

@apwilso
I went to one last Jan and he told me I would have no more miscarriages he lied I have had another 2 from seeing him lol get testing girl what CD you on 💚
@sweetbabydust1989
It hurts that 2 she would of have from I started trying and 4 losses and a cp l8r please don't cancel it at least you will find. Out what's going on and as I say I have read people falling soon after it so you never know girl you got this keep going 💚

@Babyghirl I will keep the app my partner won't let me miss it he would drag me there lol I think it's just a huge blow knowing her due date that's all... That would be a dream I am due on so hopefully I can try after I have had it done I have been doing my castor oil packs again I left it a couple of weeks while I was on and had no time to do them I just hope they have helped a little I kept my losses pretty much to a small group xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Your husband is just right my dp would do the same thing lol, I'm sure it knocked u for 6 finding that out but you will get there and u will have your rainbow baby in sure of it we all will 💚xx

@Babyghirl I'm on 9dpo roughly I'm not too sure as I don't opk test anymore due to getting obsessed with it. Period due around Saturday so we will see!

Ouch Sweetbabydust1989, that must hurt so much! I am so sorry you have had that thrown at you. I’ve struggled enough with friends having babies the same month, but I cannot imagine how horrible the same DD must be. I’m glad you are keeping your appointment, but I can understand where you are coming from with not wanting to know. Hopefully it will be positive news and you will be glad you went.

Fingers crossed the medium was right apwilso.

As predicted, ewcm has arrived this morning, right on cue for our camping trip! DH has the day off, but I have a drs appointment for swabs at 11.25, and he is heading to the campsite with a friend to get pitched at 12. Not sure that gives us much time. DH is still keen to dtd there, but we’ll have literally a thin bit of nylon between us and the kids, and two thin bits of nylon and a small piece of land between us and our friends 🙈!!!!!

@miscarriage39
Needs must lol planty off ways to dtd unnoticed 😂😂😂😂 like yous on ur side with ur bck to him this would prop be the month yous catch as ur more worried about getting caught than anything else 💚

I so how you are right Babyghirl. The hardest bit will be avoiding giggling. I’m going to feel like a naughty teenager 😆

@miscarriage39 we went away in 2019 with friends (our first month ttc) and we had to dtd there and they kept knocking on our door asking when we wanted to go to dinner and my husband was so put off it took 10 times longer 😂😂😂

@babyghirl awwh how is your friend? She is lucky to have you!

@sweetbabydust1989 yep pregnant people is always a reminder of other peoples fertility 😜

@Annny27 think it's even worse when it's your sister in law and she is due on what would of been your due date x

@miscarriage39
Might bring the fun bck in to dtd 😂😂😂😂😂
@Annny27
Aswell as expected going to pick her up soon to go pay for the blinds and order them she picking the colour to as she went out yesterday before blinds man got there lol 💚

So I have used opks this month and they honestly stress me out so much. Only using them as I have my progesterone test this month so need to know when I ovulate. Anyway got a nearly positive ready and now like omg do I have sex tonight or tomorrow or tonight and tomorrow 😜😂

When the month we caught last month I had sex twice - once on cd12 and once on cd14 so clearly timing down to th exact hour of ovulation isnt needed :p

Got a nearly positive reading *

@Annny27
Try the smep this month lol have sex nest 3 nites miss a night then again on the 5th night for good luck lol I'm 7dpo nw lol you go catch that egg girl 💚

Oooh good luck with the tent @Miscarriage39 🤣🤣 I would feel so awkward too! I'm sure you'll find a way though 😉 I think I'm on about cd18 now and about 3dpo? Not sure as haven't tracked as well this month! Now I just need to forget about it for 11 days 😂 how everyone else getting on? Anyone else in the tww?

I've just woke up to belly ache and bleeding so assuming it's my period now. With my last pregnancy I had some bleeding and then got a positive as it was implantation bleeding and I didn't realise. So now I never trust it but end up getting my hopes up

Oh no @apwilso :( I know what you mean though I think that implantation bleeding has a lot to answer for always giving us that sneaky bit of Hope!!

@kiwi17 it does. The bleeding starts and im like oh it might be implantation but then it's just a period 🙄