Recent MC - New cycles & trying again

[Mellous]

Hi all,

A thread for the ladies from the recent MC/MMC group and for anybody else who wants to join us as we discuss getting our cycles back on track after MC and starting to TTC again x

@ams19
@abimix
@plantmummy87
@thehotelcalifornia
@pettylamby
@laurat94
@neady1980

@dippyegg32 that clear blue looks positive to me! I can see the line on the Wondfo too.
Oh everything crossed for you xx

So I’m rational again after last night. Hubs is allowed to be tired .... goodness I’m crazy ttc lady already!

@dippyegg32 I see a line on the clear blue. How about a digital on Tuesday if no af?xxx

@dippyegg32 my fingers are crossed for you 🤞🏻

So ladies, my hormones are raging! My BBT is still increasing (I'm at 37.06 now 😱) and my RHR (now 84) is too! Looking back at my previous chart when I had the miscarriage, my RHR had actually dropped quite a lot by this point and my temps weren't as high either! Had a good feeling about taking another digital and sure enough I got my 2-3 result on the Clearblue! So happy 🥰 I think I will stop BBT and monitoring RHR now. Clearly my body's doing what it needs to for now so I'm going to try and relax and let it be!

Just thought I would update that although the anxiety is 100% there, I think I'm starting to regain trust in my body and trust that I'm actually pregnant! Coming up to the scan date (09/04) will be hard and anxiety inducing again but I'm hoping I can pass through the next few weeks without too much fear!

Delighted for you @LauraT94!! My bbt was 37.09 today 
How you doing @Mellous?

Morning ladies. Just a message to say for those who are mummies Happy Mother's Day. And for those of us who aren't yet, one day it will be our turn ❤

@LauraT94 fab news lovely!!
@dippyegg32 I’m ok, not bothering to test today just waiting for my period to show up. How are you?
@AMS19 aww we will have our Mother’s Day one day xx

@LauraT94 we are not only cycle twins but we are now test twins!!

Did a CB digi today and also got my 2-3 - my RHR has also started to rise which in delighted about!

Anxiety is also very much there... But I am really just trying to focus on the present and one day at a time and it's helped me already! Every morning say to yourself... Today I am pregnant and don't think about what could possibly happen, just focus on getting through a day at a time! 💕💕

Sending love to everyone this mothers day 😘

@Pettylamby oh wow so happy for you xx

Wow @Pettylamby that's amazing news congratulations

Happy Mother's Day to everyone that is a mum and one day all you mums to be. They say you are a mum from the moment you start trying to conceive

I started using the CB ovulation tests this month and I kept getting a negative (plain round circle) and same on Friday and then boom yesterday was Peak smiley face. I DTD Wednesday, Friday and Saturday but obv my fertile days will be yesterday and today I assume and assume ovulation will be today no idea. Have I DTD enough or need to again tonight for good measure?

I was surprised I didn't get the flashy smiley face on the CB and went straight from negative to Peak overnight. Anyone else had this?

Hi everyone - I found out on 08/03 that I was pregnant. Started spotting v light pinky watery blood on Friday morning. Did another test which was quite faint - the urine was like clear water. Also had sex Friday morning and have learned this can be cause of bleeding too. I called Epu on Friday afternoon and they said bleeding v common at this stage and to disregard the test and wait it out and test again in a week. Spotting got a bit more red abs a tiny bit stronger (still v light). Saturday morning was a bit more but nothing too much overall. It’s now stopped. I do normally have a very light period but this was not as strong as that. No cramping or pain. I guess I just have to wait it out and it could go either way - but wondering what others thought ??

@Mellous just waiting for af to come now. Temps risen to the highest it's been today so I imagine it'll crash tomorrow. Roll on a new cycle.

@Pettylamby oh look!!! And look at that dye stealer ❤❤❤ I'm honestly over the moon for you!!! This baby is an absolute champ and clearly destined to be here given the start xx

@AMS19 what a week I've had! Feels like a month!! 🤣🤣 Still a long way to go but all I wanted was confirmation of progression and here we are! Next goal - get a 3+ and get to 1st April without issue! Thank you got all the support! Don't know how I'd have coped without this thread!! 💕💕

@Pettylamby that's great news! 😊

@dippyegg32 I can’t wait for af to arrive so I can start a new cycle! Due tues/weds I think. Positive thinking for next month! xx

Absolutely @Mellous! Xmas baby here we come!

@LauraT94 oh yay!! I’m so glad it’s all going well!
@Pettylamby amazing news!! Gosh what a week for you but what a brilliant way to end it - so exciting!
@wag1987 the same happens to me - I’ve rarely had the flashing face. Can literally jump from a blank circle to a static Face in less than 12 hours. Do you use the LH strips? I often use those to see the progression so I can tell I’m gearing up for ovulation and then use the CB digital ones to confirm it if I’m not entirely sure whether I’ve peaked or not!
@CaroW123 oh I’m sorry you’re feeling in limbo and unsure what’s happening. It’s such early days it could be an implantation bleed? And yes sex can cause bleeding during pregnancy- I’ve had that in the past too. Annoyingly (and we feel your pain!) it sounds like it will be a case of wait and see unless you can convince your EPU to take bloods to test your HCg level? X

Such fantastic news @Pettylamby ! I'm too scared to do digital tests 🙈 and anyway I'm only 4:3 so waiting on HCG on Monday.

Good luck for your new cycle @dippyegg32 ❤️

@CaroW123 it's so difficult at this point but as long as you I haven't had cramping or pain a bit of light bleeding is really common (I totally know the feeling of dread though when you see it). Set yourself a goal of testing in a week and try to distract yourself in the meantime - although it is so hard!

Great news for you too @LauraT94 🤩 it all looks great! Your body knows what to do (I have been saying this to myself this last week).

Happy Mother's Day ladies. You're a mummy as soon as you see that positive pregnancy test I think 💕

Sending you all love today 💝 I know it wasn't the Mother's Day that any of us were imagining but we are all mother's even if our babies aren't physically here, they will be with us forever. I hope everyone has a restful day, take it easy on yourself, it can bring up a lot of emotions and feelings. It will be our turn soon 💕

@Pettylamby I'm so happy for you. You've been on an absolute rollercoaster of a week.

@LauraT94 your chart looks great and so glad to hear you have passed another milestone with the temps. Your body is doing an absolutely amazing job xx

@SuzieDeLaTour yes been using the cheapy ones too and they been really light. I've attached photo and 2 at top are from 11/3 and middle from 12/3 and then 13/3 at bottom which was when got my clear blue peak face too.
I wasn't sure if I have DTD enough this cycle or not.

@wag1987 you had sex yesterday on your peak didn’t you? So that would give you a pretty good chance but it wouldn’t hurt to do it again today if you can be bothered! 😜 my peak stayed for 2/3 days this cycle and if that’s the case for you too then it might be worth having another go? Have you done a cheapie today to see what it says? X

Happy Mothers day ladies. AF arrived this morning 2nd on after natural MC, my cycle was always 28-29 days and the last two have been 26 days. Has anyone else notice their cycle shorter than the normal. Anyway I'm in great form which I thought would be the opposite,bring on this new cycle woohoo

Happy new cycle @Neady1980! I'm the opposite mine have lengthened. Pre mc I was 25 days, last two were 28 and today I'm on cd24 with still high temps so I imagine another 28 day-er.

xx