Heading for 💓day with fishy burps & wombs as fluffy as a 70’s bush we say UP YOURS TTC Bus 30

[Minster2012]

We’ve got the fastest TTC 🚌in the UK & we aren’t afraid of a modification or 2 as we have a bus with a beautiful panoramic roof seat where there is wine & snacks a plenty for those that need a bit of a breather from our race car but still hang on to our ride! 🌞

We are heading into February ladies & let’s be honest most of us thought we’ve have cute little babies by now, but instead we’ve got lockdown bellies, fishy burps 🐠from bloody omega 3 supplements & the BIGGEST STASH OF TTC drugs in the planet on this bus including IVF, TTC, vitamins, headaches, anti sickness for pregnancy & some other ones we won’t talk about. We also LOVE a good snack, a pet, a dildo and clit sucker but badly behaved BOSSES are NOT welcome.

So grab your crotchless panties and not much else for Valentine’s Day 💓and invite your men (or women folk) to dinner cos they are being treated like a REAL LADY. Forget January blues. February is where it’s at and we say UP YOURS TTC, we are cumming to get you 🙌🏻🥰

And if you see mention of my blog then blame these guys they made me do it...#shamelessplug

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Story so far...

June 24 BFPs
July 11 BFPs
August 18 BFPs
Sep 4 BFPs
Oct 7 BFPs
Nov 7 BFPs
Dec 14 BFPs
6 BFPs for jan

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Oh the topic of 🍆 it's usually me that instigates it and it's always once we go be at night... I miss daytime sex! Sometimes he might wake up and need to unload In me but that's rare . I def have a higher libido than him!

I'm on CD 86? Last cycle was 112 so few weeks left yet 🤦‍♀️ trying not to think about it too much or I will just worry. Roll on may!
Spending my time trying to get some good workouts in ... gonna do the dreaded weigh in tomorrow

@minster2012 I'm keeping everything crossed for you for everything going to plan for Thursday!

@blackcurrantqueen I don't know about being motivational... I'm just fed up with being the size of a whale... I wear a size 30/32 clothes! Im finally in a place we I want to exercise and get fit . OH is good at nutrition etc so I'm eating all the right stuff and enough of it lol. ... some days I'm just feeling lazy but I find myself thinking just get it done out the way then you can flop on sofa 🤣

Rang the doctors for a blood test and to check my blood pressure this morning as I am having at least a handful of blackouts a day at the moment. And no energy whatsoever which I know is normal for pregnancy but this is just ott. Said a call back from doctor tomorrow afternoon so just going to try and get through to the midwife instead which is probably even more difficult😴

Omg @lucyrp that doesn't sound good, I hope you get seen soon x

Twice I've typed replies (one yesterday that got lost mid way and again just now) so aaarghhhh!!

Sorry but I just can't type it all again (can't actually remember half the people I replied to now as I've bookmarked as I read/replied.

In a nutshell love hearing about those moving house-so exciting, sorry to those who have got AF or are still waiting on appointments damn covid and yay for the BFP on Saturday @HollieL567

I too am loving MAFS, glad we all have a shared addiction 😂

@lucyrp glad you finally got your scan letter through 🎉

@Vil10 sorry you haven't had good news on the house yet but 🤞🏻 they don't get any other better offers and decide they will take yours (sorry if I've missed an update with further changes) but you can only offer what you can comfortably pay so if it doesn't work out at least you won't be poor 😂

All the chat about vitamin d they were discussing it on This Morning today if anyone wants to catch up and watch it.

@Minster2012 hope you're not still feeling shit, your lamb and brownies on Sunday looked amazing! Roll on Thursday for you 😘😘

Am posting this now before it either gets lost or you guys board another speedy bus 😂 Love to all xxx

@Sausage1990 that looks like peak to me but you are right to keep testing given your circumstances as things may be a bit unpredictable.

@Dollybird89 you are doing amazing! Keep up the good work. You deserve to be your best you 🥰

@lucyrp tiredness is to be expected but blackouts definitely seem extreme! You are right to get checked out. Hope someone can see you soon x

@Clairey844 so annoying when that happens. How are you?

@Minster2012 hope your results all come back speedy and all good.

@Kirky658 how did you get diagnosed with endo? I think I might have it as I get such bad pains when due on and when on. I tend to get pain after sex and sometimes during.
@Minster2012 glad it's all done, fingers crossed for the results!
@lucyrp shit hun, hope you get through! Take care xx

@Katao after it happening yesterday I was super careful not to click anywhere but between my reply and the thread then boom it was just empty 🤣🤣 probably a blessing in disguise I can waffle on and catching up from Friday meant I was probably replying to old news at the start!

I'm good thanks, 15w today and feeing ok. Still haven't told many people-in a weird kinda way I just like keeping it between us (have told parents and work etc) plus never easier than when in lockdown ha ha.

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@Kirky658 I think black outs in pregnancy are pretty normal but just feel so useless so just want to check it out x

@Clairey844 only 5 days to go🥳🥳 on the telling people we haven't told anyone other than a few friends and OHs mum. We're going to tell his grandparents when we've had the scan. We want to announce on social media at 13-14 weeks but still not keen on telling my boss as worried she won't let me return to work as normal when everyone else does and this wfh is more stressful than actual work. I have a 1:1 with her either this week or next so think I'll have to tell her then as they ask the usual health and well-being questions so may have to say then.

@Katao I feel so useless. I get up to clean the kitchen down in the morning and do some washing then have to sit down for a while to gain my enerfy etc back 😴x

@notyetamumbuttrying thanks. Not likely considering I left a message on Wednesday and still no call back 🤣x

@notyetamumbuttrying it was a very very long process, took me 9 years to get a diagnosis in the end. I had shooting pains down the inside of my thighs from when I was 15 which started 3 days before my period arrived, I'd have excruciating pains during and around ovulation, and at one stage had a period every 2 weeks. Was put on loads of contraceptives, nothing worked, then I started bleeding and having severe pain with sex in my early 20s, tested for stds etc, nothing. Eventually my doctor agreed due to my research it could be endo, I was referred to gynae, surgery 2018, worked for 4 months and got worse, found out about specialist endo centres and have my last surgery 6 months ago. Hopeful that might help. Sad thing is, it will come back you just don't know how long you will have. X

I also agree @Dollybird89 being motivational, you go girl 💪🏻you are doing brilliant keep it up! Drink 2L of water too and you will really start to notice those clothes will start to hang by the time the weather changes 👊🏻

@Clairey844 @Skip86 we've broken MN!! And yes a new bus is in the waiting! 🚎go faster stripes! I'm feeling a bit low & a bit queasy but mehhh, I'm ok, you know me I'm positive!! 😋I will have a look at the vitamin D stuff thank you!

@Florence13 mmmmm Chinese! And a birthday cake? It's my friends birthday too & actually she's literally down the road looking after her mum after an op but I'm not gonna suggest seeing her for a dog walk til Friday (I'm also being really nice & giving dogs a rest day today as big one hurt obs nothing to do with snowy rain sludge!) 😂oooo did you finish your dissertation??

Ahhh yes sorry @Kirky658 it was @Gem176 hows you with OH??

@Tornado2Inc I would love to see some proper research on the orgasming but I doubt it could ever be a scientific thing!! That would be hilarious! Let's just take it as fine 😛you make a slurp?! I've never made a slurp, damn it I've def. end doing it all wrong, but we bloody practice enough 😖😫

@Sausage1990 yeah looks like a short peak for you

@lucyrp keep trying girl that does not seem good at all big hugs to you xx

@Vil10 did I miss anything??

@lucyrp yay for the scan-can't wait to see the pics 😍😍

@Minster2012 is it the drugs making you feel low or are you in yourself feeling a bit meh? Sending love, happy vibes and understanding because so much is actually shit at the moment 😘😘😘

@Minster2012 glad your tests went okay!! Fingers crossed for the results, I'm sure they'll be fine🤞🏼

@notyetamumbuttrying @Minster2012

@lucyrp oh god! Hope you're okay!! I hope they see you soon x

@Clairey844 thanks lovely! We're putting another offer in today and as far as we know there hasn't been any other offers so 🤞🏼 but you're right!! And if we don't get this one it obviously isn't meant to be!! Hope you're well x

Also I don't know if I'm too far off the OH's initiating sex chat, my app has been dodgy all day!! But I feel like we're quite 50/50, we're quite hands on people in the comfort of our own home, and OH is one of them if I bend down for something he'll start thrusting behind me😂

@Minster2012 @notyetamumbuttrying @Florence13 sorry just realised I didn't reply!! OH is putting an offer in this afternoon!! So I will keep you all updated🤞🏼

SHIT LADIES HAVE I DONE THE RIGHT THING???

I just got phoned about the vaccine
TOMORROW OR SATURDAY
I said no and explained
They said that's fine and I can call back when I know the result and what to do & if I can have it then they will get me in

Bear in mind part of the reason I said no is cos I'm a nightmare for getting side effects & we've paid thousands it's our last embryo & I just can't risk it.
Right???
FUCKKKKKKK

New bus .....

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@Sausage1990 that's what I've found anyway, I need to make more of an effort to make it "more spontaneous" rather than a chore this month.

@Dollybird89 unload 😂

@lucyrp oh dear :( did you have this with ds?

@Vil10 haha mine does that, they can't help themselves can they 😂

@Minster2012 arghhhh I don't know!

@Minster2012 I think that's what I'd have done.

I'd have thought that you'll get another offer of the vaccine but only one embryo ready (from what I've read?)

@Minster2012 definitely done the right thing I think!

@Clairey844 I used to lose mine quite often so have gotten in the habit of copying my responses if they get lengthy. So if anything cuts out I can just paste them back in

@lucyrp I'm not surprised - you've lost a stone whilst growing a baby! Bungholes for not getting back to you quicker than that - hope they can help you xxx

@Sausage1990 yay for peak!

@Justanothercyster yeah luckily I have one of those pessaries at home but last I needed to use them they didn't work and I ended up having to get prescription ones TWICE so I'm hoping this won't be a repeat of that as I can't be bothered with getting through the GP in these times. Last I tried it took me 3 days to get through to reception

@larrythelizard yes we had 3 embryos left, but 1 MMC from feb (exactly this time last year was transfer, feb 7th) and a BFN, this is our last one all paid privately 😬 & she said if I phone back (my GP) when I'm ready to have it I should be able to book in, it's been put on my notes. I have a lot of other medical conditions not horrendous but just "there" so I kinda don't want to conflict things, when I get ill I get very ill though recover quickly 😩so that's my fear. Thank you, it's what o said in my head just y'know when you say it out loud & it's THE WORST timing 😂🤣
@Juno231 @Justanothercyster thank you 🥰

@Clairey844 glad you are doing ok. I know what you mean. I think next time we will keep it to ourselves longer. It's nice to just quietly enjoy it.

@lucyrp lower your expectations lovey, just do what you need to. Hopefully you will be feeling better soon and I'm sure things can wait. I was so sick all the way through, I know what you mean about feeling useless but growing a baby is hard enough at the best of times but especially if you are more unwell than the average pregnant woman iyswim.

@lucyrp useless???? Nahhhhhhhhh never!!!

Hop onto the new 🚌🚎hop into the new bus

@lucyrp feeling lightheaded is normal in pregnancy but blackouts are not. Get onto the EPU hun, i really think its your BP because that can be low in early pregnancy and dehydration can contribute too so if you're still quite sick or not managing enough fluids then its not going to help. Look after yourself lovely girl xx

@Minster2012 you definetley did the right thing in delaying your vaccine appoitnment. You will be able to get another appointment in the right time, i declined 3 appts before i said yes to mine and still got it quite easily.