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Anyone else in their 2ww?

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alixxx1 · 15/01/2021 19:36

Hi all,

Is there any others currently in their 2ww?

OH works away so we could only DTD 2-3 days before O. So I don't know whether I'm that hopeful. Plus it's our first month trying for #2.

So is there anyone else currently waiting and we can support each other through the wait? I'll be 10dpo on the 22nd which would be amazing if I get a positive as it will be a year on from a loss.

Babydust to all x

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Gspps · 19/01/2021 09:40

[quote TTCAbroad]@Gspps When do you test?[/quote]
I think earliest I can try is 28th January, what about you?

TTCAbroad · 19/01/2021 09:56

I planned on Feb 2-5, but I can tell already that it will probably be the 1st.

scandiontheloose · 19/01/2021 10:15

[quote 1littlewren]@scandiontheloose interesting symptoms. I've read a lot about pains being a good thing!! 🤔🤔[/quote]
Well I certainly hope it's a baba rather than AF being sneaky. I generally get a bit of sore lower back pain before AF but never this soon. My AF is not due for another 10 days so this kinda has my hopes up. No sore boobs tho which everyone keeps saying was their first symptom so I hope I'm just odd one out with that one 😂

1littlewren · 19/01/2021 10:42

@scandiontheloose yes I've heard boobs are a good sign!! It's just awful isn't it as a lot of said signs can also be AF and the wait is just awful. I am working from home today so was in my pjs but had to go get dressed just because my boobs feel so huge and getting in the way 🤣🤣

scandiontheloose · 19/01/2021 10:47

@1littlewren hahahahah I'm WFH too and refuse to change out of my yoga pants, put a nice top on incase there is any surprise zoom meetings 😂😂 when are you planning to test? I'm bad for testing too early so trying to make it at least until DPO12 but can't guarantee 😂🤷🏻‍♀️

1littlewren · 19/01/2021 11:28

@scandiontheloose welll... I promised myself I wouldn't be a crazy lady this month abs wouldn't test too early but I may have done one this morning at 9dpo and got a bfn. I'm going to hold off now until AF hopefully as with my first I didn't get a BFP until I was late!

scandiontheloose · 19/01/2021 11:31

@1littlewren aw man, I'm sorry about the negative test. The audacity BFN when we know it's supposed to be BFP😂 I've had to hide all my tests otherwise I'll test twice a day from 7 DPO onwards and just cause myself stress and heartbreak when I KNOW it's too damn early to test 🙈😂 fingers crossed we all get our positives soon. I'll do my best to hold off but I get a bit cray cray in TWW. 😂

Nellieee · 19/01/2021 11:40

Hello!! Joining in as I am impatiently waiting in my second TWW. Gah. 8dpo and watching the hours count down. I'm sometimes envious of people who have happy surprises as they don't go through this torture!

1littlewren · 19/01/2021 11:45

@scandiontheloose is this your first you're trying for?? I was so chilled out with my first, I tested a fair amount when I expected AF but I didn't symptom spot or track or anything!!

Welcome @Nellieee 🙋🏻‍♀️

scandiontheloose · 19/01/2021 11:48

@1littlewren yep first bubba. My partner works away at sea so I have half the month every month to obsess about these things on my own when he's away😂 probably better like that, think he would agree I'm nuts if he'd see me on my TWW symptom spotting bonanza 😂 we haven't been trying for a long time yet so I'm not too worried but also really ready to be a mom if that makes sense

Lowkeyloopy · 19/01/2021 11:55

Hi all, please can I join in too?! I’ve been reading along in the background and rooting for you all Smile. I’m in the 2ww of my first cycle, 5dpo (I think). We were planning to start trying next month but, err, the moment took us a week or so ago..! So we’ve unofficially started I guess!

Currently reading and googling too much and convincing myself the slight cramping I’m feeling means something..! So useful reading about everyone’s symptoms!

Baby dust to all xx

1littlewren · 19/01/2021 12:01

@scandiontheloose I know just what you mean! I hit 29 and that was it I was ready. Didn't really give my OH a choice just told I him it was happening 🤣

@Lowkeyloopy hello!!! Any symptoms to report, imaginary or real accepted here 🤣

Lowkeyloopy · 19/01/2021 12:07

@1littlewren Hi, thanks for the welcome!

One weird potential symptom is that for the last 3 nights I have been waking up at 3am, 4am, 5am, feeling very warm, for absolutely no reason...! Completely unheard of for me not to sleep through. Anyone had anything similar?! Seems far too early (pre any implantation) for my body to be doing anything? Hmm

Kaz1987 · 19/01/2021 12:18

Hi All

In due to test on Friday, my last AF was 25/12. On 14/01 I wiped and there was a bit of blood on 14/01, since then I’ve felt bloated and hard vivivd dreams. I am literally symptom spotting everything, this is my second cycle trc so fingers crossed.

Really want to test early but only a few more days to go 😦

marcella64 · 19/01/2021 12:26

Hi @Kaz1987 I'm same as you, due af Friday. No tests in the house so I'll have to be late to test xx

WaitingForEgg · 19/01/2021 12:33

I tested last night
Didn’t hold, drank loads then did one 🙈 BFN obviously
I got my opk peak on 9th pm so probably ovulated 10th or 11th. So was only 7-8 DPO with no hold

Despite this I’m utterly convinced I’m definitely out
I had more cramping last night but still no af. About 5 months ago I had a weird long cycle that lasted 46 days. I’m worried the same thing will happen again 😭

Moneypenny007 · 19/01/2021 12:41

Hi canni join in? I'm 11 dpo at this stage. Tested this morning, but it was negative. I've been bloated and mild cramps since last week. Not due to test until 26th/27th and the wait is just a killer. We got pregnant fairly quick the last 2 times but I was younger back then and not as much stress happening.
On top of that we are wfh and one of the kids is sick...

NW2021 · 19/01/2021 12:55

@scandiontheloose how do you find Ttc with DP working away? I only ask because my DP is away as well. Can range different times but mostly 4 weeks away 2 weeks home. So difficult Ttc and be able to time it right!

@Lowkeyloopy I’ve been the exact same with waking up in the night hot! I was up at 2am then 5am last night. I’m 12dpo and already had bfn so I’m just waiting for af to arrive but I keep waking up 2/3 times a night still! It’s really not like me & had the same pain in my groin for days. I’m guessing it’s just af on her way & I’m just clinging on to any symptom 😂

I have to say ladies I’m so glad I found this thread/site. I thought I was the only crazy one symptom spotting/serial early tester!! 🤣

NW2021 · 19/01/2021 12:59

@WaitingForEgg sorry you got bfn but you are still really early dpo. Maybe give it few more days and try in morning? As the ladies told me you’re not out till Af arrives!!

@Moneypenny007 hey! How long have you been Ttc?

scandiontheloose · 19/01/2021 13:09

@NW2021
Ahh well we've been lucky that my fertile window has usually been when he's home but sometimes we DTD anyways before he heads away in the hope that the tadpoles feel like hanging about and wait for the egg😂 (obvs that hasn't worked yet) 😂 in all honesty it's tough going at times. Especially during TWW when I start symptom spotting. It's better if there is someone else home too to distract you from all the googling 🙈

Moneypenny007 · 19/01/2021 13:12

This is our first month so not getting hopes up. We had planned to start for the last 2 years but life got in the way. We just said fe*k it after Xmas

Brightspark12 · 19/01/2021 13:16

Hi guys can I join? On CD27 of a normally 26-29 day cycle... sore boobs but usually get them before AF.. had some cramping for about 3 days. Driving myself nuts! Not sure what DPO as I didn’t get a positive smiley this month (had a nearly peak Test CD15) when’s everyone testing?

Lowkeyloopy · 19/01/2021 13:58

@NW2021 Have you been getting vivid dreams too? I’ve definitely had some weird ones! Entirely possible it’s just my brain trying to process all the thoughts around this new exciting thing of course..! Also so glad I found this thread - my DP is very patient but even he will have his fill of my symptom speculation before long!

@Moneypenny007 Haha this sounds familiar! I think the last year has made a lot of people think “fe*k it” and start trying. I can’t get hold of His & Hers pregnacare for love nor money at the moment anyway, so a baby boom must be coming!

AF due for me on 28 Jan - anyone else? (Sorry should just scroll up..) Smile

NW2021 · 19/01/2021 14:29

@scandiontheloose that is lucky! I was the same this month dtd this month before he left then I ovulated 4 days later so I’m hoping it might of worked 🤞🏻Then he’s back the day before I ovulate in Feb. I hope ov doesn’t come early meaning we’ll miss it 🙈

@Lowkeyloopy Omg yes! I’ve had them for about the past week or so but again I don’t know if it’s because I’ve been thinking about it all loads. But my dreams aren’t pregnancy related, there some really random stuff 😂

Grace185 · 19/01/2021 14:31

@Lowkeyloopy af is due for me 22-27 (unsure as only had one cycle from the pill) so will be testing next Friday if she doesn’t turn up! I have had spotting and cramps recently but don’t want to get my hopes up. As spotting can be bad or good!