The filthy sisterhood of basques 👯‍♀️babydolls with easy access holes, IVF drugs & supportive hugs -TTC bus 28

[Minster2012]

Well ladies we made it all of 9 days before needing a new bus, I think I’ve had farts that lasted long, especially when they were in a bag (in blog joke) and now it’s an extra long one...bus, not fart 😜.

We are a chatty bunch it seems and we like to encourage ppl to get involved with our racing car of a TTC bus which can also be a bit of sex education class as well!

It may seem a strange ride here as we’ve got all sorts on our bus (not just the animals). We’ve got long term ticket holders where some of us have been around each other for longer than we care to remember now (so bloody hell some ppl here REALLY are bloody owed a sticky BFP now right??) but cos we love 💓each other and genuinely care about each other we cling together...despite some of us heading of to the infertility clinics, and we’ve got some newbies at the start of their TTC journeys, child number 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 18 we don’t care.

Any questions ask away, we LOVE ppl to get involved...we love those who chatter!! We also love a sex toy 😉

And if you see mention of my blog then blame these guys they made me do it...#shamelessplug

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Story so far...

June 24 BFPs
July 11 BFPs
August 18 BFPs
Sep 4 BFPs
Oct 7 BFPs
Nov 7 BFPs
Dec 14 BFPs

5 BFP already for jan...who is next?? 🥰

@Kirky658 it's tough when you feel like you are up against before you even get started!

@Justanothercyster i don't think I'd say anything tonight if I were you. You said the guy texted to apologise so I'd guess they have relised it is a tricky subject and will be more sensitive. I'd see how this goes tonight and then if you still feel like getting it out there in the open after that then go ahead. But obviously feel free to ignore that if it doesn't sound right to you, I'm just going off the bits you've said iyswim

@Gem176 yeah b.c that could well be me too, freak when it actually happens after all my talk.
@Florence13 waffle away, I'm waffling with you 😂 yeah I think that's it, if it turned into a loss I'd rather have been happy while it lasted than only felt anxious. But hey ho I don't need to worry about this right now with my empty uterus 😂

we can ALL WAFFLE AWAY but SOMEONE TELL ME ABOUT THE KNICKERS

FOMOOOOOOOOOOO

How can I write a sensible blog post with this lot going on???

Ok they aren't sensible.

Argh.

Yes @Gem176 this lot told me i'm funny. I should write a blog. So I am. They are clearly deluded.

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Trying to explain my history, as well as the ivf as well as my stupid day to day life (like DS locking me in a room yesterday) and my parents telling me I'm stupid to do ivf again (they didn't know the first or second time but I told them after the fact of the MMC first time as they were away) full stop after I told them at Christmas when they asked me on Monday what the latest was & I stupidly told them yes we are doing it again, & why can't we just be happy. Thanks for that.

@Kirky658 I like @Franklydear idea too or you could put a sign up to your parents on the zoom thing saying "back in 5 mins" and just leave it there

@Katao exactly hun glad you caught what I was waffling about 🙈

@Minster2012 we are not here to support sensible blog writing we like the quirky kinky conversations although not sure they are entirely suitable for the blog 🤔 but we all think you are a truly inspirational person who has an epic knack for captivating with words.

Anyway on a separate note I have just had the most epic sex for the first time since my loss so I’m feeling pretty good right now.

Hi everyone.
Not been a good day, the pain is terrible and I don't get painful periods.
So I'm pretty sure past 2 months have been chemicals.
@Minster2012 5 months ttc, so not that long. I will give it another month and see what happens.

@Juno231 how is your family today? Xx

@Vil10 very exciting tell us what the new place is like, we bought our dream home 3 years ago xx

@Franklydear sorry AF got you xx

@DJmum83 sorry to hear you are suffering and that you have had two chemicals. Hope you are looking after yourself. Sending hugs

@Katao none of us have a crystal ball 🔮 and maybe that's a good thing. I love what you say about being happy while it lasts whatever the outcome . Live in the moment ❤️

@Minster2012 you are funny, OH is sparko on the couch so no telling him the good news tonight 😩 instead I'm off to read your blog 😁
What a shitty thing to say! Why the fuck shouldn't you do IVF? I don't understand that thinking at all, a lot of people want to have children so why does it matter how they do that? There are so many routes to being a parent... it's not hard to support another persons choices so long as they aren't harming anyone else ❤️

Go @Florence13 🍆🍆🍆

Thanks @Florence13 I'm ok lying on couch with a hot water bottle on me and taking ibuprofen.

Hope your doing ok xxx

@Florence13 just seen your post yay to the epic sex.
Have everything crossed for you this month xx

Thanks for the responses. We didn't say anything to them in the end as it never really came up. Was a lot better today and I think it was just the initial shock when I saw the scan that made it uncomfortable last time. I think they realise something is going on so disaster averted phew.

@Minster2012 well I was asking about how to get money quick for our house deposit and @BlondePotter said I should sell used knickers online 😂
That photo is gross!!!!

@Minster2012 wearing pjs all day long, making money from our thong, tww driving us crazy, all this s**t to make a baby!

How's that? 🤣🤣 I like making bus names 🤣🤣

@Catherinettc I like it, we might get another warning though

Ha ha @Justanothercyster that was like the 3rd picture that came up for "knicker sniffing" as well, weird isn't it?! Not a bloke!! Pleased it went well, I think they prob twigged they need to be a bit more sensitive after he apologised

@Florence13 WHOOOOOOOOOPPPPPP That's awesome and thank you. I can't really write sensibly. Even about the illness stuff.

@DJmum83 I hope DH/OH is looking after you period pain is awful, I've been bad today, had a nice bath and that was better xx

@Vil10 how's your Pinterest board tonight?!!!

@Gem176 yeah I know, but I've had a lot of illness in my life & it's made them worry a lot & they are VERY worried about me & Covid but it's ridiculous. They can't even just shut up and say nothing. Meh

@Dollybird89 I'm gonna send you a pm lovely xx

@Franklydear mmmm true 🤦‍♀️🤣🤣 xx

@Catherinettc done
You can stay around a wee while bitch

@Minster2012 well thankyou I am honoured but tbh I don't think u will ever get rid of me 🤣🤣 im a keeper ;) xx

@DJmum83 aww thanks we have decided we are going for the not trying not preventing approach due to my loss. As I feel like I don’t want to put to much pressure on myself if it doesn’t happen this cycle.

@Catherinettc I think you bus name ideas are epic, hope your keeping well.

Where has this thong reference come from and what is that knicker sniffing photo 🤣 never dull in here

@Minster2012 I hear ya, I have a mum that's a bit like that, worries but instead of just zipping it when her worries leave her with nothing nice to say she goes ahead and says the not so nice things anyway 🙄 luckily I now have a very thick skin!

@2020mission see @Justanothercyster comment below

@Minster2012 i hear you. If I get my bfp I'm planning on keeping it to myself as long as possible because definitely think some people will think its unwise with covid etc.

I've been trying to be all chill today but now that it's getting closer to bed time I'm a wreck, I actually feel sick at the thought of testing tomorrow incase the line hasn't darkened (it will have been 48hrs). Don't think I can cope with a 5th CP! Can't even down some wine tonight to help the nerves, I've been moving furniture around instead trying to change my living room but now it looks like a disaster zone as I got so frustrated with it and gave up 🙈

@Florence13 that's the approach I'm going to try this month need to relax a bit more..
Will see if I manage it.

@Minster2012 he has been lovely came home early and done everything can't fault him, I don't usually get pain but I'm doubled over in pain xxx