Entering 2021 in a Bum flap onesie for lockdown lovin, squinty lines & foul words - TTC Bus 27

[Minster2012]

It’s a New Year TTC bitches and of course it’s time for a new bus...

2020 was a bit of a TWATFACE for us
2021...is surely EXACTLY the number of babies we are owed by now.

We’ve read up on what we need to do to get pregnant, if you haven’t, see last bus or read my hotly anticipated blog and join us.

We are here, we are ready, so get your tickets for the bus, grab your seat, your roadie & your snacks cos I’ve sent out the memo to the stalks- bring us our babies!

Story so far...

June 24 BFPs
July 11 BFPs
August 18 BFPs
Sep 4 BFPs
Oct 7 BFPs
Nov 7 BFPs
Dec 14 BFPs
2 sneaky ones just before New Year!

2 BFP already for jan!

So what’s everyone’s New Years resolutions then? Who is gonna get the first BFP of 2021?
And what should be the title of my new blog?🤔

@Minster2012 A couple of OH friends have had babies during first/second lockdown and have had good experiences so it's nice to know as they were at the same hospital we will be too ☺️ I'm looking forward to the hidden away time but also would be nice to go and meet up with my friend who's also due the same time as me as we will be on mat leave together!

@Katao No problem glad to have helped 😘

@jane334 sorry for the random rambling but I just wanted to share my thoughts because it might be helpful. We're always here to listen whenever you need. These girls have been my rock this past 6months, I'm glad you've found us 💕

@Vil10 step away from this girl it's not good for you!!

@Justanothercyster your dream sounds good but why did you invite another girl?? 🤣😂unless she was crap and just made you look better 🤔balancing a spoon I've never been good at, but I guess some ppl could be 🤣

@Hopeful110 maybe something??? Are you gonna get a pink dye??

@Idreamof2more you could swap with me, bowel surgeries mean I live a life of the opposite to constipation, I've never worked out what's best!! Prune juice darling. Get some

@Sausage1990 I love that, it is such a beautiful way of looking at things ❤️

@Minster2012 yeah I have 4 frers in my drawer, just about to add another 2 into my amazon basket 🤣makes me feel better about maybe using one in morning haha

@Hopeful110 LOL!! Go for it

@Sausage1990 that's beautiful. Your rainbow will find you. You know, truly believe after the worst storms come the brightest rainbows 🥰🌈

Sorry pressed too soon should have tagged @Jane334 too in that 🌈♥️

@Minster2012 sorry to hear you suffer the other end. Yeah I might grab some but I’m a bloody wuss if I don’t like the taste.
How are you feeling today ? Xx

Omg, is taking me the whole community to catch up, see what I remember
@Skip86 hey, hello, you'll have to read more often
@paintfairy children are resilient if they are supported, even ds is coping with this shit show and autism, he is superconfident, his senxo says is because we provide everything he needs and make everybody else too, so he has no reason to doubt himself, and she must know, I make her life hard in regular basis...
@Minster2012 I love the blog, and you obviously, not just because of the shotgun, but I need to borrow it
Bossboy is busy so easy to ignore, but he is also sulking, I'll never heart the end

@Justanothercyster job wise? I work as a web developer. I am very fortunate to have a job that's so easy to do remotely. I was hoping to hide my job title after seeing that @Minster2012 started her blog website 😆 only joking! Funny that I work in a team of guys and all of them have little kids causing them work issues right now as they need to drop offline throughout the day to juggle child care with their OH and me the one gal in the team has no babies 🤣 full time work for me.

@Sausage1990 that was lovely to read your positive view on 2020 and the MMC. It's so true that pregnancy should be remembered as a happy time with your baby cosy inside, whatever the end result might be! I'm sure it won't be long until you get your next BFP. How long did it take the first time? I still remember I got my BFP on the same bus as you back in the summer, but mines was only 5 weeks before it ended though, so nowhere near as hard.

@Hopeful110 eek! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼
I'm ok, feeling a bit meh with the whole ttc thing, but got the lovely lockdown to keep us busy 😂
Might not be tonight after all as I've just had a bad shaving incident down there 😳

@Vil10 it could be anything, but yes it may contribute. To have a pcos diagnosis you have to meet 2/3 criteria (1. Irregular periods, 2. Cysts on scan, 3. Blood test). Let's hope it's nothing too serious, I'm sure it'll be fine. It's good they're doing a scan so quickly x

@Minster2012 tbh it started with just her and then Ashton turned up 🤣 I'm secretly bi I reckon haha.

@2020mission ah cool. I've a few friends who do that, very lucky indeed x

@Justanothercyster ohhh no!? Maybe do the syringe instead? Lol you poor thing! Nothing worse than wanting the 🍆 and not being able to have it

@lucyrp how did you find it?? Yess I thought the same!!

@Minster2012 oh I am for sure, not looking at any more, doesnt do me any favours in the mood department!!

@Sausage1990 lovely words❤️

@Justanothercyster I had bloods in June and they were all fine but they might not have been the right ones! My periods have always been regular, I might have cysts though, I have read somewhere that you can have cysts but not have pcos, so could be that! I hope so, I keep having random thoughts of worry, it is really good of the dr to put it through as an emergency so I get the app quicker! I'll make sure I keep you updated x

Evening everyone!

Hope you're all OK 😊 loads of posts to catch up on!

@Idreamof2more you need ALL the veggies!! That'll get things moving 😉

@Justanothercyster sounds like a great dream!!

I'm feeling a bit crap today. Spent a large chunk of today symptom spotting, convinced myself I was actually pregnant, then remembered that we haven't been able to DTD as much and what we did do likely wasn't at the right time...so I've made myself sad and now just want AF to turn up if nothing is gonna happen. I hate irregular periods.

@2020mission yeah I just had a moment and decided to remember the happiness 💕 it helped me feel most positive & excited about getting pregnant again (because the thought of pregancy after loss is a bit scary tbh)... And any loss is hard sno matter how far along you are. Yeah I remember we did.. I got my BFP on the 9th of August 2020, after 9 months but 6 cycles. I'd had a few bonkers cycles with @lucyrp in the spring but they normalised in June and we caught in July. So quite quickly in the grand scheme of things. We got a BFP on nye 2018 on our 1st month trying which ended up being a chemical & then caught again on the 2nd month of more normal cycles so I'm really hoping we'll be lucky and catch soon but really you just don't know. What about you? Remind me where you are in your journey. Xx

@Justanothercyster bloody understandable it's dog shit and cold, what a combo!! Hope you sort your shaving incident out 😬
Ah I haven't had a sex dream in ages, would love one!
@Skip86 hey skippy nice to hear from you. I'm glad you liked @Minster2012 intro to you, on point right! 😁
@Hopeful110 I couldn't see a line on those pics but as you know, still pretty early! Good luck 🤞🏾
@Minster2012 did I read yesterday that you're appointment is going ahead on Thursday this week?

Just sat watching the Brentford v Spurs game, Dh is a Brentford fan so is intently watching and swearing at the tv 😳

@Franklydear if bossboy is sulking surely he won't talk to you? And I should damn hope you love me cos of more than just my long pointy barrels 😂🤣but thank you 😘I think you should just enjoy the peace for as looooooong as you can

@2020mission OMG please don't read my blog. I'm such a novice tech wise. My friend has already said you can't move between posts like forward and back buttons and I can't find out how to fix that cos I'm just using wix and their step by step guide. FFS. Cant even get the app to work on my phone to just log in. Stroll on 😜😳you'll be the one who would ace managing work load anyway I bet being a woman anyway.

@Justanothercyster out of interest who was better. The woman or Ashton??

@Vil10 I am both intrigued and annoyed by this Elle woman. You know when you hate that drama but can't walk away. Me & @Joanna1009 were musing over this the other day.

@InkyPaper don't get down and honestly can't you remember there have been several ppl who have got BFPs from once or twice on the days leading up to OV. It's very easy to get down though cos it's fecking miserable in the cold, lockdown & the dark 🤣😂

I just had to comment on this AIBU. Have a look before it inevitably gets taken down!

To think my my MIL get a taxi to her hospital appointments this week? http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/amiibeingunreasonable/4126970-To-think-my-my-MIL-get-a-taxi-to-her-hospital-appointments-this-week

@Minster2012 in the words of Pam Shipman (Gavin and Stacey) "it's the drama Mick, I just love it!" 😂 but the way I'm not ignoring you. Just had one of those days but will reply to your DM soon x

Oh yes @notyetamumbuttrying the appointment is going ahead on Thursday so we should get a timeline!! 🤞🏻🤞🏻

I'm just about to write the IVF bit for the blog and I don't know whether to write a combined bit about IVF for now and 2020 to get it all down or do a 2020 IVF then now 🤔it's really hard trying to do past and present and get us upto date when there's so much still to go into 🤨

And @Idreamof2more just be pleased you e got the pregnancy bit sorted then without having to drink assfruit juice 1 (grapefruit juice) and as fruit juice 2 (pomegranate juice) like the rest of us try!

@Minster2012 great news!! I bet you can't bloody wait for a timeline, I'm gagging for mine and it's still weeks away 😩
I'd split it and do 2020 and then say see 2021 for the latest...👍🏾

@notyetamumbuttrying coolio will do that, even if I can't get it to work properly. I kinda copied you on the AIBU, but harsher maybe 😂🤣

@Joanna1009 👌🏻

@Minster2012 ha I saw! Loved the "struck off my will" ender 😂. Seriously though, why has everyone gone mad?!
Ha great meme! Who doesn't love the drama eh! 😏

@notyetamumbuttrying wow, she sounds approachable , surely she would have taken her, oh god
@Minster2012 yes, not a word the whole damm day, just passed by my work area 20 times, despite being busy, but I am not saying the first word, on your knees, boy, then I’ll consider listening to you, I also think now he is afraid of talking to me, I usually used his little oh the other day I... whatevers, to plank him with issues when I am mad, so he knows to stay away, in the past he had: cancel days off, changed medical appointments, cancel a holiday, and he was going away, .... by the way, I didn’t asked him to do any of this, I just text him I quit, or putting a complaint, or similar....(I don’t know when he has leave, he keeps it secret and I assume when he didn’t come in 3 days, or I check with other managers, he did come to work on his Saturday off when I told him I lost the baby but going to work, so he could make sure I was gonna be ok and send me home if needed and I texted him at 7 in the morning, not that I would have listen though, but it made it easier to decide not to go on Monday after hospital on Sunday

@Minster2012 I got an email about your blog being updated, I won’t lose it now🤩🤦🏼‍♀️