TTC after MC - November 2020 (Thread 15)

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Hi All,

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And anyone else who would like to join please do xx

@MSG92
Yes see if it eases when you get up and walk around xx

It does feel better when I'm up, it's still there but more dull. Honestly, now that I'm up my whole body is aching from whatever i am suffering with as well so it's hard to identify what hurts! Didn't have this problem when DH was still working away lol. Haven't been ill since before lockdown he comes home and brings germs!

Let us know how you get on xx

@MSG92 have everything crossed that all is ok for you. It’s a very anxious time isn’t it x

Thanks everyone, what would I do without you all. DH is fast asleep in the spare room, we aren't sharing due to his positive result and I don't want to worry him in case it's nothing or because I am generally unwell.

What a ride this is hey. Things see never easy

Thanks @HappyVibes I'm just concerned that they've been ongoing for like 12 hours now that's the main thing. Pain isn't debilitating I don't need to take anything for it but its just pretty constant. This combined with what feels like flu and I'm done in!

@MSG92 ahh I hope you start to feel better soon.

I am 6 weeks now and I have achy pains every day feels like AF too at times, and same as you MC in august. Try not to worry keep busy, and keep positive. I have my fingers crossed for you xx

I'm on CD7, starting the SMEP this month :-) So excited. Wishing everyone lots of baby dust.

Thanks @griff2019

Good luck @anon0704!!!

Well, I still have stomach pains, they've not really changed since about 10pm last night... I'm very nervous.

Is anyone testing soon or nearly at the end of TWW? Some good news would be great.

@MSG92 was just scrolling down and came across your comment I did go for abdominal in the end.

@griff2019 aaah that's amazing!!!! @ 6 weeks that's so cool!!!

@MSG92 keep us posted! If you haven't had any spotting or bleeding I would say that all is ok 🤞🏻😊

I'm 13dpo (AF due today) but got a bfn on a frer this morning 😔. It's my first cycle after mc and had my hopes up that I'd be extra fertility some how so feeling quite deflated. We have been ttc for 14 months and last months bfp was the only one we'd had which I mc'd at 5 weeks

Fertile not fertility!

@MSG92 Me, I'm nearly at the end of my tww! AF due on Sunday. Been very bloated and constipated all week but other than that, no clues either way. Firmly not allowing myself any excitement, which is a bit sad that it has to be that way, but I need to protect my heart.

@SS123456 Hugs, and do test again in a few days if you can bear it. Just to make sure. I was sooo hopeful first month after MC as well, and took it harder than I'd expected when I didn't fall pg straight away. That was my silver lining I was hoping for - but it didn't happen for us. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best 😊❤️

Thank you @susiebluebell 😊. I knew I would take this month hard and getting a bfp straight away I felt would some how 'fix' things. We can live in hope 🤞🏻😊

Hi all, I've had two miscarriages this year, started TTC in October 2019. Had a 10 week missed miscarriage in June, followed by a very early one at 4+5 in September. AF is now 3 days late based on ovulation, and I'm trying to be strong and not test until CD31 which is the latest I've ever had AF. Two more days to go... I'm scared about getting my hopes up after the difficult year we've had, plus my boobs are not sore like they were the first time, but also feel a bit hopeful. I'm so jealous women who have never had a miscarriage get to just enjoy their pregnancies and not constantly feel worried.

@notalwaysalondoner It's absurd, isn't it? The thought of breezing through it unawares. I thought that would be me actually, as I generally don't have health problems and little medical history. I know miscarriage is 'normal' and not necessarily a medical problem, but I naively thought it would never happen to me.

@SS123456 Hope is the strongest thing in the world! ♥

Hi ladies.
I wondered if any of you had ever tested with an OPK during your TWW? I'm sure I remember reading it on here so I gave it a try. 9DPO today and I have a flashing face. What does this mean, any ideas? X

Hey @susiebluebell fingers crossed for you!!!

@Ra1nb0w85 I did! I used my cheapie ones and got a really strong line so I used a pregnancy test. Mine looked like a peak ovulation.

I am STILL having stomach pains, this is almost 24hrs of constant stomach pain, so fed up now, And DH's 98yr old nana died a couple hours ago, we didn't get to say goodbye... Poo!!

@MSG92 so sorry for what your going through atm x

@MSG92 I thought I read it on here, never heard of it before but crossing my fingers I have the outcome you did.
Sorry to hear you are having a tough time :( Easier said than done I know but try and stay positive - think happy thoughts as I'm sure that little bubba is just testing you X

Morning all.

@MSG92 I'm sorry your DH's nana passed away 💕 How is your tum today?

Morning all
@susiebluebell thanks, hard not being able to say goodbye that's all.
Its still not right, it hurt all evening until I went to bed, it's not as painful this morning but still weird. I'll just have to take no bleeding as it being OK I suppose... Was going to book an early scan for around the 9 week mark but maybe I'll do it sooner now.

Hope everyone has a great day! Good luck anyway in the FW, DTD!!! Haha. We haven't for about 2 weeks due to the positive covid test and sleeping separately whilst he's got it, and I must say, it's a welcome break!

@Ra1nb0w85 I took an OPK very soon after my chemical pregnancy when I was still having positive pregnancy tests and got a solid smiley, so it definitely throws them off. Sounds hopeful.

I didn’t manage to hold out on testing until tomorrow but I got my BFP! Trying not to get my hopes up too much though as after two miscarriages I don’t want to get emotionally over invested too early. I’ve asked the private doctor we saw for fertility checks for progesterone as a precaution so hopefully she’ll prescribe that ASAP. Fingers crossed this one sticks!!

@notalwaysalondoner aaaah fantastic news!! Congratulations and I hope it sticks.