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TTC after MC - November 2020 (Thread 15)

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VP91x · 11/11/2020 12:26

Hi All,

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J785948 · 13/12/2020 08:43

@SS123456 Congrats!!! Are you going to test again or are you going to call it a day there?

I am also 9/10DPO today but my husband wants us to wait to test for a bit longer!

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Wishingfornumber2 · 13/12/2020 08:44

@SS123456 wow congratulations!!
@RichmondLady1981 my last cycle was 40 days but they have been ranging anything from 31-41 days. I had a mc in July 2018 so has unfortunately been a couple of years of TTC for me.

bez91 · 13/12/2020 08:50

@SS123456 congratulations! Absolutely fantastic news 😊

@TheDaydreamBelievers ditto here, I never got into tempting as we've been lucky with conceiving, just can't keep a pregnancy. I've not had any bleeding for about 24 hours but not holding my breath it's over 😩. DTD a couple of times with protection as want to see a negative PT before but very much feel in limbo like you.

SS123456 · 13/12/2020 09:20

Thank you ladies! As I am sure you will all relate to, I'm super scared this time around but really hoping this one is a sticky!

@Hanbanxx I'm going to keep testing fot a little while as I am only 9dpo and want to see if the lines progress well 🤞🏻

@J785948 This is cycle 15 ttc no.2 for me (I am 37 with an 8 year old DS from a previous relationship). I fell on cycle 13 in oct but mc'd at 5 weeks so feeling quite nervous this time around. I am hoping that a bfp at 9dpo is a good thing as last time I only got my first lines at 12dpo

MRJ86 · 13/12/2020 09:37

@SS123456 I got a BFP at 9DPO in October and thought it early - turns out it's due to carrying twins! Congratulations.... hope the pregnancy goes well xxxx

SS123456 · 13/12/2020 09:56

@MRJ86 thank you! Now I'm even more scared 😂😁

Hopefulmummie · 13/12/2020 10:30

Hey everyone hope you are all well.
Ive stopped bleeding in the last 2 days and got a negative test result finally. Thinking ovulation will be within the next week so going to ttc again from then.

@SS123456 congratulations on your bfp. Can I ask how long it's been since your miscarriage?

SS123456 · 13/12/2020 11:04

Of course @Hopefulmummie ! 😊

I miscarried on the 19th of Oct at 5 weeks so this is is my second cycle since. The first pregnancy was after13 months ttc and this is month 15. My cycles have been all over the shop since the mc with fluctuating bbt, rhr readings, mid-cycle bleeding, so I'm quite surprised. I thought we'd have another year of trying ahead of us. We are booked in for private fertility test on the 22nd Dec too 🤦🏻‍♀️

susiebluebell · 13/12/2020 11:42

@SS123456 Ah I'm so bloody happy for you! Got everything crossed it goes well xx

@Hopefulmummie So glad you've got a negative now, it means you're onward and up! Bring on dtd and the dreaded tww! Haha!

@Wishingfornumber2 I'm perversely relieved to see someone else with a random cycle of 48 days! Mine have been a bit variable since mc but usually about 34 days. Hoping you figure it out and I'm on your long cycle mystery team!

Hopefulmummie · 13/12/2020 11:43

@susiebluebell I know can't believe I will after to go through that again after 2 pregnancies in the last 6 months

susiebluebell · 13/12/2020 12:13

@Hopefulmummie I know 😄 We just keep on putting one foot in front of the other because we want those babies! 💕

SS123456 · 13/12/2020 12:34

Thank you ladies, I wouldn't have got this far without your support ❤️

Runnergirl1 · 13/12/2020 12:36

@SS123456 congratulations. Such lovely news x

RichmondLady1981 · 13/12/2020 13:17

@SS123456 this is so fantastic!!! Huge congratulations!! Everything crossed things progress for you x x x

Thank you @MSG92- AF due today so just going to see what happens. Just been to the Hampton Court food festival and couldn’t resist a sip of my DH’s mulled wine! Let’s see what gives. Hoping she doesn’t show up.

Mustkeepgoing2 · 13/12/2020 13:53

@SS123456 This is brilliant. Congratulations and I wish you the happy and healthy pregnancy you do deserve 💕

@RichmondLady1981 How funny! We were at the Hampton Court Food Festival today too. What a small world.

I am approaching my fertile window but have a HyCoSy tomorrow, I am terrified! We should still be able to try this month just keeping everything crossed that everything is okay.

Hopefulmummie · 13/12/2020 16:22

I normally ovulate in cd14. Based on miscarriage bleeding (which has now stopped) I'm on cd11 and just got a smiley face on clear blue ovulation test. Just concerned that this might be from pregnancy hormones?

susiebluebell · 13/12/2020 18:52

@Hopefulmummie It might be. Are you able to do a pregnancy test? That should give you an indication of whether there still are pregnancy hormones in your system. Xx

susiebluebell · 13/12/2020 18:55

Sorry just read back and saw you'd got a negative test result. Hm not sure. It's not inconceivable that you're ovulating already. How would you feel about going straight back into dtd?

Hanbanxx · 13/12/2020 19:24

Could I please ask when everyone ovulated after their MC? I ovulated on day 16 when I conceived. Currently on day 13 in my cycle xx

TheDaydreamBelievers · 13/12/2020 19:37

@Hopefulmummie - have you had a negative pregnancy test yet?

TheDaydreamBelievers · 13/12/2020 19:38

Sorry @Hopefulmummie I hadn't read that you already had a negative.

Hopefulmummie · 13/12/2020 19:47

@susiebluebell @Hanbanxx
I took a pregnancy test yesterday and looked negative but more I looked at it could see a really really faint line.
Would that be enough to have a positive ovulation test?
I'd like to start trying again wouldn't want to waste any cycles
Will take another pregnancy one tomorrow.

flyinghigh101 · 13/12/2020 19:51

Hi lovely ladies. Wondering if I can pick your brains. I had a MC at 8 weeks last month. We've decided to try again straight away and currently in the dreaded two week wait and symptom spotting like a mad woman. For those of you that have conceived more than once, were your symptoms the same, did you know you were pregnant again or did it feel different? Feeling confused by what my body is upto! 💐

susiebluebell · 13/12/2020 20:05

Hi @Hanbanxx I just checked my app and I tracked ovulation on cd22 after MC, which is pretty normal for me xx

@Hopefulmummie Yeah if you're still getting faint lines on a pt then I'm not surprised you're getting positive OPKs too. But nothing saying you can't dtd if you want to 💕

Garman · 13/12/2020 20:20

@flyinghigh101 I had some similar early symptoms that made me aware I was pregnant every time long before a test would tell me. But then I also had other symptoms that differed each time!