The Turkey Baster Gang (gobble gobble)

[Oilyoilyoilgob]

Just starting a new thread on self insemination before our first one locks down!

39 pages of highs and lows and THE most supportive group you could wish for if you’re starting or on a self insemination journey.

💚✨ good luck ✨💚

@sailormoo92 that's a far more grown up reason for that name 😳 😂
Bless you, I bet those circumstances makes it a bigger challenge! I hope you get your BFP soon!
I'm not sure if anyone copes being in the tww? I definitely go a bit crazy if I'm honest (which becomes more and more obvious as I go along) especially with nowhere to go and nothing to do!

Thanks @Oilyoilyoilgob @DinkBoo @MrsKin90 and @primrosechill !

How are you all doing?

I'm 6dpo now and feeling achy like af is coming

Just trying to distract myself!

Hi @shelbyrae hope you’re feeling ok? Hopefully not period twinges, fingers crossed they aren’t!

I’m ok, think I’m cd 27 (me and my husband are disputing my last start date!) feeling some cramps today but reading nothing into anything anymore! I weirdly can very easily detach in the tww, probs because I can find so much other stuff to worry about 😂

I’m wondering if I did start my period the last thurs in Oct so I’m due three days earlier then my tracker says. I cannot stop eating today. Trying to keep it healthy but it’s like period hunger. So maybe I’m due to have my period, I don’t know. Must keep eating fruit though not the bags of crisps calling me in the cupboard 🐷

@MrsKin90 @Oilyoilyoilgob thanks both. Fingers crossed indeed! I am starting to get sick of constantly peeing on sticks though! Maybe next month I will give the sticks a break and ask hubby to just try every other day from CD6 and see what happens. That and temp taking, which was still 36.4 this morning. 🧐 I hate trying to figure out ovulation!!!!

@bigsweetpotato this is exactly what my husband I did this cycle (inseminating every other day) - I keep reminding myself that this is also the general recommendation from NHS although I do appreciate that for some people every other day might be much if their partner is struggling and therefore knowing exactly when you O is so much more useful. But I keep hoping for us maybe that will pay off - we did get much more sperm compared to when we did it every day and it did look healthy, based on my totally non-scientific and backed by absolutely effing nothing opinion 😂🧐

I'm either 5DPO (if I go by cheapies) or 7DPO (if I go by the uber confusing clearblue digital) today - I think it's the former though, looking at my BBT. Despite my best efforts I am 100% symptom spotting already and convinced myself I have been urinating much more than usual 😂😂😂 So to answer your question, @sailormoo92, the way I deal with TWW is clearly by going absolutely mental haha.

@MrsKin90 any sign of AF yet?

@Oilyoilyoilgob so good that you can detach yourself, you need to teach me your ways lol

And I'm the same with the hunger, I'm literally eating my kitchen!! At least you're keeping to healthy food! When are you planning to test?

And yeah 99% sure I'm out - no boob soreness, really bad cramps and lower backache - AF is due around the 4th so hopefully not too much longer to go x

@shelbyrae hopefully it's far too early to feel like AF is actually coming and cramping in the tww can be normal. Lots of people say that they feel like AF is coming and then it doesn't so fingers tightly crossed for you don't give up! (Watch me completely ignore my own advice further down 😇).

@Oilyoilyoilgob would you have mentioned AF starting and CD1 on this thread? We usually announce it to each other 😂 unless that's also wrong! Hope you managed to snack on healthy things for the rest of the day!

No sign of AF. I do have a bad headache and had an absolute melt down today about my glasses steaming up when I put a mask on and did some ugly hyperventilating crying 😳 so that's probably an AF sign and I imagine I'll be CD1 tomorrow or the next day 😢 I've completely given up on this cycle and now all the things that made me think I might get a bfp are making me think AF is on the way.

It's nice to know it's not just me that's absolutely mental in the tww 🥰 and I also diagnose my husband's sperm just by going 'yep, looks good' 😂 not too runny or too thick or too clear or too cloudy? 🧐🔬

Oh I had a bit of spotting so defo AF and I'm having a big glass of wine and some paté 😕 I'm actually more angry than anything lol

@MrsKin90 I’m sorry to hear that - screw AF! I know you had your hopes up this time round. It really really sucks - enjoy the wine lovely ❤️🍷

@primrosechill thank you ❤️ I had my hopes a bit TOO high this cycle! I think next cycle I'll just focus on surviving it rather than getting excited 😂 if I O at the same time as this cycle I'll be due AF Xmas day so that'll be a killer!

@MrsKin90 I’m ever so sorry to hear about the spotting and your panic at the masks-it’s horrible with the specs on isn’t it? You can get anti fog wipes that last for up to 8 hours on your glasses, even though it’s still warm under the mask your glasses stay clear.
I’m so sorry to see about the spotting, screw you periods 🖕🏻 I hope you are ok? Enjoy your pâté and wine and look after yourself. If people do get cramps and need warmth I bought a pet snuggle pad-it’s a bit like a discus. You warm it in micro and it stays hot for 12 hours. Safer than a hot water bottle and would be really nice to hug for cramping.
Keep warm and toasty and sending you a big cuddle Mrs kin 💚

Yes I’ll have to check the thread as we normally post when we start don’t we, it’s like a diary. I’ve been getting little twinges and honestly could eat my own limbs. It’s like period hunger. I’ve been eating less due to stress so maybe my body is like, hang on-feed me 😏

@shelbyrae it’s strange because I do really want a baby. I’ll have odd ‘what if’ moments but that’s it 🤔 I’m a very patient person in that way 😄
I guess because every month bar one this year my period came. Then when it didn’t and I had early symptoms and positives tests the pregnancy didn’t stick around. My most prevailing thought is “I’ll deal with a pregnancy when it happens” to be honest because I’ve had a lot of stress the last few years I don’t think I’ve got much left in the tank 😕 I’d say there’s about 5% of my brain reserved as worry free and that gets a different mini worry every day 😅

I hope everyone is ok? I’ve just fitted an electric blanket and fresh bedding on the bed. One episode of Designated Survivor to watch (recommended!) then bedtime for me. Rock n Roll for sure xx

@Oilyoilyoilgob it was in the old thread you mentioned AF! On 31/10 you said... "I’m starting my period today"? Thank you for your kindness and suggestions for the glasses and heat pad! I'm going to look up both 😂 is it terrible that I'm a bit jealous you eat less when stressed?! I'm not jealous of the actual stress of course, but I'm definitely an eater in those situations! 🐖
Happy Friday to everyone!!
Can't believe we've only had this new thread since the start of November.

@MrsKin90 thank you so much for checking, hugely appreciated and I knew it was that date-my husband said the Thursday.
Not a problem on the heat and glasses wipes-I hope they help.

I think I’m like my dad that way, I’ll definitely stop eating when stressed. It won’t do my frame any harm but I do realise I need to eat to stay healthy but I just shut down.
My cat woke up today dragging her back legs, we are at the vets at 5pm. I have a horrible gut feeling she’ll need to be put to sleep and I’ve cried all day.
We are going together to take her 😞

Sorry to derail thread. Just really sad and then I’m in a proper train of thought about everything that I can fester about. Xx

I officially cannot keep up with you guys anymore!

Still reading and crossing my fingers for you all.

Just a quick update, had a very worrying bleed Tuesday am which I thought was bean and/or empty sac going. Hence being crap at posting.

Bean still there and growing, measuring 6.4 weeks (which I think is right from dtd dates).

Empty sac also still there, and now officially being described as an empty sac, which may or may not be worrying (as it is still there, that may indicate 'something worrying' is stopping it being reabsorbed) but they were happy to discharge me to midwife for now, as long as I keep worrying

(I love the NHS with all my heart but man are they great at emotional rollercoasters at times, understandably, but still)

@Oilyoilyoilgob I'm so sorry!

I'll be thinking of you and sending you all my virtual support.

I hope everything goes as gently as it possibly can.

@Oilyoilyoilgob I'll be hoping for the best for you and little cat today. My heart really goes out to you honestly. What a heartbreaking situation to be in. Let yourself have as many tears as you need to. ❤️ Sending lots of hugs your way.

@DinkBoo how very confusing for you! I'm glad to hear all is well with little bean right now, hopefully the empty sac will be gone by the time you have your next scan!

When I lose track of the thread I just chime back in wherever it is currently and hope I haven't missed anything too important 😂

@MrsKin90 sorry to hear about the spotting 💙 I hope you are ok...

I’m DPO7 so little while for me to go!

At least it’s Friday I hope everyone can have a stress free weekend! If I’m not pregnant his cycle I have to call the fertility clinic and if they can fit me in I have to have a Hysterosalpingography, or HSG test. Really doesn’t sound pleasant but is anything in ttc?! Has anyone had this? Xx

@Oilyoilyoilgob sorry I missed a page again! Oh your poor cat 🐈‍⬛ I’m keeping my fingers crossed.. it’s the worst thing to go through the love we have for our pets is so strong 💙🐾 keep us updated sending you love x

@DinkBoo glad little bean is all good... keep rested ❤️ Xxx

Now let me tell you all of the saga of the quest to get a high dose folic acid prescription standing at 2 hours, which consists of 2 phone calls with a trip to the pharmacy in between.

@Oilyoilyoilgob I'm so sorry about your cat, I truly hope the vet is able to provide some relief -whether that means here on this Earth, or in a better place. You are doing the absolute best for this wee soul, never doubt that. My thoughts are with you, I know the pain. Virtual hug 🤗

Nice to read everyone's updates, still lurking here, I love how lively this thread is and a warm welcome to all the new members! 🙂

Hi everyone. You’re all really lovely @DinkBoo Im so happy to hear everything is ok ☺️ I’ve been thinking of you this week, I’m so glad all is well and keep looking after yourself.

I won’t tag you all but thank you so so much for such lovely words. That felt like a collective, well needed hug and it made me cry in a good way-thank you.

My lady is still here, having an urgent referral for an mri-the place in West Yorkshire is an hour away. Then go from there on a confirmed disc pressing on nerves and/or seeing if she can have an operation. My poor girl, I keep wondering where she fell when we heard the sound in bed and feeling so guilty (irrational I know) but my poor little one 😞

Hopefully they can see us when my husband is off on Wednesday so we can drive together. I’m absolutely drained from stress and worry over the last few months/years over various things. He’s worried that due to trying there’s a chance I could be pregnant and I’m so stressed. I just can’t switch off worrying and caring 🙁

I had a nice Chinese bought for me so I’ve eaten and I’m going to bed soon.

I am very grateful for your words, big hugs to you all. I hope you all have a lovely weekend, relax and look after yourselves 💚 xx

@Lori23TTC I've never had one but I know a few people who have! Sometimes people get pregnant after them as it clears things out? My friend had to take two days off work after as very crampy, but said the procedure itself was fine. Fingers crossed it isn't needed and you get a bfp in a few days 🤞🤞

@DinkBoo that sounds frustrating! Why are these things so difficult when those are quite common things for pregnant people to need?! I remember my friend couldn't get a prescription for the low dose asprin she'd been told she had to take by the doctor as she "could buy it OTC" but they wouldn't give it her without one... So I went and got it from the pharmacy and said it was for my dad for something he has and they gave it to me! But they asked if I was pregnant first as they couldn't give it me if I was 😂 what a joke.

@Oilyoilyoilgob I hope you're managing to have a more relaxed weekend and not worry too much. Unfortunately worrying really doesn't solve anything does it? But I know it can't be helped. Still sending lots of hugs.

After my bit of spotting on 26/11 my rhr and temperature went back up for two days ☹️ but has now come all the way down today and AF started last night so this is CD2 for me? I'm a bit concerned about how my LP went on a bit and everything went up very promisingly and then came down, but I'm not going to dwell.
I'm okay weirdly? And I didn't even cry. Very bizarre. I've ordered some vaginal applicators to see if they make a difference and will not be hoping provides an amazing distraction and i forget all about TTC/my tww which I'll hopefully be in then.

Fingers crossed for some happy news for everybody 🤞😊

@MrsKin90 re the aspirin, that's particularly impressively non-sensical!

I'm glad you're feeling okay re AF, hopefully the arsing around this month was just your body keeping you on your toes and making sure you don't have too little to think about

Now I want Chinese... Thanks @Oilyoilyoilgob !

Good luck for the feline MRI.

for everyone in fact, just because

Re decaf drinks: I love Yorkshire Teas bedtime brew (with vanilla and nutmeg) in the evening and Taylors rose lemonade is amazing hot or cold, it actually tastes of the things it's supposed to and makes a really strong brew. (I make my classy posh tea in a Sports Direct mug/bucket as the bags are so strong )

Awww @MrsKin90 I’m sorry your period came. Hope you’re ok? Maybe it was a spike in hormones that caused that little blip. Look after yourself and get that snuggle pad, it’d be lovely for period pains even though it’s meant for pets. I might get one for myself ☺️

Aww thanks @DinkBoo hope you’re ok. Those teas sound delicious! I will have a look out, Yorkshire tea is my absolute favourite, I love a good strong brew.

Still looking after my poorly girl, trying to not go to worst case in my head. I NEED to get to personal therapy but I keep bloody putting myself last. Need to get back on the cbt wagon.

Husband bought us a 3 course meal from a lovely local restaurant last night, I’m getting spoiled but need to keep up with the walking now to burn it off 😅🐷🐽 I told him yesterday that I absolutely needed to do nothing, just switch off and I had a day in bed in my pjs 🤭 very much needed. We went for a cracking walk today.

I hope everyone is doing ok including @eloiseislost, hope everyone safe and healthy 💚 xx

+1 for the bedtime Yorkshire tea, I'm actually having a cuppa right now @DinkBoo 🫖

@Oilyoilyoilgob I'm OK, thank you for asking! 🙂
A bit panicky about everything these days, covid, the pregnancy, Christmas being so different, etc. Trying to take deep breaths and only worry about things I have control over… which is not much really! 🤷🏻‍♀️