Nov Bus 20 - CD1 can suck hairy b*lls

[Juno231]

Come join us on our TTC journeys - all you need is a sense of humour!

Bus history:
June - 24 BFPs
July - 11 BFPs
August - 18 BFPs
September - 4 BFPs
October - 5 BFPs

Upcoming testing dates:
@Juno231 - October 26th
@hrps - October 27th
@dsr87 - October 28th
@runnergirl1 - October 28th
@clairey844 - October 30th
@lilacflower12 - October 30th
@notyetamumbuttrying - October 31st
@2alreadywantanother - October 31st
@katao - November 1st
@BellsB1 - November 1st
@2020mission - November 2nd
@Florence13 - November 2nd
@Joanna1009 - November 5th
@nestinginNL - November 18th
@missgoldilocks - November 20th
@Hopeful110 - November 22nd
@Franklydear - November 22nd
@mrsbear1122 - November 28th

Hi all
Funny thing at work, a colleague today called me Frankie, panic face, please don't let me have a mumsnetter🥺, turns out he thought it can be a nickname related to something I do at work, phew...
@Juno231 if I drive the bus, you'll all end up lost and with my tittles full of weirdos
@Skip86 I would move Australia, but my mum says is too far from Spain...

@Franklydear I thought you said your titties full of weirdos then 🤣🤣🤣🤣

🥺@lucyrp please no

Omg @Franklydear that's hilarious, I can just imagine the panic 😂 I nearly sent a pic of a pregnancy test that was on my camera to someone the other day! My heart nearly stopped 😂
@Juno231 you are doing great! You are very organised. Don't feel like you have to babysit us all just because you are in the driving seat. You are just as entitled to pop in and out as you need. But obviously if you don't want to do it anymore either that's fine too.

I cracked and ordered some 10mui cheapies 🙈😂 they arrive tomorrow hopefully

@Katao of all the nicknames in the world

@franklydear omg I would've nearly had a heart attack too!!!! Phew.

So DH and I set the sex target of every day this week as FW... We managed Friday, Saturday, Monday and Tuesday. We DTD tonight but neither of our hearts were in it tbh after a busy day for us both. We got halfway through and I got cramp and DH just lost it bless him. For us this is a LOT of sex, we are normally once or twice a week people at best. So feeling pretty proud of us regardless. 🤞 Yday was OV day I think due to the pains so let's see if it worked!!

Thankyou ladies ❤ i shall keep you posted over the next couple of days, im slightly tempted to use a frer in morning at 11dpo but realistically will it show up that early?

@Katao just catching up and Ive done alot of reading around cycles and stuff since I came off the pill in 2016 and Im really into the seasons of your cycle. I definitely feel a huge difference in my mood, focus & motivation depending on where I am in my cycle. Understanding it has been so helpful for me. Personally I am lucky I get quite a long spring (period to ovulation) due to a long cycle but I also really feel the impact of Autumn (post ovulation) so I've found it really help to understand. Sorry to go in a ramble lol. But I think there's alot of truth to it. I've read Maisie Hills book and it's really interesting & it's changed my whole attitude around periods & my cycle.

@lucyrp I'm sorry af is here but also yay! You may not be able to figure oit your ovulation until after atm but its the 1st step. If I was you I would reflect back on what you now know was ovulation so maybe next cycle you will hopefully have a better idea that it's happening 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

@hopeful110 fingers crossed its good news on the job front tomorrow 🤞🏻and 11dpo is possibly too soon. I think maybe try to wait another day or 2 if you can 😬 it's hard tho lol

@Sausage1990 I wonder if it was you that mentioned the seasons before? Someone on here definitely did and I thought it sounded interesting, then came across an article on it so read that. It's so apt, I've found myself at different times realising that I'm behaving very typically to the the season 😂 I could move mountains around ovulation time, then the lead up to my period I'm so unmotivated and agitated. Good to know there is logic to it though isn't it 😃 how are you? Is the medication still hitting you hard or have things settled off?

Hey ladies I've been shit with keeping up today & now y'all threatening to jump ship to a new thread! What's with that?!

@Skip86 I can come to Aussie, been there, done that with the skin cancer, and friggin stage 4 terminal shit and it STILL ain't killed me yet and it ain't killer me yet so 🖕🏻I can come party with you girlfriend! (& you ladies thought getting me off a thread was hard work 😂) I'm pleased you steered DH away from the mullet, tho pretty sure you can cite that in a divorce in civilised courts here??!!! My BIL vowed to grow a moustache the first day of lockdown version 1, he now locks like the hungry caterpillar is about to eat his entire body. Not pretty.

@Hopeful110 you had a metallic taste right? How's that going? I'm very hopeful, you join a crack open the FRER?? It might show up but if you can last another day it would be better but there were the other ladies this week that got good results early but if you can pee quickly & hold out another day I would lovely xxx

@Kirky658 🖐🏻🙌🏻for your week that's awesome and especially as you were in pain previously 🤞🏻it's worked

@Juno231 I will take over if you want to hun as I know you are stressed and I'm here for the long haul, we honestly don't mind you dipping in and out and love you being around it honestly shouldn't put any pressure on you. My mind is blank for new titles! You should be stress dress on TTC and it's out of my hands anyway it's just a bit weird as I'm not really TTC 🤷‍♀️

@Franklydear disappointing 😂 and the amount of times I reference "Mumsnet" is more than I care to mention 😂

So we went out for a last pre lockdown meal tonight as my MIL picked up DS after nursery. DH had been shooting today and they do meal /pub after shoot so I picked him up after that then onto meal. He's absolutely pissed as a fart now after more drinks at our meal. He did say over the meal that he had confided in a friend about our IVF & miscarriage which is good. A friend we hope might be pursuing IVF as they are childless after 6 years marriage & the last time she (the wife) properly spoke to Me was 5 years ago on my hen do saying they were TTC before he had a horrible rugby hip injury which saw him with multiple operations, since then ive tried to talk to her but she's clammed up. But I hope opening up has helped DH & our friends as they would make amazing parents.

@Runnergirl1 congratulations 🌈

@KateColx so lovely to see your scan pic 🥰

Congratulations @AKC88 🎉 and @purplesky18 🎉

@Juno231 congratulations on the house move, think we're cycle buddies as we always seem to be at a similar stage, I'm cd9 today

@Skip86 glad to see you're sticking with us, and i did laugh about you taking LO in to the adult shop; can only imagine what my 2.5yr old would pick up 😂😂
You seem to be clear in your head what is the right path for you at the moment and sounds like you just need to 'be' for a little while. Hope hubby realises what he has 😘

@blodyn91 lovely news about team blue 💙

@lucyrp I mean we don't normally yay for AF but yay for AF for the pinpointing ovulation side of things. 💕

Have managed to read up to this morning-took me nearly an hour to catch up 😂
Loving all the random chat, @Vil10 the clit sucker sounds amazing!!
Started vitex this month, 🤞🏻 it does some good.
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Well i need to stop weighing myself as I just seem to be getting bigger and bigger even though the last two weeks I've made an even more conscious choice to eat even healthier. I've even been doing meal prep for me and OH for our lunch boxes so☹️

@Clairey844 thank you lovely 💓

@Sausage1990 thankyou lovely, im gonna hold out until Friday at 12dpo lol I only have 2 10miu and 2 frer so don't wanna waste them haha.

@Minster2012 yeah I've peed about 4am anyways I literally couldn't hold it haha so atleast thats my fmu out the way for today 🤣 femometer has now detected a triphasic pattern now as my temp went up again today, my bbt is doing all the right things, just dont know if my body is playing tricks or whether its because we succeeded 🤞 xx

Let's hope it's for the right reasons @Hopeful110 and I missed this about your job?

Keep going @lucyrp we are behind you 😘

@Clairey844 gotta love the randomness of the thread!

@Katao how you feeling? When are you testing?

You got this @lucyrp!

@minster2013 thanks hun, here's hoping!

@Minster2012 yeah I hope so too, it wasn't me that had an interview lol it was @Kirky658, how did it go??

@lucyrp keep going, you got this girl💪🏽

So is it possible to have ovulation pains on both sides? They're also a lot more noticeable than usual!

@Minster2012 I've saved fmu and am literally pacing around waiting for the postman 😂

Ahhhh sorry @Kirky658 do you think it went well?

Oooo @Katao everything crossed for you!! 🤞🏻🤞🏻

@minster2012 no worries lol!!!!

@hopeful110 I think it went well, I find out today if I've got to the second interview so keeping everything crossed!

Bfn 😥 as you were 😂

@katao I'm sorry it was a BFN! and thank you for your kind words yesterday.

@vil10 could you be releasing two eggs?? non identical twins here we come! Which actually - come to think of it - seeing as how difficult to even get impregnated with ONE egg, non identical twins are flipping miracles aren't they??

@Clairey844 love a cycle buddy

@Katao 😡🤬for BFN god getting pregnant, bloody hard isn't it. Like @Juno231 says non identical twins (other than IVF with 2 embryos) are bloody miracles IRL 🤷‍♀️

@Kirky658 everything crossed for the second interview

DH & I we're talking last night about his cousin saying they would prob try for a second baby after "accidentally" falling with first, her using natural cycles app for 11 years, no probs then the month after wedding bam pregnant by accident. I says well if they do try it won't take long I guess 🤬& he didn't say anything about us

@Juno231 my grandmother had 2 pairs of non identical twins, one of her daughters one pair, but she stopped there and didn't try for more, hugs on the thrust
Had the morning off, so D's behaviour was not great, lost of routine
@Minster2012 my DH has been talking too, his friend's wife is pregnant, so he told him about the babies she lost while trying, didn't say if he said anything about us

@Juno231 at least if I am releasing 2 eggs there's double the chance one will actually catch!! They really are miracles!! My aunty has non identical but they were ivf!