Nov Bus 20 - CD1 can suck hairy b*lls

[Juno231]

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Bus history:
June - 24 BFPs
July - 11 BFPs
August - 18 BFPs
September - 4 BFPs
October - 5 BFPs

Upcoming testing dates:
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@hrps - October 27th
@dsr87 - October 28th
@runnergirl1 - October 28th
@clairey844 - October 30th
@lilacflower12 - October 30th
@notyetamumbuttrying - October 31st
@2alreadywantanother - October 31st
@katao - November 1st
@BellsB1 - November 1st
@2020mission - November 2nd
@Florence13 - November 2nd
@Joanna1009 - November 5th
@nestinginNL - November 18th
@missgoldilocks - November 20th
@Hopeful110 - November 22nd
@Franklydear - November 22nd
@mrsbear1122 - November 28th

@2020mission yay glad someone liked it 😅
@lucyrp that's good then! I bet you have a great time 😊
@Katao well done on being zen! Defo try and wait to be late before testing. That's my mantra now anyway. Due on tomorrow for me.
@Vil10 ooh great review! Where's it from again?
@Runnergirl1 I can see it! Congrats 🥳

Also any charting ladies, I took my temp half an hour earlier than I normally do this morning because I was awake so took the temp and then just laid in bed for half hour until normal time then I took my temp again. Should I use the first or second temp ? 10dpo today and the first temp created a dip to my cover line as shown and the second temp was a normal continuation ?

@Katao I believe this is the third. It says 14dpo but I’ve been testing and this is the first time there has been a whiff of a line. And I checked my cervix about 2days after ‘Ovulation’ and it was wide open. I’m due af today or tomorrow. I want it to be true but not getting carried away as I’m not sure what will happen.
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@runnergirl1 I see it too!!!! Sending loads of positive vibes your way. Xxx

@runnergirl1 omg I got so excited when I saw your photo 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 for some lovely progression over the next few days and that this is your rainbow 🤞🏻🌈

@Runnergirl1 keeping my fingers crossed for line progression but I can definitely see a line!!

@Runnergirl1 I see it!! We alllll have everything crossed this is your your lovely little 🌈🌈🌈🤞🏻🥰🙌🏻that would be wonderful news

@Vil10 I'm also with you on the "think I'm a porn star after gin" def. that's me. I'm mother fucking AMAZING. I think. (Least our neighbours must think so too 😂😝😬🤦🏼‍♀️) ooooopppps

@lucyrp, wait, you didn't get up & do exercise in that half an hour??? At be Friday or something! 😘I'm already thinking of my tea & wine tonight 😩🙈

@Skip86 gorgeous lady, btw what did you say when DH said that to you?

@Franklydear nooooo on the vipers nest....it all seemed so good for you

@Kirky658 get the bondage stuff back out this weekend maybe? Where you at in your cycle atm?

@Katao the 1st sounds a good test date for you if no spotting yet 🤞🏻

@Minster2012 of course not 😂 the reason I actually took it half hour early is because OH was rock hard pressing on my bum and I was like right if I can get some before he goes to work then that'll be grand 😂 and I did ... but after half 6🤪 I've been non stop doing cleaning this morning, only got the downstairs done and changed bed upstaies and put 3 wash loads on and I've had enough 😂

@Minster2012 yeah I thought it would be the next day!! Hahahah I also think I'm amazing, there I am doing reverse cow girl, whipping my hair, can guarantee I look like a troll, but hey ho, we enjoy it✌🏼

@Runnergirl1 I definitely see a line!! I hope this is it for you!!

@Katao glad it's not just me!

@notyetamumbuttrying Ermm I think is called "the secret affaire" the website!

@Vil10 yeah I did suggest that but he's like, nah my knob is ok. Haha. We use a bullet together and other "non invasive" toys, so I suppose that'll have to do for now 😔

@lucyrp it's silly isn't it haha. He says he'll get a flesh light and see how I feel 😂 @Minster2012 haha yeah!

@Juno231 wow that head of finance needs electrocuting! What a dick!

@NestinginNL that light bondage stuff sooo appeals to me. We used to be into all the biting and stuff but now we just end up laughing 😂

@Skip86 omg harsh! No energy, what?!?! I hope you can both rekindle soon :( hugs x

@Runnergirl1 I see it! So hope it is your rainbow 🌈

@notyetamumbuttrying I don't know when I'm late that's the problem 😂 but 25 days is the longest cycle I've had in a while so guess I can only go by that 🤷‍♀️ I did enjoy the big head overthinker by the way, it spoke to me 😂🤪
@Runnergirl1 hope you see progression in the next few days 😘
@Minster2012 ya think I'll go with it because like to test at the weekend and I don't think I'd last until next weekend. The no spotting is giving me hope. Nausea and vomiting too but that's the usual, could be either way.

Anyone good at OPKs? I’m confused- thought it was +ve on the 27th, kept testing, often multiple times a day as you can see🙈 after a few times of getting positives I wondered if it was that thing that happens when you’re actually pregnant .. but I’ve taken a hpt test and no luck. This is second cycle post miscarriage and it’s usually long 32days +. Annoyingly I’ve now run out of opks so working in the dark! Husband is fed up of me declaring it’s positive-and wanting to do the deed multiple times a day... and then same story the next day and on and on forever 😬 Any ideas?!

@skip86 that's reassuring to hear some else had bleeding for ages & it was all still OK. I'm nervous about the next stage but I know whatever happens it's what needs to happen to close this chapter. I'm sorry to read what you've been going through with OH - my heart aches for what you're going through. I can't imagine how you're feeling & I have no words of advice but I'm sending you a big virtual hug & we're all holding your hand through this awful time. 💕

@Katao hey hun I'm doing okay, thank you for checking in. It's all sunk in a little that things aren't quite going as I'd hoped but hopefully it won't go on for too much longer. I did another test today and it's still positive but slightly more faint. I'm going for a scan at EPU this afternoon at 2pm to see if there's anything still retained and then we'll go from there. My mam is coming with me, I mean she can't come in but she'll be waiting in the car for moral support.
How are you finding your more relaxed approach to this cycle @Katao? Seems like it's been good for you headspace wise 😊 it's good that it's been your longest cycle in a while & the lack of spotting is promising too... I've got everything crossed for you that af stays away 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

@Minster2012 yeah we DTD this morning and while it was great, I said to DH we should use our toys again and he was game so let's see how it goes next few days 😉 I'm CD10 now x

@Vil10 thank you 🙏🏾
@Katao ah I see your problem 😂 I'm cd1 today so it really can suck hairy balls 👎🏾
Glad you enjoyed the big overthinking head 😆 I need to find a way to cope with this male factor, cos even though our chances are even slimmer than most each cycle I still get upset when I come on. 😒

@BeeKeeping Hey I found this online which may help...

premom.com/blogs/how-to-use-ovulation-tests/surges-and-peaks-gradual-onset

It talks about multiple or biphasic LH peaks

@BeeKeeping i have no wisdom to share but I've had the same several cycles. Just keep dtd!
@Sausage1990 will be thinking of you this afternoon. Glad your mum is with you.ya the lack of opks has definitely made things less stressful and haven't found myself thinking about ttc all the time so that's good. Going to start temping next cycle though 😂
@notyetamumbuttrying sorry about cd1 😥 it's impossible isn't it! Even the month I had bloods done and was told i didn't ovulate I was still disappointed 🤦‍♀️ you don't know though your OH could be improving his swimmers all the time 🤞

@Sausage1990 thank you. Hope everything goes as well as it can this afternoon for you x

So my hormones have just taken the piss out of me.

I'm working from home so I let me DD choose whatever movie she wanted to download and she chose The Star (some nativity animated film from the perspective of a donkey). I just saw the wise men giving some gifts to a baby Jesus and started sobbing. I wouldn't even mind but I'm Jewish haha!

Ridiculous

@Vil10 that is exactly the same as me whipping hair etc! Whoop whoop!

@Sausage1990 thinking of you xxx

@blodyn91 gender scan today good luck for you too hope all is well lovely

@Kirky658 that's the perfect timing to spice things up over the next few dats into a fertile week surely! Have fun!

@BeeKeeping I would say the 30th though I'm certainly no expert and I can understand the frustration. It might be that first cycle after MC you may not ovulate and it's just a high LH but no ovulation but if in doubt DTD as we say and 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Thanks! That’s reassuring

@Chlo2701 what we thinking ?🙈

@Katao thanks! Yeah defo, just gotta hope it is until we get the second SA. So what's latest for you then? Are you getting clomid?

@Joanna1009 haha 🤣 hormones really are ridiculous aren't they!

@lucyrp no idea hun. How you feeling?

@notyetamumbuttrying feel fine, had twinges every day, boobs seem to have got huge the last couple of days and very sensitive but that's it 🙈

@notyetamumbuttrying no wasn't prescribed anything because the second set of bloods were normal so I'm being referred to the fertility clinic so more waiting.