TTC November Bus

[Bmeggar]

Hi loves,
I'm out of the game for the Oct bus so I thought I'd kick off November bus early so people can join if AF rears her ugly head.
Brief summary of me - TTC since Jan, mc in Sept, just finished first period after d&c and ready to get pregnant already!
I've got a 4yr old ds and really hoped to be pregnant right now so pretty fed up with the whole process but trying to keep positive. IT WILL HAPPEN.
Sending baby dust to everyone! Summer babes for us all round

@bmeggar thank you for your positivity really needed to hear it today.
Woke up feeling so sick and hungover was 100% sure I would test positive but nothing, I'm cramping really bad tonight so think AF on its way. Your post has cheered me up. On to the next cycle with positivity to everybody xxx

Sorry to hear that @DJmum83. It's rubbish but there is comfort knowing there is a good chance for next cycle. Every month that passes we get better at understanding our own cycles too. Keep your chins up ladies. We've got this 💪. It's only a matter of time xx

@gracie2307 Hi! Not too bad thanks, aww sorry about AF for you too. I just keep trying to tell myself its all happening for a reason and it will happen when its meant to 🤞

I've not heard of chasteberry, but might have a look into it. Xx

I'm a bit confused as AF is not in proper flow yet, its a bit heavier than spotting but still not like usual AF which is what happens by now so I took another test Yesterday morning 12dpo but still bfn. Body playing tricks on me its really frustrating!

@gracie2307
Yes its Agnus cactus - holland and barrett have it. Sounds like its worth a try but i dont know how long you need to take it for before its supposed to work? X

Anyone else 8dpo. I've done test coming back BFN I wonder if the one before was a glitch. How is every one too xx

@Markygirl1995 8dpo is still really early. I only got a bfp at 10dpo on a FRER last time so there is still a chance! Keeping fingers crossed for you x

@SparkyLauz - hey I’m in a bit of a similar situation.
I’m not due my period for 3 days and I’m never early. I think I ovulated CD16 ( not sure). And I have what looks like my period ( it’s light but my periods are light anyways) but had no warning AF was on her way. I was hopeful it was implantation bleeding but after a full day googling I’ve realised it’s probably my body playing tricks on me and is my period.
How are you feeling?

@Fisheries345 hiya, I'm not too bad thanks however AF most certainly arrived this morning after 4 days of not knowing whether it was a proper period or not! At least I can move onto the next cycle now without being in a sort of limbo! Its the latest its ever been though for me at 14dpo I usually start proper AF at 12dpo so that's what was throwing me off a bit.
I would say to give it a few more days to see if it gets any heavier and if it doesn't maybe you should take a test?

@gracie2307
Hi!
I got a high fertility on the cb - day 1 of using them. How many high fertility days do you usually get? I should ovulate thurs / fri. Still on the pre - seed and the evening primrose - deffo is helping 'a bit ' hoping as the week goes on i will notice it working more. Need to drink more water i think. Hope your well xx

Can anyone see anything got major line eyes

@Markygirl1995
I can't see anything but your still early !! The First response tests are expensive!!
Iv read the VERY earliest ever the first response would pick up a positive is 4 days post spotting - when did you spot? Xx

@Markygirl1995
Sorry got facts wrong its 3 - 4 days post spotting / implantation.xx

@MgW1 I'm so impatient 🤦‍♀️🤣 I've got another pack of 2 I'll save them till due date xx

@Markygirl1995
Omg yes deffo! If you cant wait any longer just pick some cheap ones up from b&m or supermarket. Think the spotting was a good sign though 🤞🏻 i think they say day 12 is when to expect a faint line but no way is that guaranteed and could be later! Xx

Sorry @Markygirl1995 I can’t see anything either. Give it another day or two, although easier said then done. Last cycle I tested everyday from CD7. This time I haven’t got any ICs in the house and only one FRER and a couple of CB digitalis. Hoping to not test early. It’s it the first time I have done daily testing and it drove me mad!

Do any of you ever get a bit of a stop/start period? Period came on last night just before bed so popped a tampon in. This morning there was practically nothing on the tampon, and I've not had anything all day (only put a pad on but nothing on it at all - not even spotting). Did another pregnancy test this arvo just in case, still bfn. I'm wondering if this is still period being screwed post mc. Annoying!!

@SparkyLauz
I think I’m in similar situation to you. I’ve had very bad nausea, sore breast and total fatigue for about 10 days. Friday night I had a bit of spotting, (AF was due Saturday) Saturday it was more like a light period, fading out on Sunday and then today it has gone.
The sore breasts, nausea and tiredness have also gone, but I have never had such a short period in my life and I have super regular cycles. Any ideas?!

@lulahloo have you taken a test yet? Might be worth checking just in case xx

Hey @MgW1 how are you? Ooh well done on the high fertility! I normally get around 3 or 4 days of high before peak so sounds like it should match your predicted OD. How are you feeling? I am ok, confused. AF hasnt properly arrived, I'm CD29 AF normally arrives today but I'm 12dpo. No positive on pregnancy test though. I started spotting at the weekend thinking it was start of AF but its weird it's more brownish than red (sorry TMI!) So either this is a really delayed AF being dragged out (normally day 1 of AF is horrendous - dont tend to get light periods) or by some luck, its late implantation. So I'm stuck in limbo lol xx

Hey @SparkyLauz how are you? Hope you are feeling ok! Xx

Hey @Dogmum13 how are you? Hows everything going with you? Xx

P.s @MgW1 I bought the chasteberry tablets in case this was AF so I have a 90 day supply waiting in the cupboard 🙈🙈 whoops! Xx

@gracie2307
Yes that could be spotting. I responded to @Markygirl1995 about the same thing! Its 3-4 days after spotting / implantation for the most sensitive tests to pick up hcg in urine. I read about that last month when i went through the 2WW stress 🤪 xx

@gracie2307 no af yet so don't know what to do 🙈 have had some niggly pains but nothing concrete. Had IBS symptoms that I normally get pre af. I have sore boobs and sensitive nipples. I can't remember if they are normally still sore by now - I don't think so but definitely the nipples are only ever sensitive for a few says after ov.

@gracie2307 sounds like we are both in limbo!