TTC November Bus

[Bmeggar]

Hi loves,
I'm out of the game for the Oct bus so I thought I'd kick off November bus early so people can join if AF rears her ugly head.
Brief summary of me - TTC since Jan, mc in Sept, just finished first period after d&c and ready to get pregnant already!
I've got a 4yr old ds and really hoped to be pregnant right now so pretty fed up with the whole process but trying to keep positive. IT WILL HAPPEN.
Sending baby dust to everyone! Summer babes for us all round

Morning ladies! Iv just done a test after testing everyday for over a week and getting bfn and got the faintest line on a first response test, so happy! Honestly thought I was out this month as im due AF tomorrow, my cycles are between 32-35 days, every time I have iv been pregnant I have 2 boys and have angel babies also I have always got my BFP around a week before AF, so I must of ovulated late maybe, although I have heard theory's of it meaning a different gender... either way I'm over the moon!
Hope this gives some hope to you @Helena86
And the other ladies that have had bfn Sending baby dust to all hope you get your BFP! Much love x

@GeorgiaMcGraw I've had that a few times too! I've just put it down to failed implantation and not worried. Is it your first time ttc? The month before I conceived my ds I had failed implantation too so definitely not a sign that anything is off. I've also had blood tests and internal sonogram and all was normal x

Congratulations @rusticpink ! So exciting! And definitely giving hope. I'm 99% certain I'm out of the game this month but of course still a niggling 1% holding out hope 🤞 We'll see. Definitely not feeling pregs atm though.

@Cienega I can see a little bit of a line! Keeping my fingers crossed for you!🤞🤞🤞🤞

@Dogmum13 yes I think that can happen with failed implantation. One month my boobs were in so much agony I had to wear a sports bra. They were engorged and hot too like when breast feeding. I was genuinely convinced I was about to start lactating! But ended up getting my period a day earlier than expected. Interestingly, on the month we did conceive, my boobs felt nothing at all! 🤦🏼‍♀️🤷‍♀️

@bmeggar and @dogmum13 ok thank you both, that makes me feel a bit better. Bmeggar, yeah first time ttc and i am a natural worrier, i need to learn to calm tf down I think! Thanks for sharing ypur ecperience with it, that helps x

@rusticpink so pleased for you, yay for that faint line woo hoo.

Thank you, it really does give hope. I'm secretly still hoping that I could be but know I need to be sensible too. It's so hard when you've been trying for a while, the positivity starts to drop off xx

@GeorgiaMcGraw 😂 it's really hard to not freak out when your body starts doing weird shit though! I'm a lot calmer about it now then I used to be...but I still can't help but test too early and repeatedly until AF shows up each month! 🤦🏼‍♀️

@MgW1 sorry I missed your comment yesterday. That's such a positive way to think about a MC and I am definitely thinking your way now. How are you today? xx

@gracie2307 I am doing OK thank you and currently on CD3. Book should arrive by Fri at the earliest but I downloaded the SMEP which I will start reading today so I am ready next week for CD8. Will also book in an acupuncture session for Sat. How are you feeling now? Hope you are much better. xx

@Sunflowers81 oh no just saw your comment about your hubby. Hope he is hanging in there and his symptoms do not get worse. Time to find a binge worthy series to keep your mind off things while you knit. On a positive note, it's nice you can spend time together as I doubt this situation will ever happen again in our lifetime. xx

@NatMoz Hi! Same here, we first tried in May but really didn't know what we were doing. By June we were organised with OPKs and preseed etc and it's definitely been a learning curve as getting pregnant is not as easy as I thought. Trying for our first as well and these forums have been a God sent as you learn so much. Keep reading up and your spotting could be the first sign of your BFP. Sending baby dust!

Hi @SarahMumof1DS so sorry things are so stressful at the moment on top of everything else that's going on in the world. It must be a relief that hubby has a diagnosis now. I know it's a blow but hopefully hubby will be a good place to start TTC again soon so that you can start on your #2. Don't let the age thing get you down at all as so many people I know are having little ones in their late 30s / early 40s xx

@Helena86 fingers crossed for your BFP when you test next!

@GeorgiaMcGraw sorry AF arrived and yes I felt the same way. It could be implantation didn't work or it could be that PMS and pregnancy symptoms are so damn similar. I'm sure it will happen for us soon. :)

@Cienega I think I see a shadow. Definitely test again in a day or 2...fingers crossed for you!

@Emc16x I got high fertility for 5 days straight until my Peak for the past couple of months. It only started after my MC so I suggest you keep testing and hopefully you'll get you peak tomorrow.

@rusticpink congratulations! You must be over the moon :)

Hey everyone, I've noticed that my cm has changed. I'm 4dpo first month tracking. It's still think stretchy and white ish clear sometimes wet. Not sure if this is a sign wondered if anyone who has bdp has the same alongside some mild cramping going and coming

@Emc16x this cycle I apparently had a 3 day peak! Lord knows what that means of if my opks were just playing up.

@Theawkwardblonde
There is some info on the pre - mom blog about long peaks. Google long peak opk and just click on pre - mom blog if you can find it. I googled it when i got confused xx

Hi ladies. New to this post but I'm currently in the dreaded TWW, today is 2DPO!

Hi guys, thought I'd come on to tell you I got my BFP today!! I knew because I had a 'funny turn' earlier, along with symtoms for passed few days.
Sending babydust to you all!!

@Ells19962000 wow! Big Congratulations!!

@mommyofone2019 Hi! I’m in the 2ww too... 4dpo today x

Congratulations @Ells19962000 ! Amazing news ❤️

Congratulations @Ells19962000 !! X

Lovely news @Ells19962000

@SunnydazeQ
I am ok hun. How are you? Cd 7 and I think.the Evening primrose oil making my boobs just a little bit sore! I better it doesnt work but we will see 🤣 im keeping fingers crossed for a 🌈 xxx

@mommyofone2019 welcome! I'm also 2DPO and trying to be patient 😬

@ACNass snap! It's so going to drag 😅 when do you plan on testing?

Hi everyone is anyone 4dpo? I keep getting waves of cramping I wondered if anyones getting the same

Thank you so much guys!!
I'm still very new, but if anyone wanted me to post about symptoms or anything I'm more than happy to, only because during the 2ww I was constantly looking for answers about how I was feeling!!

Mad though, wanted my BFP and now I have it, I'm terrified!

Yes please @Ells19962000 I'm sympton spotting like made 🤣

@Markygirl1995 it's so hard not to isnt!!
I think I'm 14DPO today.
But just before ovulation I had a slight ovulation bleed and the ovulation cramps.
1-4 DPO had NO symptoms except some ovulation twinges still and my CM was creamy
4-10 DPO had headaches (never get them, always get migraines yet not had any migraines! Weird!)
Cervix remained high
Creamy CM
Very emotional
Hot flushes all the time
10 DPO is when I started to have AF cramps, nowhere near my horrendous cramps i normally get though, they are noticeable but not bad enough to take paracetamol or hot water bottle!!
10-14DPO
hot flushes,
Headaches
Dizziness
Boobs now really aching for first time!!
Cervix high, CM dried up (thought period coming)
14DPO
Hadn't eaten all day, went to harvester and had half a steak and had a 'funny turn' started shaking, dizzy, very bloated and legs went like jelly, also felt so sick.
CM creamy and watery again, cervix still high!
BFP at 14DPO
Like to add I didnt have a bfp until now, tested on 10dpo, 12dpo and BFN!! So dont be disheartened if you get a negative result

Also noticed around 12dpo I noticed I had 2-3 more veins on my boobs which lead to my nipples. That was weird for me!