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The Pact - Who cares what month it is anymore..?

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MrsB2019x · 12/10/2020 09:56

New thread for the Pact girls! 💙

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SS123456 · 18/11/2020 14:48

@whambam89 I think if I was you I'd do a few opks this month just so you can dtd the deed around the right time as it is possible it may change slightly with the new vitamins

whambam89 · 18/11/2020 15:04

@SS123456 that sounds like a good progesterone level, fingers crossed you get your BFP soon.

Think I will order some OPKs.. the reviews are either "I fell pregnant after taking half a tablet" or "it made my cycle 127 days long" so I guess I'll just have to see how I do with it! They're expensive to carry on with if it's going to make my cycle longer but if it extends my LP then will definitely be worth it x

kirinm · 18/11/2020 15:08

@SS123456 I'm not feeling very confident to be honest. I just feel normal and I think I would be feeling something by now.

@whambam89 I ovulated later than usual this month. I've done nothing any differently to normal so it is quite unusual. If I wasn't doing OPK's I'd have missed it. I think if you are happy to DTD every other day for most of the month, you've nothing to lose by not doing OPKs (or if you have very clear ovulation symptoms) but if not, I think I'd still use OPKs.

MrsB2019x · 18/11/2020 15:52

@whambam89 Yeah not due to ovulate for a week or so. Only just stopped spotting today 🙄 Not looking to do anything different this month other than try and relax a bit more 😂 Think it’ll be a good idea for you to do OPKs again this month because of the new vitamins, let us know how you get on!

Everything crossed for the morning @SS123456 🤞

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SS123456 · 18/11/2020 16:00

@whambam89 you've got to love an online product review! 😂. At risk of sounding like one of those, if it helps I have been using proceive for 3 months now and got a bfp last month on them. They are expensive and it could have been a complete coincidence but just throwing those out there too just incase

SS123456 · 18/11/2020 16:02

@kirinm I didn't feel anything at all before my bfp last month so you just never know. I was so convinced I wasn't pregnant I was already planning for the next cycle! I have everything crossed for you! What cycle ttc are you on now?

SS123456 · 18/11/2020 16:03

Thanks @MrsB2019x ! And for you too, hopefully you ovulate on time 🤞🏻😁

SS123456 · 18/11/2020 17:35

I've got cramps and brown spotting now so looks like af is going to show on time tomorrow 😔

kirinm · 18/11/2020 19:06

Sorry @SS123456 ☹️

I'm also having cramps now. I ovulated later than normal so assumed AF would be later but maybe not.

SS123456 · 19/11/2020 07:53

I hope not @kirinm . How are you feeling this morning?

My cramps and brown cm have completely stopped this morning. I did another test which was bfn but af is due today so we'll see how the day progresses. My bbt is still raised

kirinm · 19/11/2020 08:00

Back to normal for me again @SS123456 I feel fine.

I'm pretty sure I'm out this month

SS123456 · 19/11/2020 08:20

What dpo are you @kirinm ?

kirinm · 19/11/2020 08:39

@SS123456 I'm 10dpo I think. I normally have a 14 days LP so a few days to go yet.

kirinm · 19/11/2020 08:58

Cramps are back. Bloody hell, I had convinced myself I wouldn't be too disappointed if it didn't happen this month 🤦🏻‍♀️

MrsB2019x · 19/11/2020 09:17

@SS123456 @kirinm This cycle seems to be an absolute rollercoaster for you both!!

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SS123456 · 19/11/2020 09:23

@kirinm honestly what are our bodies up to! I was thinking the same @MrsB2019x , talk about mucking us about! 🙈

kirinm · 19/11/2020 09:25

I was stupid to get my hopes up when I had weird cramps on 6dpo. I had thought that they could be implantation. As soon as AF arrives I'm going to order a big delivery of wine and cocktail ingredients for December / Christmas.

Meh.

SS123456 · 19/11/2020 10:02

You are not out yet @kirinm 🤞🏻

MrsB2019x · 19/11/2020 10:03

@kirinm Cocktails sounds amazing 🤤 I haven’t had cocktails since the pubs shut! Too lazy to make my own at home 😂

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kirinm · 19/11/2020 10:32

[quote MrsB2019x]@kirinm Cocktails sounds amazing 🤤 I haven’t had cocktails since the pubs shut! Too lazy to make my own at home 😂[/quote]
There are a few companies on Instagram that are selling pre-made cocktails. Not supermarket style pre-made actual cocktail bar standard. I might buy from there as I'm also not sure I will actually make them even if I buy the ingredients.

whambam89 · 19/11/2020 14:17

@SS123456 @Kirinm wow this is a cycle and a half for you both! If AF isn't here neither of you are out yet 🤞

I'm not getting notifications when anyone posts on here for some reason.. annoying!

I've ordered some OPKs which will be here tomorrow so hopefully won't miss ovulation this month.

kirinm · 19/11/2020 14:19

I caved and did a IC - not with FMU - but it was a stark white negative. Depending on how I'm feeling I might use an FRER on Saturday - I'll be 12dpo by then.

SS123456 · 19/11/2020 15:11

Keep us posted @whambam89 🤞🏻😁

Still no sign of af just yet for me (13dpo and af due today). Had a few random sharp pains on my left side this afternoon, I'm super tired, and my boobs are really sore but nothing particularly unusual for me at this point in my cycle. I just want to know either way now!

Sorry to hear that @kirinm . Maybe try tomorrow again with fmu?

I enquired about a private fertility plan this afternoon and it's £13k 😳

whambam89 · 19/11/2020 15:33

@kirinm sorry for your BFN! There's still time though 🤞

@SS123456 I'm feeling really optimistic for you! Keep us updated. Do your get a gold plated egg implanted for that price?!

SS123456 · 19/11/2020 15:36

@whambam89 😂 I know it's crazy money isn't it!

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