The Pact - Who cares what month it is anymore..?

[MrsB2019x]

New thread for the Pact girls! 💙

Brilliant willpower @whambam89 , go you! 😁🙌🏻

The egg can be viable for 24-48 hours after being released so give it a shot @kirinm ! Lots of people fall the months they only dtd once so you just never know 🤞🏻

That sounds so tough @SS123456 😔 Hope you managed to get some retail therapy in today!

Hope you managed to catch it @kirinm! Sounds hopeful ☺️

Our journeys are so similar @whambam89! Would be awesome if we got our BFPs at the same time too

@MrsB2019x they are aren't they, I've often thought that! Would be so nice to get our BFPs at the same time.

My stomach is really cold tonight so I feel like it's unlikely I'll get a BFP this month although I realise that's a really weird thing to say 😂

Are you hanging any symptoms @whambam89 ? I'm very impressed that you've not tested!

*having!

I think we need a nee thread.

@kirinm I'm trying to ignore any symptoms really because I get different "symptoms" every month. I've had cramping on and off since 1dpo which isn't normal for me, this morning I genuinely thought AF was going to show early, and a headache for the last few days (which apparently is what made DP know I was pregnant last time before I did because I suffered so badly with them with DD) but nothing apart from that, the headaches are probably just hormone related to be honest.

I'm only 9dpo so don't think there'd be much chance of a BFP yet even on the small chance that it could be my month. I think I've basically just got it in my head now that it's going to take some time so am trying to just get on with it as best as I can without stressing x

Negative OPK today so I think we may have missed it 😭

If you got a static smiley yesterday and managed to dtd I think you'd still be in with a shot @kirinm

Let us know when you test @whambam89 🤞🏻😁

@SS123456 my app thinks I'm ovulating today due to my peak yesterday. I think I probably ovulated yesterday but will try again tonight just in case.

I don't seem to be ovulating on the same cycle day at the moment.

@SS123456 will do, managed not to test when I got up this morning so will test tomorrow now if AF doesn't turn up today

@kirinm definitely give it a shot as you are still in with a shot 🤞🏻

@whambam89 ooo exciting! I hope this is it for you 😁

@SS123456 I don't think it will be which I why I think I've managed to not test because I can't be bothered with the disappointment of another negative! On the bright side, I'll be able to have a drink at Christmas 😂

@kirinm hopefully DTD yesterday was enough but if you can I'd go again today just in case! 🤞

@rotagilla how are you getting on?

Morning @whambam89 I've tested everyday and all bfn's I reckon at the latest it could be 11dpo today.

Last pregnancy I had a positive at 11dpo... so not feeling very positive today 😞

Still hoping a little bit that it might be a little early, no symptoms now....but also no af symptoms.

How are you? Well done for holding out on the testing...

Well done for not testing @whambam89! 😁

If you got your peak yesterday @kirinm it may be that you’re ovulating today. Maybe DTD today too just in case?

Sorry for the BFNs @Rotagilla 😔

I’m thinking I might test on Thursday. No idea when/if I ovulated this month but on my apps AF should be due either Wednesday or Thursday. Not hopeful at all tbh but I’d rather know for sure than have it hanging over my head. Especially as due date should be this Friday coming ☹️ So I’d rather get it out the way before that.

I really hope you get your bfp this month @MrsB2019x . I completely sympathise with how you'll feel reaching your due date without it as I know I will feel the same. I have all my fingers crossed for you! 🤞🏻. My OHs nearly 3 year old daughter still had a stocking that says 'baby's first christmas' on it and I've had to take it down as I was finding it so triggering having it staring back at me

@MrsB2019x how are you feeling about your due date coming up? Sending lots of love x

@Rotagilla remember that every pregnancy is different so just because you got a bfp before by that date it isn't reflective of this time around. With my DS I only got a faint bfp at 15dpo so you just never know 😁

@MrsB2019x oh bless you that will be tough, hope you are ok ❤️

@SS123456 Thankyou that makes me feel a bit better...❤️

We need a new thread very soon too....what shall we call it?

Although I do love the current thread name 😂

Oh wow yeah we do haha!

Bit wobbly tbh @whambam89. I naively thought back then I would probably be pregnant again by my due date.. nah 😂

Thank you @SS123456 @Rotagilla 💙 Totally understand about the stocking I’d have to take that down too

Just had a wobble out of the blue which took me off guard. I decided to start writing some Christmas cards and went to sign off the first one and it dawned on me that I should have been writing 'baby bump' on there as well this year 😔

@MrsB2019x I found that once the date passed I felt almost relieved but the lead up is always worse - you know where we all are if you need a chat ❤️

Oh @SS123456 hope you're ok 😭 x