The Pact - Who cares what month it is anymore..?

[MrsB2019x]

New thread for the Pact girls! 💙

Oh @SS123456 it isn’t fair is it 😔 I hope you are okay xxx

BFN and 0.15 degree temp drop this morning so I guess AF is on her way as anticipated... Fed up!

Sorry for all of you who are having a hard time ❤️

Af arrived this morning 2 days early 🙄
So disappointed, felt like we 'deserved' it after such an unfair time.
Could still conceive this year...or could wake up with AF on 1st of Jan! That would be either a very good or a very shit start to 2021!

Sorry for the bfn @whambam89 😞 it is so bloody shit. Do you have any exciting Christmas plans to look forward to? X

Sorry to hear AF arrived @Rotagilla I will keep my fingers crossed for a great start to 2021 for you x

@rotagilla sorry AF has arrived - let's hope that your luck starts as we enter 2021 and you get your BFP!

If AF show's today then I'll be due to ovulate on Christmas day so maybe I'll get a Christmas miracle 🤷🏻‍♀️

@kirinm thanks, even though I expected it it doesn't make it any easier to accept! We've got a few plans over the period that we're allowed to see people then it's my OHs birthday new year's day so looking forward to that but I think it'll also be in the back of my mind that we should have an almost 3 month old by then as well 😭

Oh no! Sorry AF has arrived for you both @whambam89 @Rotagilla 😔 2021 has to be better for us all surely?!

@MrsB2019x no AF yet but I think it'll be on track to arrive today x

@Rotagilla I'm so sorry that AF arrived for you 😔. I really hope that 2021 will be your lucky year

@whambam89 how many dpo are you? Could it be a late implantation dip?

It really hasn't been our year has it! 😔

We dtd last night and had to stop half way through when we realised I was bleeding quite heavily! It was so odd as I am only 3dpo and there was no reason for me to bleed. Has anyone had that before? My bbt is rising as it should along with my rhr so I have no reason to believe I'd be getting AF crazy early it was so strange 🤷🏻‍♀️

@SS123456 I had bleeding around ovulation twice and had bleeding around 7-8dpo but not as early as 3dpo. It could be that your cervix is sensitive. If it happens again, you might want to speak to your GP. Are you 100% you ovulated 3 days ago?

I had that last year @SS123456 on a couple of occasions, the doctor had a look and said my cervix was ‘irritated’ 🤷🏻‍♀️ Had to take 3 weeks off DTD but was fine after that and hasn’t happened since

@SS123456 I'm 11dpo today, did have some weird twinges yesterday but I think it would be too late for implantation for me with me only having a short LP 9-11 days usually x

@kirinm @MrsB2019x yeah maybe it was just one of those strange things and like you say my cervix was irritated. The last time we dtd prior to this we used preseed (which we've only used once or twice before) so perhaps that did something my body didn't like 🤷🏻‍♀️. I'm pretty sure I'm 3dpo as my bbt is indicating it and it matches when my peak opk was. The bleeding has stopped since apart from a slightly blood stained cm but I guess that's just the 'left over' blood

@whambam89 I could be wrong but I don't think that having a shorter luteal phase would necessarily mean you'd follow suit and implant early so there is every chance you could implant at a 'normal' later time 🤞🏻. Keep us posted

@SS123456 sorry I skim read your last post as I was dropping my nephew's at school - strange that you have had some bleeding! I'd just keep an eye on it but wouldn't worry too much unless it happens regularly x

Thanks @whambam89 😊

I've got my ex on my case this morning because apparently my DSs school shoes are too destroyed to use until January when he'll go into his new ones and he 'expects' them to be replaced. Ever the abusive charmer 🙄

Urgh sorry you have to deal with that @SS123456

One benefit of my DS's dad being an absolute waste of space is that he stopped being around when DS was tiny so we don't have to deal with his crap.

I'm guessing I'm 1dpo. I'm hoping that the total lack of DTD before ovulation will keep my expectations in check in a week or two's time. Knowing that we only DTD once and ended up with my DD probably isn't that helpful.

@SS123456 what a lovely man he sounds 🙄 sorry you have to deal with that!

@kirinm I really wish he'd stayed away too it's so draining. He only came into his life when he was 7 and now acts like parent of the year 🤦🏻‍♀️

How lovely @SS123456, in which case as he is Dad of the year I assume he could go out and get new school shoes himself? They’re not even that bad!!! Sorry you have to deal with that 😔

Got everything crossed for you @kirinm, if it’s happened before it can happen again!

I love how our posts crossed but we still used the same analogy 😂🏆

I've just started a new thread for us 😊

@kirinm you never know it may be one of those unexpected surprises! 🤞🏻

The guy just doesn't understand what every parent knows about school shoes, they ALWAYS last 5 minutes 😂. The boy is on his 3rd set of insoles in them too, he must be on the move all day lol 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

@MrsB2019x great minds think alike 😂🙌🏻

@SS123456 what a moron.....unfortunately I have one of those too 🙄 although he's behaving better at the moment because he wants DS for xmas lunch this year...

What's the new thread called?!

@Rotagilla it's The pact continued... I'll tag you in it now :)