The Pact - Who cares what month it is anymore..?

[MrsB2019x]

New thread for the Pact girls! 💙

@Rotagilla hope everything goes as well as can be expected. Sending you lots of love ❤️

Sending all my love to you and your family today, @Rotagilla ❤️❤️❤️

I think weve come to the decision to go straight for adoption

So I have a load of opks and preg tests that I want to get rid of
Full unopened box of cbd advanced 20pck
Approx 40 ic opk
Approx 40ic preg tests
Unopened 2 pack frer
Unopened 2 pack of cb preg test
1 unopened cb digital preg test
1 unopened tub 60 tablets of folic acid

Would prefer for it all to go together £50 posted??

Message me if you are interested

Thinking of you today @Rotagilla, hope everything goes as well as it can do 💙 big hugs to you and Mr Rotagilla xx

@claireb7rg That’s quite a stash! I would but having that many tests in the house will make me want to POAS every day 😂

I hope today goes as well as it can do @Rotagilla

I'm pleased you've been able to make a decision. Would love it if you could keep us all updated. I don't use CB advanced and have folic acid prescribed so I'm okay but thanks.

Sorry, last message was meant for @claireb7rg

Thinking of you today @Rotagilla xx

Thankyou ladies ❤️

@claireb7rg I'm already fully stashed but thank you for the offer! How exciting that you are going to adopt 😁. How long does the process take? Please keep us updated

[quote SS123456]@claireb7rg I'm already fully stashed but thank you for the offer! How exciting that you are going to adopt 😁. How long does the process take? Please keep us updated[/quote]
Not sure I've heard it can be as quick as 6 months but also as long as 4 years. At the moment who knows 😩

Will keep you updated though 🤞👍

If you’re willing to separate them at any point @claireb7rg can I put my name down for the FRERs and CB’s please? ☺️ No worries if not!

@claireb7rg I guess a large part of it will be based on the 'right' child being in need of adoption at the right time for you too as they must have to match parents and children quite carefully I would imagine. I really hope it doesn't take too long! 🤞🏻. It's also really great that you can now re-focus your ttc energy into something great and positive too 😁. Are you going to try and take on a baby?

@claireb7rg sorry just realised I am asking lots of questions! Tell me to sod off if I am being nosy! I am just genuinely interested and find it all very exciting 😊

no, it's ok, its good to talk to someone about it, only you lot and our parents know at the moment (and 1 of MrRGs workmates)

we are hoping for a sibling pair ideally both under 5, id like as young as possible although I think we would both be happy if we didn't have to do sleepless nights

theres a lot of prep we have to go through before we are (hopefully) approved as adopters and the matching doesn't happen till after that so it could be a while yet

@MrsB2019x

If you’re willing to separate them at any point *@claireb7rg* can I put my name down for the FRERs and CB’s please? ☺️ No worries if not!

ill bear that in mind, thanks, would prefer to get rid of it all in one go but will let you know if that changes

@claireb7rg Haha yeah the sleepless nights are a killer! My son didn't sleep through the night until he was 5 🙈

I guess there is lots they have to go over and prepare you for. I think the hardest part will be how you would deal with birth parents potentially coming back into the picture at a later date etc

So excited to hear about your journey @claireb7rg 😁 There are some wonderful children out there who need a loving, stable home.

If you don’t get sibling offers at first, if you take one and BPs have another baby you will be the first port of call, they always want to keep siblings placed together. So much to think about!

@claireb7rg wow that is a stash! I also couldn't be trusted with that many tests in but thanks for offering!

How exciting that you've decided to adopt though, bet you feel a bit like a weight's been lifted?! Keep us updated on your journey and hope it all happens as quickly as possible for you x

How are you feeling @SS123456 - any symptoms?

@kirinm nothing apart from sore boobs but that's pretty normal for me at 8dpo! My resting heart rate started dropping this morning so I have a feeling AF may turn up early this month 😔. How are you doing?

@SS123456 RHR is so unreliable as far as I'm concerned. Unless you sleep consistently every night, don't ever exercise more intensely day-to-day or don't drink alcohol, it really fluctuates. My RHR jumps up if I have a glass of wine in the evening!

I'm only 4/5dpo and not feeling anything (unsurprisingly). I'm not feeling particularly confident this month though. I think it will be easier to take this month just because December should be fun and I can drink cocktails at Christmas if I'm not pregnant! Got to look for the silver linings...

@SS123456 @kirinm fingers crossed for you both!

@rotagilla hope yesterday went ok for you ♥️ sorry if you've already said but did you decide on whether to test or not? X

@kirinm not too long for either of us to wait now thankfully 😁🤞🏻

Thank you @whambam89 ! 😊

@SS123456 Are you still planning on testing on Monday?