Sausages and j*zz - Sep Bus 17

[Juno231]

June BFPs - 24
July BFPs - 10
August BFPs - 18

September BFPs so far:
@catherinettc - Sep 4th
@mrsi2020 - Sep 6th
@KateColx - Sep 21st

Testing dates:
@Missgoldilocks - September 23rd
@franklydear - September 27th
@SarahTTC2020 - September 28th
@Laceymermaid - September 29th
@galatea - September 29th
@clairey844 - September 29th
@Juno231 - September 30th
@hopeful110 - October 2nd
@mrsbear1122 - October 5th
@2020mission - October 6th
@notyetamumbuttrying - October 6th
@minster2012 - October 12th

@Minster2012 ewcm was around ovulation so cd14/15 that’s why I though I was on for a normal cycle but now cd36 and nowhere to be seen. Since then it’s been creamy and quite a lot (like my pregnancy). It’s not very helpful information from the doctors is it, it’s like ok thanks 🤦🏼‍♀️

@Runnergirl1 sorry for the long messages I just looked back and realised they've all been mini essays!🙈 I had to tell my boss about my cp as it was during Covid and I'd briefly mentioned something to her about my worries about returning because of a certain thing and I didn't say what but she guessed because she knows we're TTC. Then I had to tell her not to worry about it because I'd lost it. Don't be sorry it's all very deep here anyway!

My OH can perform whenever but it's whether he can be arsed is the problem!🤣 where as I'm always up for it. I do sometimes wonder if his sex drive has changed as previously he's been up for it whenever too and wherever !😏x

@notyetamumbuttrying I never was until with OH. I don't think I ever had before until sleeping with him and even then it took 2 years ish before I orgasmed with him!😬🙈x

Oh wow that's a while @lucyrp no wonder you're so horny now lol, making up for lost time 😈 😂

@KateColx I've not done OPKS this month since the loss the other week, but by going by my RHR I'm pretty sure I ovulated on Monday, which is early for me, but I have read that that can happen. So I think I'm in the TWW now. I'm trying not to think about it this cycle as we only DTD Saturday night & Sunday morning. What will be will be I suppose. If I did ovulate Monday then I'm only 3DPO, but I feel quite tender down there & had pains last night so it wouldn't surprise me if I started bleeding this wknd🤷‍♀️
That's some good line progression for you😍 hope you're feeling ok🥰

@lucyrp your pussy is so cute!😉🤣🤣

@Minster2012 enjoy shoving them up your minge😆 Countdown is on for you 👏🏼👏🏼 exciting!!!😁

@galatea098 sorry about SF, it's always gutting when it happens & I don't think it gets any easier!

@Franklydear 🤞🏻 for a BFP for you this wknd, can't believe you've not tested yet!

@notyetamumbuttrying I love legs over the shoulders too! One of my favs!!

@Juno231 if you're going to test 11DPO only 5 more days to go!!🙊 I'm on the other thread you're on about RHR so I like to look at yours aswel! I'm proper into RHR it becomes bloody obsessive! I posted on there a few wks bk when I got my BFP.

@DKDK123 I hope that little bean is burrowing in there aswel🤞🏻

@Runnergirl1 so sorry your cycle is being a complete bitch for you!!😣😣😣

@lucyrp don’t apologise it’s good to get it out there mine have been the same but feel abit better talking about it so thank you. Well even if changed he’s still going well mine talks the talk but when it’s time for action sometimes struggles. Bless him x

@Chlo2701 why thank you !😏🤭

@Runnergirl1 aw I'm glad! Hugs to you. I do worry that sometimes we do it too much and we might get to a rut where he can't finish or something and I would be devastated ! But shouldn't worry about things that probably won't happen! X

@Chlo2701 thanks. Fingers crossed af stays away x

@lucyrp hey just enjoy it lol. Fingers crossed for you and a regular cycle 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Aww @lucyrp lovely Luna! Here's Milo, now 6 months 💕🐶 and I need some of your sexual energy 😂

@notyetamumbuttrying totally normal. Wellll I'm cd10 but not really tracking anything other than temp. I've got my telephone apt with gp tomorrow to basically tell them everything, and then hopefully they'll refer us for fertility clinic or something. I had a bit of a hopeless feeling this week, but trying to stay positive now. We've not had sex for like 2 weeks now as I've just really not been up for it, but I suppose we should from now on. Just a bit meh :/

@Minster2012 totally get that decision, sometimes it's just nice to feel like SOMETHING proactive is happening as opposed to the waiting.

@SarahTTC2020 oooh that's promising! 🤞🏼🤞🏼

@galatea098 so sorry about af x

@Newbie0818 awwww Milos soooo cute!! 🥰🥰🥰

@Minster2012 part of the fertility investigation, I guess to see whether there's anything obvious like cysts/fibroids 🤷🏼‍♀️ don't really know! Just expecting them to stick it up my vag and have a look around 🤣

Totally agree with the sex ed chat! Yes it's really important that I know about teenage boys wet dreams 🙄

I need to set the record straight, it is not willpower stoping me from testing, it is fear that is going to be a bfn and won't know what to do with myself. It has to be Sunday as DH doesn't want me to test without him.

Just did an opk like someone suggested and not even a whiff of a line on there either. I feel like my body is broken completely now. Here’s a pic top on obviously opk, bottom one hcg x

@Franklydear I've been there with the fear, I think that's why I never bother testing anymore tbh. But you're late, and you've had some positive signs. Look at it this way, if it's a bfn, it just means your body is waiting for the perfect egg that will lead to a seamless pregnancy. But I secretly hope it's a bfp for you!

@Chlo2701 thank you! He really is like my fire baby haha

@Runnergirl1 sorry about what you're going through, so annoying feeling stuck with no clue what's going I x

@Runnergirl1 thank you and you! 🥰

@Newbie0818 omg look😍😍 hahah I don't have much energy myself 🤣 can barely stay awake when we sit on the sofa at nights 🤣

@SarahTTC2020 awful isn't it !

@Newbie0818 bloody gorgeous pup there, can't believe we were here for when he arrived! He's so cute! And totally get you about the meh, sometimes I'm like that

@SarahTTC2020 ah I see, nothing like a good ol' poke around! Fingers crossed you don't need it then 🤞🏻

@Franklydear yup, get that too. Denial. Not wanting see it. But we all hope it's for the right reason

@Runnergirl1 it's not broken, it's recovering from a traumatic event darling, and that's why it can take time 😘I'm afraid this is the stuff they don't tell you about.

@Chlo2701 it's a gooden when you're wet enough and luckily I was after my he went down on me 😜
@Newbie0818 OMG your dog is Uber cute! I want one but can't in a flat. Waiting to move into a house and then we might get one! Just hope this place sells ASAP! Two more viewings on sat! 🤞🏾
Bless you, I've been there! Yeah get shagging and see what happens. Hope the appointment goes well! We got our referral today, hope it doesn't take long! Been looking at private clinics anyway as I reckon it'll take too long on the nhs and I want to be pregnant before I'm 35 in March. We're gonna give it till dec/Jan and then go for it! See what taking supplements the correctly does for his sperm first.

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I’ve cracked and tested, bfn.

Aww sorry @Franklydear hope you're ok x

Oh no @Franklydear sending you lots of big hugs my lovely llama friend. What CD are you now? Xx

@Franklydear oh no so sorry ☹️☹️ what CD are you on now ?

@Franklydear ahhh shit, I'm so sorry, gutting for you!!😔

@Franklydear oh no! Gutted for you 😔💕

@Katao I'm not sure how many dpo I am this month as my cycle was a bit out of whack following last months CP, going by my diff apps I'm between 13-17dpo. But considering the first positives were 3days ago I'd have expected at least a bit of darkening by now regardless. Had it been my first bfp I'd have been naively optimistic and saying 2lines are still a positive regardless of how light, but I've been here 3times already and watched them get lighter rather than darker so I know to be realistic. Woke up at 4am with mega cramping, no bleeding yet but no test darkening either so I'm fully expecting AF before the weekend is out. I know there's always the small glimmer of hope but I'm leaning towards being more realistic now.

@Newbie0818 OMG how cute is your little pup 😍

Really sorry to hear about the bfn @franklydear I know you were dreading testing for that reason so sending you massive virtual hugs.