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ArjaD · 06/09/2020 13:07

Hi All, I had a mmc at the end of June, and am now 8dpo after our first ovulation since the mmc. Surprisingly, I got this result this morning. Seems too early but it's there... Anyone else got a recent bfp after a miscarriage and is going through the anxiety of it all happening again? Hoping to see lots of rainbow babies xx

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ArjaD · 13/09/2020 13:09

@Jaysdream7 aw hope it's not af showing her face!
It's nice to see you all chatting away 😁
Af is almost at an end for me, so gearing up for the ovulation testing again. Oh joy of joys..... 🙄

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Emmaa124 · 13/09/2020 13:31

@ArjaD ooo do keep us updated with everything ❤️

ArjaD · 13/09/2020 13:39

@Emmaa124 will do! How are you? X

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Emmaa124 · 13/09/2020 13:42

Good and I'm really good at the moment enjoying every day as it comes so glad I've finally got my 3+ on clear blue and all my dye stealing tests😊 can't wait to hear that you've got a BFP ❤️

Emmaa124 · 13/09/2020 13:43

@ArjaD how are you doing at the moment

ArjaD · 13/09/2020 13:52

@Emmaa124 aw I just know you'll be just fine, wee baby will be happy and healthy!
I'm not too bad. Up and down a bit mentally. But I'm also trying to potty train my toddler which is stressful itself. 🙄 He gets so hyper and trying to talk to him is just impossible sometimes.

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Emmaa124 · 13/09/2020 14:27

@ArjaD aww bless you thank you and aww I bet it's so stressful it's horrible playing the waiting game but it'll be worth it in the end ❤️

natnev · 14/09/2020 09:09

Morning ladies, hope you've all had a fab weekend.
AF still hasn't shown up, but I've managed to misplace my CB tests! So I'm away to buy some more soon 😬 the anticipation is always the worst part. Will update you all soon x

ArjaD · 14/09/2020 11:29

@natnev ooooooh I'm keeping everything crossed!

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wishingwomen · 14/09/2020 11:59

I also had miscarriage early June so this is the first proper month of trying again due on in 4-5 days so not testing until I'm late as in the past I've done early ones and it has been negative right up until the day I was due on! So trying my hardest to not to test!
Gutted for you it wasn't this month I can't imagine the emotions you felt but it will happen holding out hope for you!! Thanks

natnev · 14/09/2020 12:51

Two negative tests. Ah well, onwards and upwards x

ArjaD · 14/09/2020 14:03

@wishingwomen aw thank you xx fingers crossed for you. It's such a rollercoaster huh.
@natnev so sorry for the bfn, but at least you can focus on next cycle!!!

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BabyDust13 · 15/09/2020 20:17

Hi ladies hope you don't mind if I join

I got this BFP this morning after having a d&c on 24 July after a MMC. I guess I'm about 4 weeks I'm excited and anxious all at the same time

Haven't told my OH yet as my period is due Friday and I've also had a chemical pregnancy once this year

Good luck to you all Thanks

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ArjaD · 15/09/2020 21:24

@BabyDust13 awww congratulations!!!!! 😍 Feel free to join us, so sorry to hear about the mmc and cp 😞 hope you are not too anxious xxx

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wishingwomen · 15/09/2020 21:26

@BabyDust13 congratulations I also got my positive this morning after having a miscarriage in June! Hope all goes well for you! Thanks

BabyDust13 · 15/09/2020 21:40

@ArjaD thank you I'm trying to remain calm and positive

@wishingwomen congratulations 🥳 have you mentioned it to your OH yet I had to come to bed early I hate not telling him I just want to wait a couple more days until my FRER arrive

Littlebee1990 · 15/09/2020 21:44

Welcome to the newbies! Great to see lots of BFPs.. I finally braved filling in the self referral form for maternity and booked a private scan for 3rd October where I should be between 7+2 and 8+3.. only 18 sleeps to go 🙈😩 Still feel so so anxious that something is going to go wrong and check for blood all day, every day!

Sansa87 · 15/09/2020 21:51

Thankfully still no sign of bleeding, but the pelvic/vag pain is still horrible. Really regret moaning about boob pain as I’d do anything to get it back

Think we are booking a scan for Saturday, but fear it will be too late/no point

Not sure whether to go to work tomorrow, other than pain I don’t have a reason to not go in

wishingwomen · 15/09/2020 21:53

@BabyDust13 yeah I told him I didn't yesterday when the line was faint but done a clear blue one and it come up pregnant straight away so told him today we're both very happy but very anxious!

@Littlebee1990 yeah I've just done the self referral and looking at the private scan now just so worried to book because it's the worst having to ring and say you've lost the baby so no longer need the appointment praying that won't happen though and I really don't want to think like that just so hard! Xx

Jaysdream7 · 15/09/2020 22:01

Congratulations both of you!! The most amazing feeling when you get that BFP. I have a mc in March then fell again in April. This one sadly ended in a termination due to severe medical complications. Also had chemical last year so I know how anxious you must feel. Knickers checking is the worst. Hopefully you will feel better after your scans.
We decided to start trying again this month but sadly AF arrived today so in to next cycle.
Hope to be able to join you soon. Xxx

ArjaD · 15/09/2020 23:11

@Sansa87 it could just be pain from stretching muscles or ligaments maybe, I had a lot of discomfort down there when pregnant too. Sitting was hard enough at one point 😳

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BabyDust13 · 16/09/2020 11:10

Morning all I just wondered if any of you had tried using low dose aspirin I've read quite a lot about it and after 2 loses I've decided to start taking 75mg a day. I'm not sure if it will help but I guess it's worth a try

Littlebee1990 · 16/09/2020 12:23

@BabyDust13 I’d also read up on it but also read somewhere it can cause MC and shouldn’t be taken unless prescribed, but then I’ve read people who have taken it without being prescribed and been fine x

Sansa87 · 17/09/2020 11:41

Was expecting to go in to EPU to be told I’d had a mmc...

6+3 weeks with a heartbeat

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wishingwomen · 17/09/2020 12:10

@Sansa87 congratulations that's lovely news!

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