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ArjaD · 06/09/2020 13:07

Hi All, I had a mmc at the end of June, and am now 8dpo after our first ovulation since the mmc. Surprisingly, I got this result this morning. Seems too early but it's there... Anyone else got a recent bfp after a miscarriage and is going through the anxiety of it all happening again? Hoping to see lots of rainbow babies xx

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ArjaD · 08/09/2020 07:54

I tell a lie, I thought I saw a squinter appear within the time frame and then it went away.... So nothing at 10dpo 😔

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Emmaa124 · 08/09/2020 08:00

@ArjaD yeah I can't see anything in this one either sorry, hopefully you get your positive soon!😓❤️

Littlebee1990 · 08/09/2020 08:03

@ArjaD Gutted for you, so surprised especially as a pink test. X

Sansa87 · 08/09/2020 08:11

So sorry @ArjaD

Congrats to the ones with progression.

Woken up with nothing on the pad, but also no symptoms, & I woke up at 6 instead of 4 which had been a constant since I got pregnant.

It was around this time in July it started going wrong like this too 😔

I just hate that if there is something wrong with me, I have to go through this again before they will even consider doing tests on me

savethewales · 08/09/2020 08:17

@Sansa87 It isn't over until anything happens, and symptoms can fluctuate. Try not to think the worst just yet - trust me, I know it's easier said than done. How are your lines looking or have you stopped testing?
@Littlebee1990 I was totally jealous for a minute there thinking I NEED a label maker haha.
@ArjaD I'm sorry about this morning's test :( Your time will come, I know it's really rubbish though. xxx

Sansa87 · 08/09/2020 08:22

@savethewales I’m in a cottage in the middle of nowhere near with five members of oh’s family and a 3 legged dog 😅 I didn’t bring any tests with me. We decided we wouldn’t test until we got home Friday.

My test on Saturday (?) was the darkest id ever seen an ic, but you know you just know it’s not right? I’m in that place.

savethewales · 08/09/2020 09:06

@Sansa87 oh I really feel for you and I understand what you mean about feeling it isn’t right. My friend said the same thing mind you and is due in December with a little boy so there’s still hope xxx

ArjaD · 08/09/2020 11:54

@Sansa87 I hope the worry will fade for you, it's a shame not to be able to enjoy the pregnancy. I'm sure I'd feel The same though 🙁

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natnev · 08/09/2020 12:09

Been trying for a year and a half now after my last miscarriage, just cannot fall Sad congrats to everyone with positive tests and will keep everything crossed for you all x

ArjaD · 08/09/2020 13:01

@natnev I'm so sorry it's taking ages, nothing more stressful huh 😞 feel free to stay with us and vent, we all get it! ❤️
I hope you will all forgive me for going a bit psycho after positive and then negative tests, but do I see a line here? 🤔

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ArjaD · 08/09/2020 13:14

I'm such a poas addict 😱

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natnev · 08/09/2020 13:22

@ArjaD

I'm such a poas addict 😱
I am too! I've found those test strips are very hit and miss, I've had so many mixed results with those. I wish clear blue weren't so pricey. (Thanks for letting me tag along, I've not been on one of these threads before and am not a seasoned MN user, so apologies if I don't get the abbreviations right 😂) Unsure if I can see a line on your pic, have you got any other tests?
ArjaD · 08/09/2020 13:51

@Natnev no I have decided to just satisfyy addiction with these for now and if af doesn't show on Sat I'll do a clearblue. I had a positive Co-op test three days ago but I believe it was faulty.
These forums are great for knowing you're not weird and we all go a bit crazy at times 😁🤣

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savethewales · 08/09/2020 14:08

@ArjaD I feel like I can! Maybe try another frer in the morning as they seem the most reliable usually? Xx

ArjaD · 08/09/2020 14:21

@savethewales I've run out of frers, but happy to squint at these for the next few days. Got my clearblues ready for Sat in case af doesn't show. Feeling a bit crampy though. How are you doing? X

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natnev · 08/09/2020 14:28

@ArjaD AF is due on Saturday for me too. I'm getting the usual sore boobs/cramps/moodiness but I'm praying it doesn't come 🤞🏻 and for you too! I've never had a false positive before, was that your first? Assuming it WAS faulty of course

savethewales · 08/09/2020 14:35

@ArjaD I’m doing okay, I just feel like my head is full with worry. Got a good progression on frer this morning so trying to relax but it’s so hard!

ArjaD · 08/09/2020 14:39

@natnev yeah I've never had a false positive before, it's heartwrenching but I guess we just need to get over it. 😔 Sounds like we have similar cycles!
@savethewales the worry stays huh, sort of dreading that.

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natnev · 08/09/2020 14:44

@ArjaD I'd be really surprised if your BFP was wrong! And I'm really hoping that's the case 🤞🏻 if af isn't here by Sunday do you think I should do a test that day? Or wait a bit? I've never had to ttc before this past 18 months, I fell so easily for my first two children, so I've actually no idea what I'm doing 😂

Jaysdream7 · 08/09/2020 15:12

Hi, @ArjaD I’ve caved at 7/8 dpo and taken a FRER. This is the image. I hate to get your hopes Up but I can see a faint line in your first response similar to this one? I’m not sure that my line is? I’m praying for you xx

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ArjaD · 08/09/2020 15:12

@natnev yeah Sunday sounds like the day to test. Ttc is by no means ever romantic 🙄 was quick with my first, then 6months for the second which we lost at 14 weeks gestation. Ovulation tests, then telling hubby now's the time 😂 he must really feel the pressure!

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ArjaD · 08/09/2020 15:15

@Jaysdream7 aw I think I may see a squinter there. Fingers crossed for you, I'm actually more and more convinced my af is coming, I've been cramping the last few hours.

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Jaysdream7 · 08/09/2020 15:18

Bless you! I pray for you to get your baby lines very soon!
Xxx

natnev · 08/09/2020 16:09

Definitely not romantic! Lying in bed with your bum in the air 🤣 keep us updated @ArjaD, really hoping it's implantation cramps for you x

Emmaa124 · 08/09/2020 16:11

Sorry I've not replied to anyone or joined in been at eork all day still here get off at 7 ish luckily but I'm praying for you all that you join the rainbow baby club soon 🥰❤️

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