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[Juno231]

June BFPs - 24
July BFPs - 10
August BFPs - 18

September testing dates:
@mrsbear1122 - August 31st
@Juno231 - September 4th
@LV1987- September 4th
@franklydear September 4th
@frolicmum - September 4th
@florence13 - September 6th
@2020mission - September 8th
@mrsi2020 - September 12th
@vil10 - September 13th
@notyetamumbuttrying - September 14th
@Katao - September 19th
@Laceymermaid - September 29th
@minster2012 - October 9th

@lucyrp oh Jesus! 😫😫 as if you haven't had to put up with enough and then they get it wrong?! What happened after your complaint, have they got back to you?

Okay so girls I've attached pics - am I losing it? Can you see it too? I'm back at work (although from home) today and I'm not sure how I'm going to concentrate 😅

Omg @KateColx yes!!!! That is definitely a second line!!! 🥰🥰🥰 I think that's your BFP!!! Woo hoo!! Congratulations girl! How long did you say you've been trying?
@Minster2012 I really enjoyed the fall on Netflix, & I'm now watching The Duchess, which is a comedy

@KateColx it looks pink in the picture aswel, any idea how many DPO you are roughly or when AF is due?

Congrats @KateColx it's a bfp! Didn't even have to click on the pic to see! How many dpo are you? It'll get darker every 48 hours. Especially once you go past expected period date.

@KateColx yeah literally! I had help from @Minster2012 to write the strongly worded email! 🤣 yeah they got back to me and 3 of them rang and apologised and said they'd refer me to a fertility clinic with OH after my actual day 21 if they get it right this time! That's definitely a BFP surely ! X

OMG @KateColx yay!!!!! That's def a second line!!! We were hoping you would come here with a BFP!! 🥰🤗😘woooo! That's awesome!

Ooo I will def put down the fall & the duchess they sound good, we ended up watching all the last of cobra Kai we have been watching & now it's time to clean up & check out though we don't get DS back til tea time so it's like hmmm what to do!

@KateColx aaah congrats! totally a crystal clear second line!! Recap please - what cycle/dpo are you on now?

@lucyrp it baffles me that your Day 3 test came back normal when your LH seems to be all over the place!

@Juno231 I was contemplating taking a pot and some opks to work to try and do it throughout the day but they obviously don't do anything and will probs stress me out more. They all look the same to me so can't be bothered to do it. I honestly give up with opks😭 I don't know what I can do to help myself along 😫the doctor talked me through my levels the other day and said nothing seems to be out of place so can't see why my opks are doing nothing ! Makes me so angry and upset. Maybe I just have loads of unovulatory cycles ☹️ but surely that's not right because I had my cp back in may ? X

Girls we're approaching a new thread so please get your test dates in! So far I've got the below - let me know if I've missed anyone!

3 BFPs:
@catherinettc - Sep 4th
@mrsi2020 - Sep 6th
@KateColx - Sep 21st

Testing dates:
@franklydear - September 27th
@Laceymermaid - September 29th
@galatea - September 29th
@minster2012 - October 9th
@clairey844 - September 29th
@Juno231 - September 30th
@hopeful110 - October 2nd
@mrsbear1122 - October 5th
@2020mission - October 6th

@Juno231 put me down for 6th October please, still waiting to ov but this will be the earliest I'll test. Hope you sneak in with a sept bfp! 🤞🏾

Ah thank you girls! I'm not sure I dare to believe it yet, I keep going back to check it's still there 😂 I'm a bit nervous because I've had spotting and cramping and felt like AF was due to start for about 4 days now 😕

@Chlo2701 ah thank you! we started trying properly in March and took a break July/August because the stress of it got a bit much and then in September we just went with the flow without any tracking or anything! So I'm not 100% sure but I think I'm around 11DPO with AF due on Thursday. X

@notyetamumbuttrying I think around 11DPO but can't be 100% sure. Ah thank you, I'm going to be testing obsessed now I'm sure. X

@Juno231 thanks lovely, cycle 5 I think this is of properly trying, as July / August were a no go! X

@lucyrp oh that's so shit for you! I'm sure they'll be getting it right this time around for you. Good work on the letter with @Minster2012 😂 sounds like it worked! X

@Minster2012 aw thank you lovely, I'm doing the typical me thing and reserving any excitement just yet, cue the daily testing 😅 x

Congrats! @Katecolx that's a great line! Theres definitely a theme here that when people start to relax a bit they conceive!

@KateColx congrats, how wonderful!

@Juno231 I have no idea when I will be testing after the loss the other week, as no idea when AF will be or when I'll ovulate so I'm in limbo this month.
Random question ladies..... I'm not a heavy smoker but do have about 5 roll ups a day, I really want to stop. Have any of you ladies given up & how did you do it?
I've got a SMOK vape that OH bought me last year, & considering it was a really expensive one, I don't rate it, it leaks abit & I find that it can get hot & abit burny after a while. I've got OH to charge it all back up for me & going to give it another go.
Didn't know if any of you ladies could recommend some cheap vapes & flavours?
@KateColx I bet if you do another test tomorrow or Tuesday the line will definitely be darker😍 when I got my BFP a few wks back I was adamant AF was coming as I had pains & having lots of brown discharge. I just hope I get another BFP before Xmas 🤞🏻x

@KateColx yaaay!! Congrats!!! Xx

@KateColx congratulations!!

@Juno231 I'm due to test 23rd September

@Minster2012 the fall is wicked

@Missgoldilocks ooh, that’s awfully close, good luck

@Juno231 looking at my potential transfer dates if the scan is ok on weds my testing would be 12th Oct at the earliest I'm afraid & that's if you want to put a testing date down 🤷‍♀️I don't mind not having a date as no idea what's going on til weds 🙄🤞🏻

@LBee2020 thank you! Yeah a few people told me to just relax but I'd have never been able to be more relaxed unless I'd been kinda forced into it like I was 😂 x

@Franklydear @Catherinettc @Missgoldilocks thanks so much girls! Still too nervous / cautious to get excited yet x

@Chlo2701 ah I hope so, I've already got some more FRER on order 😂 I feel nervous being excited about it just after one test, really hoping it sticks. Oh sorry I've not been on here properly for a while so didn't know you'd had one recently 💕 Christmas was my aim too! Yeah same, on Thursday it was red but it's been pink / brown since but not much at all. Think I'll be nervous until AF date has been and gone xx

@Franklydear thank you! I'm hoping for something to happen 😬 me and oh just had a bit of a talk because I'm pretty sick of us not really touching each other unless it's fertile week. It's just not healthy so if I'm not pregnant this time I'm not going to go into fertile week having loads of sex I'm just going to go with the flow and at least we have January pencilled in if still no luck by then. I mean we've done 15 months of lots of sex and still nothing so lol no point in losing our relationship over this which is definitely what it's starting to feel like. I've got to stick to this and not get obsessive again no point!

@KateColx I really hope so. I can't believe its taking us so long. I keep hearing the doctors say "oh you're only young" yes I'm 23 and it's been a year and nothing yet! I go through phases of getting really upset about it and then phases of not caring and I can't really even say we're TTC anymore as we have no clue when Anything is happening x

Aw @KateColx congratulations! Definitely a line there. So glad you are back to share your good news!
@Juno231 pppffff put me down for the 26th I guess? If nothing happens between now and next weekend I'll test again.

What do you think girls? Cd31 bfn yesterday. Premom has me down as 5 days late but my cycles have been so irregular I don't know where it gets that from. It's been a full week since I had the spotting.

@Missgoldilocks I'm gonna have to have this talk too. Feel like I have it every month tho 🙄 how did it go down?

@notyetamumbuttrying well, he's been saying for months let's have some sort of break because he hasn't handled all of this very well. Sex becomes some form of baby making thing instead of enjoyable and something we both want to do. I've been trying to initiate sex with him so ce after fertile week and he hasn't wanted to so for me I just had to think well this really isn't worth us losing everything and we are already kind of there sex wise! So it just made sense for me to say to him you know what let's not force ourselves to do it 4 or 5 times let's just do it when we want as long as we are around the time and leave it at that. It was recieved well by him because I think he's been at that point for a while but I was being stubborn. Lol🥺 I just want our sex life back now! What are you going to say to your oh?

@Missgoldilocks this happened with us too which is why we decided to take a laid back approach, all of a sudden it felt like sex was only to make a baby and because of that even outside of FW it had lost its appeal. I found it really hard to deal with as it felt like it was only us who were struggling with it but I think it's more common than I originally thought x