Disclaimer: Psycho B*tches - Sep Bus 16

[Juno231]

June BFPs - 24
July BFPs - 10
August BFPs - 18

September testing dates:
@mrsbear1122 - August 31st
@Juno231 - September 4th
@LV1987- September 4th
@franklydear September 4th
@frolicmum - September 4th
@florence13 - September 6th
@2020mission - September 8th
@mrsi2020 - September 12th
@vil10 - September 13th
@notyetamumbuttrying - September 14th
@Katao - September 19th
@Laceymermaid - September 29th
@minster2012 - October 9th

Oh and @Franklydear I'm going to go ahead and test at the weekend as planned so test with me! No sign of af since spotting last weekend. Bfn on Wednesday. Not really hopeful but may as well test again 🤷‍♀️

Damn, you know I've been on here for too long when everyone already knows my pig story

@2alreadywantanother I'm so sorry to hear this! I'm holding out hope for you that they've gotten the timings wrong, especially as those week estimates seem to be all over the place xx

Just had a peak OPK after that EWCM yesterday so I KNEW Sunday wasn't it. Had steamy sofa BD last night so at and will jump OH tonight and tomorrow as well hopefully to cover those bases.

@Franklydear your cycle confuses the hell out of me - I swear you've been having pregnancy symptoms for nearly a month already?! Fingers crossed for you.

Hi all,

I am tentatively sitting on the bus following my missed miscarriage at 12/13 weeks (I got my BFP as Flittingabout on the June bus after 2 years of trying).

This is my first cycle following two rounds of medical management so not sure if that will impact ovulation.

Look forward to following your journeys and sharing the highs and lows!

Hi @Flittingaboutagain sorry to hear your story. we have a few returnees unfortunately but at least you know not alone. Best of luck with this next cycle. How are you feeling? A loss at any time is heartbreaking but really feel for you after waiting so long for your bfp.

Thanks Katao.

It was a real blow to be honest. I had no idea I would have to go through an induced pseudo labour to get the baby out, and do it twice. I thought these things happened on their own. Very naive of me. It was awful in so many ways. The tiiiiiny baby was intact because of how many weeks when its heartbeat stopped, so we have buried it with a beautiful rose.

I have got loads of comfort from positive stories of rainbow babies following similar horrendous pregnancies so I firmly believe I will get pregnant again one day and it just wasn't meant to be that time.

Hopefully next time everything will align and allow the pregnancy to continue. I am trying to be positive that if I can get pregnant, that is a bloody good start!

@flittingaboutagain I'm so sorry you had to go through that's. Life is so so cruel. I was told yesterday there was no heartbeat, and I just cant get my head around it.
My dates I should be 9+2 their dates going by last scan I should have been 8+6. I was measuring 9+2 that's why I'm so shocked. It's like it just happened when I went in. I've to go back wed for a rescan. And decide on next steps if nothing has started already. I really hope it happens naturally. I really dont want to go for a D&C.
We got pregnant on 2nd cycle of trying but mentally will I be able to go through it again.
My heart is in a million pieces at the min💔. My heads busting and my eyes are stinging in my head. It's such an emotional thing to have to go through. Sending hugs to u. We can get through this 💕

@Flittingaboutagain I am so so sorry to read this! How heartbreaking 💔 you are doing so well to be thinking as positively as you are! I'm glad you knew you could come bk to this wonderful group of women! 🥰
@2alreadywantanother I'm really sorry to hear about you too. I just can't imagine how hard it must be. We're here for you! X
@Katao good luck for the weekend! You too if you test @Franklydear!
I'm cd6 so will start on opk's tomorrow for cycle 15 I think! 🤞🏾

@Flittingaboutagain that's so sad and such a painful experience. I really hope you will have your rainbow baby.
@2alreadywantanother something sounds really off about what is happening to you. You must be feeling so confused with all they have told you.
Thanks @notyetamumbuttrying

So sorry about your loss @Flittingaboutagain must have been a horrendous time for you having to birth it while also dealing with the mental grief. I hope being ae to have your baby buried gave you at least a little bit of comfort and how touching to add a little rose.
Hoping you and everyone else who has lost their little baby too soon get to hold their rainbow baby in their arms soon enough.

Thank you ladies and I'm sorry you are going through it 2alreadywantanother

Yes this group was such a giggle earlier in the year when I spoke with DP about trying again (well, not getting into OPKs etc this month but just not re-starting contraception following the miscarriage) I immediately thought oh I will join the bitches haha! I'm just going to go easy and see what happens...not ready to fully invest emotionally yet.

@Flittingaboutagain so sorry to see you back and sending you MASSIVE tender hugs, I was also very naive about medical management of a missed miscarriage so I totally get you, and @2alreadywantanother, we've got your backs ladies & I'm hoping your seat on the bus doesn't get that warm 🥰xxxx

@Juno231 "you've been on the bus too long when everyone knows your 🐷story" 😂🙈maybe you need to create a new story this weekend so it can be your new defining filth story! You can then tell grads on the bus "I got pregnant when upside down licking .....(complete the sentence)🤔

@Franklydear when's your little drinkies & test then? & @Katao you two are testing together now right??

I also hope @KateColx comes back with a BFP 🥰

So an update from me, I've still been bleeding today & yesterday, full on period, small clots and everything. On CD14, of an IVF cycle where I'm meant to be making a fluffy womb lining right now. They said keep taking the meds, go in 8.45am next weds for bloods and keep my 1pm scan appointment for my womb (I mean it's not like it can take 45mins each way to get there 😬🤔) and they will see if they can keep me on the meds, & still use this time & maybe find out why. But I'm now heading off to our "sexy weekend away in lodge with hot tub" on a random period.

So yeah bout that period sex 😳🤔🙈

@2alreadywantanother and @Flittingaboutagain so sorry to hear about your losses I had a mmc end of July start of August it is awful. I hope you both have a support network around you. Stay positive and I am sure we will get our rainbow babies when the time is right. Sending lots of luck and love your way x

@Flittingaboutagain sorry to hear of your experience. Reading of you burying your baby at 9 weeks brought back really sad memories of my pseudo labour at 15 weeks .. ☹️

Yes just awful sorry for those who have been through it. Lots of resilient and brave women have come through it all and we will too ! I have found lots of support yes thank you.

Good luck with the period sex Minster... kinky blindfolds for your both!

Aw @Minster2012 boo to that!

@Minster2012 I know 🤣 it's ok though as I lived there most of my life, I feel like it was a nice send off :P
@Missgoldilocks bum licking?? Does it not tastes of poo?! And ewww not piss in the mouth 😭😭

@Juno231 Oreo nugget 🤣🤣🤣

@lucyrp haha, love a sex evening!

@2alreadywantanother so sorry lovely, heartbreaking xx

@Flittingaboutagain sorry to hear that, but welcome back x

Not much to report here, 4th day of af for me and I've got a cold bleh. And I feel like a walking Covid germ after teaching 150+ kids each day 😷 yuck!

@Katao I am afraid to test, if I do should I get a frer? I have a cb digit weeks, how sensitive is it?
@Juno231 my cycles are shit normally but this one takes the biscuit, got symptoms a week before af due( 29th aug) then have the spotting a day early and the symptoms never went away, sang victory this morning too early, boobs, bloating, back pain and a headache
@Minster2012 your body isn’t any better, darling, hope you enjoy your weekend, drinks will be tomorrow, I have a bottle of Albariño, this could ou me quite a bit, and an ice cream Oreo birthday cake, after that a bfp is guaranteed, right?
Thanks everyone for the luck

Ooh and I meant to ask @notyetamumbuttrying assuming he is who we think he is, was he any good?! 😱

Don’t worry @notyetamumbuttrying, nobody here works in the media, right girls?

@Franklydear when's your birthday?? Alborino what is this magical stuff?!!!

OMG @notyetamumbuttrying yes what was he like?????

And no I work with diggers, dumpers & portable 🚽so NOWHERE near you know who!

@Newbie0818 no he was awful! Tiny willy. I was so drunk, I barely remember it, prob good job really lol!
@Franklydear it was years ago anyway, I doubt he remembers himself lol!
@Minster2012 he was dog shit babe, total waste of time 😂

@notyetamumbuttrying oh well, least it's one for the dinner parties eh!
Big personality, small dick, who knew eh! The funny ones often over compensate!!!!

@notyetamumbuttrying am I lost here or does everyone know who it was you got down with? 😂

@Minster2012 I love reading your comments you are just amazing ❤️🥰 listen that hot tub will wash away the red 😬😁 actually it'll be great period sex no mess!! Mwahahaha

@Newbie0818 i guess it depends whos bum you lick 😂😂 my partner is very clean so haven't had any issues!

Wellllllll I should be 9dpo, on a normal cycle I'd be about 12dpo but I ovulated 3 days late because of the isoflavones, I thought my. Af would be 3 days late too but I am getting my usual 3 days before period is due period pains 😩 so thinking it'll come right on time Sunday!