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[Juno231]

June BFPs - 24
July BFPs - 10
August BFPs - 18

September testing dates:
@mrsbear1122 - August 31st
@Juno231 - September 4th
@LV1987- September 4th
@franklydear September 4th
@frolicmum - September 4th
@florence13 - September 6th
@2020mission - September 8th
@mrsi2020 - September 12th
@vil10 - September 13th
@notyetamumbuttrying - September 14th
@Katao - September 19th
@Laceymermaid - September 29th
@minster2012 - October 9th

@notyetamumbuttrying oh that's shit I'm sorry the butch turned up like that!! I've still got another 10 days to go! Yeah definitely explore options that is exciting to look forward to at least! Good that he's getting healthy it will make a massive difference in 3 months!!

@Minster2012 yeah it's mad, I think the was doing the injecting and her hormone levels were too high the first time, then second time she bled at the wrong time and the THIRD time they said only one egg grew to a good size so it wasn't worth it 😕 so she's quite fed up. Hopefully yours isn't a bleed coming through!! Maybe break through? Thank you! I really hope so lol x

@Missgoldilocks awww sending big hugs to your sister, that's so hard. We only got 4 eggs the first time but then one child so there's hope 🤞🏻the stims hormones are horrible

@lucyrp this is your first reminder! Call the doctors! Hopefully more to come!

So good of you to remember @Minster2012
Let’s all remind @lucyrp

@lucyrp 😂

@Missgoldilocks I really bloody hope so! Don't fancy ivf if we can avoid it.
@Katao wins the reminder challenge 😂 @lucyrp hope you're on the phone as we speak!

Hi girls! Okay so I've just trawled through like 10 pages worth of chat and have jotted down the following dates:

@hopeful110 - October 2nd
@mrsbear1122 - October 5th
@2020mission - October 6th

Let me know if anyone else needs to be put on the testing list!

@mrsi2020 I can always count on you to single handedly support the HPT industry but CONGRATS for your BFP . Loving the progression so far!

@lucyrp I hate tampons too, so I've been using a mooncup for like 5 years now :)

@SarahTTC2020 I'm 32,5 as well so that's a scary thought! I should prob double check what the limit is where I am.

@notyetamumbuttrying I'm sorry to hear about his SA result. Annoyingly OH hasn't organised his yet but I'll def chase him on that now. I hope your referral to the fertility clinic is quick!

CD10 here today so starting my own sausage and jizz fest tonight. It helps that it's our 11th anniversary today as well.

Oh and girls after gorging on pizza, pasta, bread and wine all week I'm def starting a diet today again!

@Juno231 happy anniversary! Enjoy your sausage and jizz fest 🤣
I had faint line on opk yesterday so will go up to twice a day now. Would be early for me but similar to a cycle I had a couple of cycles ago so I'll see!

@lucyrp call the bloody doctor!!!

@Juno321 happy anniversary!! What a way to celebrate with a sausage and jizz fest!!
So 8dpo over here and still no usually progesterone rising symptoms??? I know I definitely ovulated because I got a blinder of an opk, maybe the northisterone has just messed it up, af is due around Sunday, so depending I might test on Saturday depending on how I feel and if I know af is coming I won't bother, I say af is due on Sunday but because of the northisterone it might even be later, I hope not though because if I'm late I'll get my hopes up!! Also hoping that a lack of symptoms is a positive sign??😂😂 oh the things we think to keep positive!!

Thanks Juno 😁.. I've been on and off here over the weekend as it was my 32nd birthday on Friday so been out for meals and southend beach yesterday, I've still been casually doing my opks in afternoon and been having 'high' readings on fem opks and was using cbd opk until yesterday as I ran out and yesterday was day 6 of flashy smileys.. my temp is slowly starting to increase again, we have been dtd every other day since 31st August lol and OH asked me last night 'why can't u always be that wet when we have sex'...so apparently for the last 3 times we have had sex ive been super wet... could it be something is happening soon lol!

Happy Monday everyone! Im stuck stocktaking at work til 8pm tonight 😟

Happy anniversary @Juno231 enjoy later 🥰.

I’m 14dpo today so expecting AF in the next few days. Can you put me down for 14th October! I’ve dropped off this thread but would love to pick it back up ☺️

@notyetamumbuttrying I am currently trying to ring but csnt get through! I did try having a conversation about this last night but it ended up in us falling out and sleeping on either side of the bed turned away from each other and me in tears and questioning why he didn't want to 🥺 I'm not sure what's going on really feeling very deflated this morning ☹️ although he did talk to me this morning and explained how much he loved me etc but just feel a bit sad.

Thanks girls for all the reminders just managed to get through but the healthcare assistant needs to call me back because there's no available appointments on the day I need it !

@Katao that made me laugh 😂😂

@Juno231 thank you! Yeah def chase him as you never know! I was surprised it was him and not me tbh. Same re the diet stuff, although I say that every Sunday/Monday and rarely stick to it 😂 so my new date is likely to be 6th October, although I'm not expecting any positives now! Happy anniversary!
@lucyrp aww at least he said he still loves you, that's reassuring. Perhaps he's feeling pressure?

@notyetamumbuttrying I don't question if he loves me or not I know that but it's just sad he's not in it if you know what I mean. It's nothing to do with TTC either as I'm just on about enjoyable sex ! No idea

@lucyrp that's frustrating then. Do you think it's external stresses like work perhaps? Mine goes off it when work gets too much. One of the things we need to improve for my Dh is stress, the doc suggested yoga and he just laughed as he's very unbendy, but I think he should at least give it a go. I'm gonna suggest he mediates too, there's a good app for it which I can't remember the name of now but I'll get him to download it. Perhaps if it's stress related you could suggest something like that too.

Aw @lucyrp its horrible when a well meaning conversation goes like that. Maybe try to start over today and get a bit more of an idea where he is at? Do less talking and ask more questions. It's a bit of a sensitive subject and he might be taking it as personal criticism. Male egos and all that!

@notyetamumbuttrying my OH used to laugh at yoga and now he loves hot yoga! I'd recommend headspace for meditation, that dude's voice lowers my heart rate in seconds!

@Juno231 headspace! That's the one! I used to use it but couldn't for the life of me remember the name. He's great isn't he. So gonna get him to download that and do it before bed as he struggles to sleep too. He's a bloody mess my hubs, no wonder his sperm don't know where to go 😆
The thought of hot yoga makes me feel funny, but then I don't like saunas and that's where my head goes 🥴

So I started my period yesterday at around 430pm and it was bright red, not spotting. Therefore is yesterday day 1 or today?

@notyetamumbuttrying not properly, I was waiting for af to start. I know because of my pcos they should help, but like you say if I'm ovulating according to my temps surely by now there would be something!

@notyetamumbuttrying I don't think it's work I'm not really sure. I'd like to get into yoga but I don't know where to start!

@Katao I wonder how tonight will go 🙈

Any ideas why my chart looks like this ? Is it normal ?

@notyetamumbuttrying if it was decent glow yesterday I would say yesterday was day 1 but what does everyone else think?

My bloody dog just stole 2 squares of chocolate, it shouldn't die from 2 squares but I might just kill it!

@lucyrp I use this really great lady who does an app for Pilates called NIIXfit if you want I have a discount code I think? She does challenges every month which are really good to follow, it's all aimed at women and she does some post partum stuff too which is why I liked the look the of it

Just a quick update from me. What I thought was af starting a couple of days ago never really went beyond spotting so I decided to keep my appointment for day 21 bloods. The nurse was happy to go ahead with them and just took note of the spotting so glad I didn't have to cancel, whether it will be any use or not 🤷‍♀️

@Newbie0818 it's a total head fuck babe! I'm so glad we now know what the problem is and we've already started to fix it so that's calmed my brain down so much!
@lucyrp you'll have to bring it up again, see if he opens up. I don't chart my love so I can't help with that. Hope someone can help tho!
@Minster2012 cool, that's what i thought too!
Eek bloody dog 😬 hope it's ok.
@Katao did you take a pregnancy test as well? I've got day 3's on Thursday which I thought would be day 4, turns out it'll be day 5 now with my early start period. I'm
Gonna call up tomorrow To see if they have any cancellations...

@Juno231 lol you know me well!!! I’ll be stopping by this weekend if I get 3+ on a digi . Yayyy for your anniversary and bd! How was your hol? Xx

@lucyrp attached mine for you. You are still early days so should be relatively steady. Looks normal to me. Mine is a bit strange as Ovulation wasn't really that clear and FF had me ovulating later. But this is from my BFP so strange charts are good too. 🥰