TTC after MC - Aug/Sept 2020 (Thread 12)

[VP91x]

Evening all 💕

BFP list

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@Niisa
@fafi
@2020wish
@Rebecca1992
@Beesy90
@Pugprincess
@IWM20
@Lollol86

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@VP91x
@MrsK21
@MichT4
@Hayley19835
@HE88
@Rainbowhope11
@Diorissimo1985
@Rb486
@Northernsoul90
@Firevie
@chloedancer897
@Happyvibes
@Bl0ndi3
@eclipsechips
@Will867
@Jazper
@susiebluebell
@Cici89
@Fingerscrossedfor2021HK
@ladysamee
@Sully84
@LAcain
@gizmo167

If anyone else would like to join please do.

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Thank you @VP91x. Not that I’m anywhere near that. I’m only four or five DPO and new to the temping/OPks etc. I really think I’d be too anxious to test and would have to wait for AF instead. But who knows till I get there. Good luck for your next test. When you thinking of doing it?

@Bl0ndi3 YIPPEEEEEE AMAZING NEWS!!! Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!! 💃

@KatiePlus3 I’m on CD 24 out of a 31 day cycle! Quite close!

Hi all. Sorry for the TMI question but had to ask. I’ve read from lots of internet searches that after ovulation, you’re supposed to dry up and NO EWCM. I ovulated last Sunday (according to two apps) I measure temp and did opks that I believe showed an obvious peak. But I’m still getting CM, most quite running but some creamy. I’m so sorry for the TMI. It’s not smelly or weird colour or anything. Anyone else get this? I’m only 5DPO so ages to wait for AF. Sorry again for the grossness.

My temps have gone up so I’m pretty sure I ovulated last Sunday.

Thanks ladies.

@RichmondLady1981. A lot of people are different I normally have creamy Cm for about a week after ovulation but some people only have a few days. When I was pregnant I just kept getting Cm and didn’t dry up at all. It’s knowing what’s normal for you hun x

@MichT4 I really hope it all comes away naturally for you too. Here's to hoping af is going to show her face xx

@Bl0ndi3 yes that's amazing news, congratulations lovely
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@BEESY90 your jelly bean is a fighter, so glad all is ok xx

I won't tag everyone individually but thank you all, cautiously optimistic still and probably will be pretty cautious going forward for a while!

@Runnergirl1 I'm 10 maybe 11dpo xx

@Bl0ndi3 I’m only 8dpo/9dpo but already have the urge to poas not that it would show anything lol x

@Bl0ndi3 absolutely fantastic news huge congratulations 🥳💖

@BEESY90 loving the scan pic and wow you are really going through it but I’m so glad baby is good! Did that say what causes your bleeding? Love the feet too, I’m 8+2 today, hope mine has feet now 🤞🏻

@familybythesea sorry, gp receptionists can be awful 🙈 sorry to the good ones out there...just hate it when they act like they are the doctor cause now you are full of questions and only have google to answer.

@Peblet sorry to hear about your loss. You will learn lots of ttc tips from the ladies on this thread. Hope AF doesn’t keep you waiting long 🤞🏻Xx

@2020wish lovely to hear from you, sorry to hear you have been unwell. Take it easy xx

Joining all the others in congratulating you @Bl0ndi3 and heaving a sigh of relief for @BEESY90 that you and jelly bean are ok despite the scare! You are both fighters!

@RichmondLady1981 I usually have a bit of cm throughout the month and just get noticeably more around ov.

Still working away on the internet situation here so reading along when I can get a signal out here in the sticks. I'm on day 30 of what is normally a 34-day cycle, but it's the first cycle post-mc so we'll see. Interestingly I do have really sore boobs which I only had when I was pregnant (never as PMS) but I'm not going to make anything of it yet.

Sending love and strength to all! X

@Runnergirl1 I don't normally test early so I dunno what possessed me to test at 9dpo originally and saw the first hint of a line. Normally I try and wait til 12dpo but caved this time around haha was worth it I guess in my case xxx

@Pugprincess thanks so much 💗💗💗

@susiebluebell that sounds promising but good you're staying strong 🤞🏻 everything crossed for you and anybody else due to test soon 💜

Congratulations@Bl0ndi3 and what a beautiful photo of your sweet baby 🥰 @BEESY90

Massive Congratulations @Bl0ndi3 🥳 and what a lovely picture of a sweet little baby @BEESY90 🥰 again I’ve not had a chance to comment much this week ladies but have been popping on every day to keep up to date with you all . Still not much of an update from myself as yet . Currently cd19 and no clear indication of peak from the cb so far . Previously always ovulated around Cd 13/14 of a 28 day cycle but after a strange 32 day cycle last month who knows what’s going on 🤔 I’ve also been so exhausted from school that we haven’t managed to dtd at all over the last week so not holding out too much hope this month . Just looking forward to a Semi - relaxing weekend now 🤞🏼😴

@familybythesea - the receptionist sounds as delightful as the one at my surgery!! You should definitely make a complaint. My experience wasn’t half as rude as yours - but I got off a phone consultation today, the Dr spent ages going through everything and said normally we’d wait for a year, but I want to get the ball rolling for you fertility investigations! The Dr said to change my address as I moved just as lockdown begun, so I told the receptionist and she said “that’s out of catchment, you need to register else where, sorry!”

I’m 5mins away from my old address lol - I know catchment areas work - but I said “look, it’s to do with my fertility, I’m 36 and the Dr wants to get it all rolling now, I can’t risk another surgery turning me away - I’ve been with your surgery since birth, so leave my address for now thank you, as it is my parents house and they still live there. She sighed and went, so what am I doing for you then? I felt bad - but I can’t risk swapping surgeries and another dr telling me to wait!

@Bl0ndi3 wow such exciting news, fingers crossed and congrats x

@BEESY90, what a rollercoaster for you, glad all is well and I hope the rest of this trimester goes smoothly and you can start relaxing somewhat.

Ladies, OH made his signature lamb biryani today and we opened up a bottle of red wine from our honey moon in South Africa 2years ago. No real reason for celebration other than my af is here and I’m onto the next cycle! Pic attached. Hope you’re all okay and can also enjoy little things - we deserve it! Xxx

Hope everyone is well - I'm taking a slight step back from commenting as regularly as I want to try a more relaxed approach this month and not track as much either. I do keep popping on though to try and stay in the loop with everyone and how you are getting on! Cd 7 for me today, I don't think I'm going to opk this month and I'm not temping either

@Bl0ndi3 Woohoo 🥳🥳 congrats! Amazing news xxx

@BEESY90 Lovely pic and so glad all is well 💖 xx

@MrsK21 @HappyVibes CD7 today for me ladies, hope you are both getting on okay. Your fw has come round quick! @MrsK21 xx

@Firevie That looks so lovely... lucky you! Xxx

@MrsK21 @Northernsoul90 hello lovelies. Sorry I’ve not been on here this week so just seen your tags now.

That is crazy that you’re in the FW already MrsK! I haven’t even started my CB yet...on CD7 today. This is so exciting that it comes round so quick for you!! Oh I’ll be watching out for you so much the next few weeks, eek!

Have you started your CB Northern? Xxxxx

@susiebluebell that sounds extremely hopefully for you. How exciting! Are you staying strong on the testing front? When are you due AF?

Congratulations @Bl0ndi3 it’s lovely to come back on after a week away and see the positive result for you.

@MichT4 I am so invested in your journey lovely, hoping AF is here shortly for you / FW. I’ve not been on all week so apologies if I missed any updates re your FW. As always you seem to be handling it all like a little superstar 💫 xxxx

@BEESY90 what a lovely picture! I’m so glad everything is okay but your nerves must be all over the place with everything you’re having to go through. Sending you well wishes for a happy and healthy pregnancy going forward. Xx

@chloedancer897 absolutely! Positivity is the way forward! It’s always good to keep hopeful and it will absolutely happen for us! I saw something that a friend on Facebook shared and I thought I would share it with the group that our ‘someday’ will come soon. I’m also moving jobs soon so hopefully that will take my mind off things too! I’m going to be doing the SMEP and OPKs so I’ll be a busy bee this month! Xx

@Wishingfornumber2 sorry to hear that your bloods haven’t given you the answers you wanted. Fingers crossed you get some more answers when you get the next bloods xx

@2020wish I’m glad to hear everything is okay after that scare! Glad you are home and okay now. Take it easy xx

@Firevie that looks lovely! Have a lovely evening with OH. I’m currently binge watching an old series with OH and face masks (he’s wearing one too 🤣). Xx

@Northernsoul90 sometimes we just need to take that step back to get ourselves back on track for our own wellbeing. Take it easy and look forward to hear from you again soon! Xx

Sorry @Northernsoul90 just seen your message where you said you aren’t using OPK this month - ignore my initial message asking about if you’ve started CBD durrrrh silly me. I would love this month not to use OPK as I just feel like that’s what we need to do to get TTC out of the fore of everything. But I’m just mega conscious that I can’t really call my cycle these days post MC so I do need them for reassurance re my FW. Arrr show knows what’s best ha!

My papers from the gynae appt say not to have sex around FW only...so we are just taking a mega chilled approach from this month and getting back to our old selves again which feels lovely!

Hope you ladies are coping well xxxxx

@MinnieMouse4 I absolutely love this. Thank you for sharing. Good luck to everyone this month xo

Thanks @MinnieMouse4. I like the post that our someday will hopefully come soon. 🤞

@2020wish hope you are ok, sounds like you have had a tough time. Hope you are able to rest up.

@VP91x sorry - I’m slow on the catching up today - sorry it was a negative this morning. Hopefully it is just a bit early..I have my fingers crossed for you xx