🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 4 🦕

[Annny27]

Hi everyone,

Setting up the new thread for us - we have come a long way since January and sadly a few of us are still on the "journey". Let's hope we arent here for much longer. Wishing us all baby dust (although its been so long I am not sure dust will do it for me - maybe will have to up the particle size to "baby sand" )

Ttc ladies:
@Fizzl
@Nuggetlover27
@ELM7
@Ljm0101
@Abi0795
@Babyghirl

And our recent bfps who i know like to check in :)
@Leok83
@scrumdiddly123
@SunnySideUp2020

@Annny27 so sorry for your bfn. I feel the exact same way. I just want a baby so bad and I keep asking why me ? Why can't I have one 😭
It's no consolation but at least we can eat what we want over Xmas. I think my next ov will be between Xmas and new year but feeling so negative at the moment about it all 🙁
Sending love ❤️

@Fizzl I hope your scan went well today?

@Nuggetlover27 everything went well thank you 💛 sonographer said everything looked as it should, which is reassuring. It still feels so surreal though! I've also googled my nt measurement since I've been home, assuming it would be totally normal as nothing was mentioned and it's strangely on the high side at 2.6mm! Something else for me to worry about for a while 🤦🏼‍♀️

Sorry to read you're all having a tough time 🙁😔 I really hope you all get your BFP soon! 🌈

Sending hugs @Annny27
💕

One of my close friends found out she was 16 weeks pregnant at her 12 week scan this year. I had said to her that her symptoms and the fact she got a positive test well before her period was due didn’t seem right. But she said no I 100% had a period the other week it wasn’t spotting it was a heavy period lasted her normal length of time only thing was her boobs staying swollen after it finished. So each month I have this in my head even when my period arrives 🙈

@Babyghirl glad your first day back has been positive x

@Annny27
Sorry your feeling low its tough to be on the ttc journey for so long and after what we been through 💚💚💚
@fizzl
Glad the scam went well hopefully we will be joining ya soon 💚💚
@27DONFIN
Was good to be bck but feel like I have never been off nw 😂😂😂😂😂😂 so just to keep positive now while ttc how you keeping 💚💚

Thanks girls 💗 you know me, I am always depressed and in sorrow when she arrives but I always manage to perk myself up :p @SunnySideUp2020 💗

@27DONFIN omg I'll be prodding my boob after my period arrives now just incase its happening to me too 🤣 also my cousin didn't get a positive test untill 3 weeks after her period was due (and the baby scan dates matched up to her ovulation date) its just the tests didnt show it! So thats on my mind too haha

@fizzl so glad everything went okay! I would also be googling but if they didn't flag it then it isnt an issue :) tbh I would be getting the nipt thing (however you spell it) - the money (if it isn't an issue for you) would be 100% the peace of mind xxx

@Nuggetlover27 its rubbish isnt it! The more and more I read about 2% morphology, the more and more I think we will need Intervention :/ xxx

@babyghirl cross posted - yep its a journey of highs and lows for sure!!

Thanks everyone 🥰

@Annny27 I think I will do nipt. Just got to convince my husband who thinks I'm worrying over nothing 😂 (hopefully he's right!). I've just realised I put my measurement as 2.6 and it was 2.8mm 🤦🏼‍♀️ but yeah I'm trying to take some comfort in the fact that nothing at all was mentioned about it.

Yep you probably are worrying over nothing but its good to check just incase :D @fizzl

P.s this is for us @nuggetlover27 @babyghirl @27DONFIN no Christmas miracle in my womb but maybe a new year miracle instead 💗

@Annny27
Love that saying but here's to the 2021 miracles for us ladies 💚🍀🙏

@Annny27 @Nuggetlover27@Babyghirl I’m on cycle day 15 so Iv one last chance for the year DTD 4 times in the last 6 days can’t do much more. Partner hands sample in 23rd so won’t have results till the new year. Just going to try relax the rest of the year finish up work on Wednesday and not back till 29th so going to make the most of it.

Is that Af here @Annny27

@Annny27 @27DONFIN @Babyghirl @Nuggetlover27 thinking of you all and praying for those BFPs soon! Xx

@Fizzl glad everything went well with your scan, I'm so so happy for you and really hoping you have a smooth pregnancy! x

@Annny27 💕 hoping and praying for a new year miracle for all us TTC girls. I never ever in a million years even thought I would be in this situation 💔

@27DONFIN 🤞🏻🤞🏻that you get your BFP this month. That would be amazing x

Thanks @scrumdiddly123 💕

Period started late last night so officially onto the next month and goodness knows how many months - month 19 i think 😬😳

@nuggetlover27 100% I also never thought this - I naively thought oh i ovulate every month and I am young(ish). Little did we know:p

@scrumdiddly123 thanks lovely! Are you more than half way now with baby?

@27DONFIN the final chance lets hope you get the last bfp of 2020 in the group :D 🤞🤞🤞🤞

@babyghirl yep 2021 the year our our fertility haha

@Annny27 aw I'm so sorry AF arrived..I know it's a good thing having a long LP but I can definitely see how it builds so much false hope 😔 Hoping next year is a better year for you and all the rest of the ladies here.xx

@Annny27 yeah I’ll be 24 weeks on Friday! Baby will be viable which feels like a massive milestone! Sorry AF got you 😖 here’s to 2021 and lots of bfps and rainbow babies 🌈💖

Already think Iv not conceived this month. Tracking all my symptoms Iv noticed that. Day or two after ovulation I get a migraine and so I ovulated Sunday/Monday last night I could feel a migraine coming on woke up this morning snd it’s here ☹️

@27DONFIN
Don't you just hate when you get the same symptoms every month that you always get and have yourself out, but girl your not out yet I'm CD20 had to check my app this morning to c where I am as I'm not keeping track lol its flys in when your not checking to c where you r lol. But reason I think I'm more relaxed is cause last 3 times it had took me 11 months each time to fall pregnant so not counting on it being any sooner this this time around which could prop be a good thing as in not obsessive which could be a good thing to tbh. Good luck for this month girls and here's to all r bfp for 2021 🎉🙏🤞🍀

@Babyghirl I don’t tend to symptom check this early only thing I always record and have for years is my migraines as it helps me see my tiggers. Before ttc I didn’t know when I ovulated tbh so it’s only now I’m noticing a link. X

@27DONFIN
I have give it up as a bad job myself lol I'm just going with it and wat will be will be I'm just hoping 4th time lucky nxt time and I get answers from my fertility specialist app in Jan 🙏🤞🍀💚

Morning ladies :)

I also laugh at how despair and depressed I am the day my period is due 🤣 i am all happy again now but for that one day a month I am a wreck - think its the one day I alloe myself to be truly sad about this infertility journey I think!

@27DONFIN I hate when I spot a sign that means I am probably out :( its more disheartening than AF itself!

@leok83 totally - I wish if it got to 13dpo and there was no chance that it would just give up and start haha! Hope bump is growing well 💗

@babyghirl as much as I try to "relax" and "forget about it" I just csnt haha! Too invested. I need a hobby maybe 🤣

@scrumdiddly123 omg 24 weeks it only seems lile yesterday you posted your bfp! Wow

Oh p.s just called fertility clinic yesterday to ask for DHs repeat SA do hopefully we can see whether the low morphology was a one time thing or a constant issue

@Annny27
Ttc is a hobby in its self I think 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 but I'm just taking the relax approach this time from the start cause of how obsessed I was the last couple of times and the months I fell I relaxed so hoping not getting to ott will help things along quicker this time around well I can dream 😂😂😂😂😂🙏🤞🍀💚

I am having a heavier period than normal. Part of me is wondering whether it was an early chemical considering I was late and then had pregnancy symptoms.

Guess we will never know but atleast I know there's lots of lining in there haha (another worry of mine :p)

@Babyghirl ttc is the worst hobby, I wanted to be done with it in a month but its hung around for years haha