TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 7)

[VP91x]

Hey ladies,
I'm missing loads of testing days, so just let me know your updated days if you have one and I'll make a note xx

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@ManchNic
@Niisa

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@fafi- 17th July
@2020wish- 17th July
@fafi- 18th July
@HE88- 19th July
@Rainbowhope11- 20th July
@GraceG26- 20th July
@HopeForRainbowbaby- 21st July
@Renna- 22nd July (?)
@Diorissimo1985- 26th July
@VP91x- 26th July
@Rb486- 30th July
@Wishingfornumber2- August?
@Northernsoul90- not testing
@Sallyjo27
@bxiiboo
@Pugprincess
@Jazper
@elliew818
@AC2020
@Eli2020
@littletandme
@MichT4
@Banbi
@busby85
@Re6ecc4
@Bellabubble
@Chickoletta
@Lollol86
@Firevie
@Sjk89
@Emsnewmum
@stayinghopeful92x
@chloedancer897
@Lollol86
@MrsK21
@Rebecca1992

Update from me CD20, 3DPO (I think) 🥰.. Nothing going on at the moment, will wait impatiently for the next week xx

@VP91x guess it could be ovulation or implantation or it could just be something else that caused that little bit of bleeding xx try not stress xx you're covered if ovulated 4 days ago and I know you not DTD last couple days but when i got pg in december i didnt DTD for like 4 days before peak and then DTD on day of peak and day after . So you can still be covered if ovulation bleed if you DTD today ? Do it incase ? 😘 sometimes when things are different it's a good sign maybe ? Xxxx I understand the fed up feeling though 😥

@VP91x no such thing as TMI on this thread!
I've read this could also happen if your cervix is irritated. Either way you could try and DTD again today just to make sure you're covered in case you are ovulating?

I hope everyone's having a nice weekend.
I've been a bit quiet on the thread as just taking a little step back from TTC until I know what's happening with my cycle (still no AF for me) and to help my mental health. It was feeling a bit all consuming so I'm hoping my stress levels reduce with a more relaxed approach.
Still quietly cheering everyone on xxx

@renna good luck with testing again, I reckon if you use FMU you'll get a BFP, fingers crossed for you xxx

@VP91x Maybe just dtd today in case? Why are our bodies so confusing 😫 it does sound like implantation but you're right 4dpo is a bit early for that. I would dtd today and hopefully you will be covered 🤞🏼 if you've dtd over the past few days at least you should be fine xx

@MrsK21 I hope your more relaxed approach is working for you and you feel a little less consumed by everything 😊.

I'm still with you in limbo - no af, no ovulation and still getting extremely faint positives (6 weeks post mva tomorrow). Who knows what's going on but I'm really starting to get fed up with the waiting. How long is it now since your mc? Xx

@VP91x u most certainly can Implant on 4dpo! Think of all those ladies that get their BFP on 7dpo! They would have had early implantation. This could be a good sign! I doubt ur ovulating again is u opks where neg! But if it makes u feel better get one last DTD in! And ram up ur Pom juice and cal fleur! My fingers and toes are crossed for u!

@VP91x also the temp drop could very well be showing implantation

@VP91x @2020wish thanks ladies al leave it a day or 2 got a feeling shes on the way dont want to test and it tip me over the edge again twice in one month 😂.trying to just not think about it for now. X

@Renna I don't think that's classed as irregular but I am not to sure just find it strange to go over as never usually happens but with them being here and there doesn't surprise me tbh. X

@VP91x do u think u could have ovulated maybe a day or 2 earlier than u thought and maybe ib...

Just getting ready for work on till 12 so will catch up later tonight xx

@VP91x rooting so hard for a BFP for you! I think what @Renna is saying could be true in that if things are different maybe it's a good thing. Could deffo be IB @2020wish is right about it coinciding with temp drop🤞🏼✨

@2020wish I think cycling is a great idea because it's low impact and doesn't require laying on your back which are the two main things to avoid from like 16 weeks I think. And things that make you insteady on your joints, like rear lunges, because the relaxin hormone can make your joints a bit bendy and pront to injury. So cycling is perfect! If you've not been doing it maybe start at 10-15 mins and build up from there.

@doughnut100 fingers crossed for you! How exciting. I'm sure your DH will be excited, do they know about your test today? Keep us updated.

@MrsK21 I hope you're ok love xx

I feel a bit bad for sharing this because know some of you are struggling ATM but I couldn't resist waiting into tomorrow to test (of course! Impossible when the tests are in the house) and I got a BFP, and a good one at that 🥰

@Fafi Huge congratulations!! Hoping u have a happy and healthy 9 months, where are u in your cycle?

@Rebecca1992 thank you 🥰 I'm 13DPO / CD31 / 4+3

3rd pregnancy since lockdown and hopefully 3rd time lucky 🍀

@fafi Don't feel bad at all! Congratulations!! 🥳 how many dpo are you? That is a strong line! Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months xx

@fafi absolutely don’t feel bad, that is amazing news. Congratulations. Wishing you a healthy 9 months 😘

Aww good luck @fafi !! Another name for the BFP list. Congratulations!! ❤️

@fafi congrats!!!!! Such a good strong line!

@fafi congratulations ! July is definitely bringing many BFPs! Don't feel bad ! We are all here to support each other 🥰 happy and healthy 9 months 😘

@fafi

Awww absolutely amazing news never be sorry for posting such news, we will all get our time! So happy for you!

Wishing you all the best in this pregnancy!

Did you have any symptoms?

Is this your first time teating this cycle?

Congratulations @fafi how are you feeling? Is OH excited? x

@Fafi Congrats! Exactly the same as me 4+3, I've a 26 day cycle.

@Northernsoul90 @lollol86 @pugprincess @2020wish @hopeforrainbowbaby @emsnewmum @SmileyT thank you 🥰

OH is excited but cautious as you might imagine. After last time I didn't feel like I could ever be excited about a positive pregnancy test again but I actually feel kinda calm and excited which is good! Shows no feeling is forever.

Symptoms: occassional CM. Soreish boobs but it comes and goes. Very light pulling sensation in womb but very faint and occasional weird pokey sensation down below! But nothing extreme really.

@Rebecca1992 so excited that were exactly the same day! I'm praying we both have a healthy PG!

@fafi @Rebecca1992 ahh how lovely for you both!! So exciting! 🥰

Aw congratulations @fafi xxxxx

@2020wish thank you for your kind words. I have been a total mess but now honestly I've come through it feeling tough as old boots. I'm fully expecting to have another loss and I'm just gonna put on my big girl sanitary pad and get on with it 😂, nbd.

Glad you are enjoying the easy@home tests, they are so great because stark white really is stark white, no staring at indents. And congratulaaaaaaaaations for your BFP! Good for you being restrained with the testing.

@VP91x try not to worry about your little bleed. After losses the cervix can be slightly more sensitive and you can have spotting when you didn't before. I've had it twice after/during ovulation after a loss.

@fafi congratulations for your BFP!! Don't apologise it's lovely. Great line, fingers crossed for you. And thank you, yes DP will come around and he knows about the test, he's just worried with money problems and scared of loss/fatherhood which is all fair enough!

@fafi yesss!!! Congratulations! So happy for you. Fingers crossed for a sticky bean and a happy and healthy 9 months!

3rd since lockdown, wow! Sorry to forget, is this your first cycle post MC?

@VP91x I really hope this is early implantation for you. If not it could be so many things. If you usually get ovulation spotting it could have just taken a while. It will be interesting to see what your temp does xx