TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 7)

[VP91x]

Hey ladies,
I'm missing loads of testing days, so just let me know your updated days if you have one and I'll make a note xx

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@ManchNic
@Niisa

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@fafi- 17th July
@2020wish- 17th July
@fafi- 18th July
@HE88- 19th July
@Rainbowhope11- 20th July
@GraceG26- 20th July
@HopeForRainbowbaby- 21st July
@Renna- 22nd July (?)
@Diorissimo1985- 26th July
@VP91x- 26th July
@Rb486- 30th July
@Wishingfornumber2- August?
@Northernsoul90- not testing
@Sallyjo27
@bxiiboo
@Pugprincess
@Jazper
@elliew818
@AC2020
@Eli2020
@littletandme
@MichT4
@Banbi
@busby85
@Re6ecc4
@Bellabubble
@Chickoletta
@Lollol86
@Firevie
@Sjk89
@Emsnewmum
@stayinghopeful92x
@chloedancer897
@Lollol86
@MrsK21
@Rebecca1992

Update from me CD20, 3DPO (I think) 🥰.. Nothing going on at the moment, will wait impatiently for the next week xx

@Mommybear05 snap!! First one ☝️ I had a blank circle yesterday though and this today. Anyone else had that? I didn’t take any last week. Have just taken on yday and one today. Xx

@2020wish congratulations 🥰

@VP91x my OPK is lighter this morning which I am oddly happy about. I think endless high but not peak was making me wonder what was going on. Hopefully now this is a clear out of hormones and I can actually see progress if and when it gets darker to peak.

@MichT4 weird to say this, but yay. Glad that you'll be able to see a clear peak now 🥰. Xx

@fafi @MichT4 thank you xx

@SmileyT Thank you so much, I will def try again on Tuesday, or maybe even later if I can bear it 😬xx

@VP91x I mean I don't know if it is a good thing. But I think seeing days of OPKs that high would have driven me mad. Disappointed I didn't have a super speedy ovulation but I don't think I ever expected to xx

@MichT4 I know your pg test was negative but there might have been a tiny bit of residual hormones making it stay dark. Counting on from the first day of your proper bleed you will hopefully see ovulation around the same time. Xx

@VP91x ugh feels so long away 😂
Let's hope it's sooner, back to the months before last when I didn't have the second surge 🤞🏼

Morning ladies hope everyone's doing well.

@2020wish we got her from an exotic pet shop shes so cute. Hoping ur keeping ok and please don't stress urself out. I know its easier said than done but really doesn't help maybe try set ur self little goal like af day test then 1 week after test digi then maybe book an early scan for 2 weeks later and try keep ur self busy in-between.

@Renna how many days late are u if u don't mind me asking. X

@VP91x
Yeah she spikes up when u lift her shes not jaggy tho more like a hairbrush feeling 😂. Feel like those adds get u at the worst time out of nowhere 🤦‍♀️ wee bella 😂 already demanding her own bathroom 😂😂. X

so after my breakdown on Wednesday and Thursday after negative test 12 dpo( maybe not to sure as not tracking this time around expect on apps) and trip to epu for basic bloods for lupus af has decided to no show 🤔.

I am never late sometimes early after last miscarriage in early January first cycle was 28 28 then 26 24 then to 27 the last 2 months was always 28 before then. Woke up last night with serious cramp expecting to see af but nothing 🤔. Flo has me down for due on Friday and period tracker has me due on Thursday but even if it was back to normal 28 should have been here yesterday 🤔. As if I haven't had enough of a shite week af decides to make it worse typical 🙄 x

@Hayley19835 yes maybe do a test then contact ur doctor, hope you get to the bottom of it x

@Rebecca1992 I’m back to work tomorrow so going to not test tomorrow and maybe test again when af is due with a clear blue weeks indicator. And then maybe one of them a week until I get 3+. Epu will take me in for an early 6 weeks scan so going to ring and book that when I’m 5 weeks and then maybe book a private one for around 8/9 weeks if epu don’t offer me one. My symptoms have came on strong today: feeling so nauseated and stronger pulling pains lower tummy so just going to relax and enjoy this blessing.

@Doughnut100 so sorry for such an awful time you have had of it. I’ve just starting using the easy at home tests this cycle and I’ve been impressed. They have progressed nicely from stark white to a clear line so hoping those lines are indeed a BFP! Good luck for tomorrow. Sorry dh isn’t onboard atm. Is it cause he is worried?

@SmileyT yes think I will get the indoor bike and start of very light

@MichT4 yes I know your right. I’m only going to test when af is due and then once a week until I get my 3+ . Hope you enjoyed ur lie in

@Pugprincess yes I believe u can still ovulate with low amounts of hcg still in ur system. So I would DTD like you have planned just to keep urself covered

@Rb486 congrats on ur static!! Happy DTD day!

@Dipsy77 thank you

@Stayinghopeful92x she’s so cute!!! I’d love one! So annoying for you. Do the apps have it down for Thursday/Friday coming? Or past?

@2020wish

Thats sound like a good plan and if u keep busy between it will fly past for u 🤞.

I never even knew u could get them as a pet till oh said I was like oh no we are going to end up with another pet but she's is lovely 😊.
Has me fown for thu/Friday past so on one app I am 3 days late and on the other 2. But tested on Wednesday and was a every clear negative. So maybe I have just stressed to much this week about everything and now its coming later 🤔. X

@Stayinghopeful92x wed was still before AF was due according to ur apps. So I would test again. 2 things can happen.1 ur pregnant yay! 2. All the worry ur putting on urself is holding ur af up and testing and getting a bfn (although sad) will help you maybe relax and allow ur af to come and ur cycle to sort itself out. Best of luck whatever you end up doing xx

@2020wish That's a great plan! I've booked a private 6+ week scan but I've a doc app Wednesday to confirm pregnancy, like u I'm hoping they offer me an early scan in the EPU as well.

I booked the private one just to ease my mind and also see how things are going, I'm a twin with lots on either side of mine and OH side, I've a gut feeling since last week that I'm carrying more than 1...maybe I'm mad!🤯

@Stayinghopeful92x well my femometer app which is usually pretty accurate had me due AF Friday just gone . So if it doesnt arrive today which theres no signs of it .. then its 3 days late today . I'm CD31 today.

I'm the same as you post MC I've had shorter cycles. Post MC my cycle lengths been 28 26 27 28 and now this cycle I'm on day 31 😓🤷‍♀️😥 does this class as irregular cycles? 🤷‍♀️ feel like I want to start getting tests done . Feel like I need to do it privately as feel like GP not so good. Wouldnt even know what to ask for if I called docs. An appointment to talk about fertility... my periods never been this late and got a BFN ... 😥🤷‍♀️ xx I also feel ya on the shite week. Xx sending hugs

@Stayinghopeful92x haha yeah, think she will soon be demanding her own seperate house at this rate 😂

I'm sorry you're having a rubbish week, I would definitely test again and if it is unfortunately negative then it is probably the underlying stress of everything delaying AF a bit. It's so frustrating.

@Renna I hope you get a different result tomorrow with strong fmu ❤️

@Rebecca1992 hope appt goes well Wednesday and they offer you an early scan too. If/when I get my BFP I'm going to ask my GP for one too! Otherwise I'll book privately like you. Have you been having certain symptoms to maybe indicate multiples? Xx

@VP91x Our minds go crazy dont they so we all need early scans to give hope to actually enjoy the pregnancy!

I've just a nagging feeling since 6dpo before I even found out I was pregnant and then getting BFPs from 8dpo (to me that's so early) also extremely bloated since 10dpo, back aches and toilet runs every hour!😪 my boobs are very sensitive the last 2 days...I've never had symptoms on my other 2 pregnancies of any sort! The tiredness I'm getting this time round is cruel! I never ever nap during the day and I've been napping any day I'm not working!

@Rebecca1992 would be amazing if it was twins!! The tiredness is awful though when you are PG, I can imagine even more so when you have other children too. Xx

@VP91x I'm absolutely wrecked! I wont get my Hope's up on twins, 1 healthy happy baby is more than enough to ask for!🥰

Ladies, sorry TMI pic but, just got this. I was feeling super twingy the last couple of hours on my right. Now I'm stressed, what if I'm ovulating today.. We haven't DTD for two days as thought I had, but just done an OPK and they are light.

Or, start of spotting..
Or, who knows. I'm just feeling a bit fed up now! 😩

@vp91x
Do you think it could possibly be implantation bleeding? How many days post ovulation are you?

I'm not much help sorry as I've never had implantation bleeding! Is it wrong I've always wanted it? Just to know I was pregnant and that it dug in!

Really hope this is good news for you xx

Only just seen the thread today and I can't scroll back through everything 😂 hope everyone is okay today! Welcome to anyone new joining and sorry for your losses.

@VP91x How many dpo are you? Is there a chance it could be implantation related? X

@Emsnewmum @Northernsoul90 no, I'm only 4dpo so deffo not IB. I've only ever had this prior to ovulation, in the last two cycles, not after. Maybe it is still an ovu bleed but coming later? Or I didn't ovulate and I'm going again😩 but temps seem to think I have ov'd. I'm so confused. Xx

@VP91x your 4dpo today aren't u? Looks a lot like implantation x