TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 7)

[VP91x]

Hey ladies,
I'm missing loads of testing days, so just let me know your updated days if you have one and I'll make a note xx

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@ManchNic
@Niisa

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@fafi- 17th July
@2020wish- 17th July
@fafi- 18th July
@HE88- 19th July
@Rainbowhope11- 20th July
@GraceG26- 20th July
@HopeForRainbowbaby- 21st July
@Renna- 22nd July (?)
@Diorissimo1985- 26th July
@VP91x- 26th July
@Rb486- 30th July
@Wishingfornumber2- August?
@Northernsoul90- not testing
@Sallyjo27
@bxiiboo
@Pugprincess
@Jazper
@elliew818
@AC2020
@Eli2020
@littletandme
@MichT4
@Banbi
@busby85
@Re6ecc4
@Bellabubble
@Chickoletta
@Lollol86
@Firevie
@Sjk89
@Emsnewmum
@stayinghopeful92x
@chloedancer897
@Lollol86
@MrsK21
@Rebecca1992

Update from me CD20, 3DPO (I think) 🥰.. Nothing going on at the moment, will wait impatiently for the next week xx

@HE88 yup that's a name for her haha @2020wish we just try not let her win and dont let her know if anything she tries to do to affect us bothered Us. Getting a court order is the best thing. When I met DH it was a mess I helped him go to court and sort it, handy I work in the legal industry, and at least you always have that court order to rely on to get set time with them but as soon as anything like covid happens or other stuff she can use she will. But yes sounds so similar to us too ! My DH was the one who did everything for him when he was a baby whilst she went out partying etc even after they broke up. But shes playing happy families now with her new bloke, making step son call him dad. Yes thankfully few more years and hopefully we wont have to deal with her much more xxx

@SmileyT it does indeed mean I am off for the holidays! I have made oh take a week off in fertile week too as that was the only thing different the last time we fell pg - he was working over Christmas, but from home and they had barely scheduled him any work - so he was super chilled in early Jan! I know he isn’t chilled now as he is muttering in his sleep and walking about at night again! How are you feeling? xx

@VP91x thank you for the new thread :) I’m not sure when I’ll test - think I may just not opk at all this month - although I jad a shorter cycle this month so maybe I should! Think we’ll casually start dtd cd11 - as I got my lh peak cd13 last cycle. Hopefully this is a gokd month for us all 🤞🏻🤞🏻 Love that you got some fish today! I ordered hay from the hay box club and this was my boys this morn..I gave them a huuuuuge amount last night too..they look like Oliver Twist asking for more!! xx

@Lollol86 I sympathise with the thinking where you would be right now - I have a friend who is 2 weeks ahead of where I should have been (we were ao excited to be bump buddies!) and I should have had my last day at school for a while as of yesterday. It’s crazy how much time has passed - it has made me realise how I probably have been quite stressed ttc wise, as I feel now like I have wished time away!

Hello ladies, hope everyone is having a good weekend so far?

Definitely a chemical this month, AF has arrived in full flow today. Looking forward to my vitamin supplements being delivered in a few days and I've even got my grapefruit juice ready for a weeks time since I went to Asda today.

Hoping two weeks is enough time to try and get my progesterone back to normal levels so we can have a good shot next month!

Should be able to test around 11-13/8 next month if my cycle plays ball.

@littletandme so sorry to hear AF arrived :( sorry so asking again. My brain power hasn’t been the best lately with taking breaks from the forum.. but how far did you get with the chemical before af came? I hope next month is ur month x

@2020wish huge congratulations to you!! Fingers crossed for an extra sticky bean for you xx

@2020wish have had a bad few days. Been bleeding for the past 4 days even though I had normal AF at the right time, right over FW too so that's me out this month as have managed to DTD once before this all started. Never had mid cycle bleeding before just want to catch a break 😫 x

@Bellabubble thank you 🙏🏻

@Hayley19835 aw no :( how strange. Have you tested or anything?

@2020wish I had faint positives from 10-13dpo. But after 11dpo they didn't get any stronger and my temp wasn't rising either, whereas in both my previous pregnancies it had shot up well above any "non pregnant" temps I had before.

@littletandme very similar to my chemical in may. So nervous this time around

@SmileyT yeah definitely get it, it's so handy I think! Also check out birth_ed on insta, all about the positivity on there so much balanced amazing info xx

@Stayinghopeful92x oh my god!! Look at that cutie 🥰🥰 does he ever go spiky when you hold him? We are getting a Belgian Malinois - he will be a working dog xx

@Bellabubble 😂😂😂 they are so funny, my bunnies have been doing the same. Coco always steals carrots from Milo too and it's hilarious to watch. She's the naughty one! Yeah, we had two so got a couple more to join in the fun. That sounds like a good relaxed plan for next month. Hopefully it is a lucky month!

@littletandme oh no, I'm so sorry it was a chemical this month 😔. Hope you are okay xx

@Hayley19835 ahh, have you contacted your GP? Or tested? That doesn't seem quite right xx

@Renna sorry that your stepsons mum is being such a cow, so bad when people do that and put the kids in the middle of it all. She will never be reasonable probably. Good luck for when you do test, sounds positive so far if AF hasn't arrived ❤️

@VP91x thanks for the new thread.

I hope it's ok for me to stick around to hear ye all get your BFPs, I've gotten further than last time 3 days late on AF and still testing positive for pregnancy, I've booked an early 6+ week scan for august 5th.

Symptoms are some serious bloating and boobs started to get sore this morning. Lots of CM (TMI) 😊

Where is everyone else at in their cycles??

@VP91x thank you 😘

@Rebecca1992 of course, please don't leave🥰 great news that all is going okay. Exciting that you are having an early scan, not long to go. I'm 3dpo I think, wishing the days away 👀 x

@VP91x I hope it fits by for you, I'm wishing yous all the best of luck with rainbow babies this month!❤🌈

*flys

Guys, what apps are you using to read your OPKs?

@2020wish when did you start aspirin in your cycle? I'm just going to try it. I'm trying everything this month!

@Rebecca1992 yay so happy your further along!! How many dpo does 3 days late bring u? And how many dpo did u find out again?

Evening all, sorry been quiet, had a long nap this aft and then took dog out and not long had dinner 😳

I was just wondering from reading your messages what tests are good to test early with? I don’t fancy spending loads on the clear blue type brands if testing daily x

Little update from me ladies - Roka dinner was delicious! Walk down memory lane, good music, dinner on balcony and lots of wine from our honeymoon in South Africa couple of years ago, lol! We have got to enjoy ourselves right?! Hope you’re all having a great Saturday evening! Xxx

@Firevie that’s sounds amazing, so glad you have had a lovely evening.

@Renna I'm just the same as you - a day or 2 late but don't wanna jinx it and test too early. I'm trying to hold out until Monday or Tuesday.

I think I've ovulated on CD11 before! I've drunk a fair bit during my TWW tbh - I was like ah well might be hopefully last time for a while.

Sorry to hear what you have to go through with your DH ex! Sounds like a nightmare.

@Firevie your evening sounds so dreamy!! ✨

@Pugprincess easy@home 10miu I’ve been using on amazon and then clear blue 6 days early

@Firevie sounds amazing. Glad you had a good sat night

@2020wish thanks ❤️

I know it’s tmi but we just DTD and I cried straight after 😪 just emotional I think as last time we did it I was preg still and obviously the thought of having to try again is sad. Now it’s technically Sunday so I’m cycle day 11 since day 1 of mc full flow bleeding. I used to ovulate around day 14. Think we will get another in tomorrow. Can’t see it’s worth using the opk at this point as I still had a faint faint line on preg fest this morn so that’s going to give me false results. Going to be interesting to see how on earth this cycle pans out length wise 🤔 xx

@2020wish just ordered the easy as home tests 🙂