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TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 7)

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VP91x · 18/07/2020 09:33

Hey ladies,
I'm missing loads of testing days, so just let me know your updated days if you have one and I'll make a note xx

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@ManchNic
@Niisa


@fafi- 17th July
@2020wish- 17th July
@fafi- 18th July
@HE88- 19th July
@Rainbowhope11- 20th July
@GraceG26- 20th July
@HopeForRainbowbaby- 21st July
@Renna- 22nd July (?)
@Diorissimo1985- 26th July
@VP91x- 26th July
@Rb486- 30th July
@Wishingfornumber2- August?
@Northernsoul90- not testing
@Sallyjo27
@bxiiboo
@Pugprincess
@Jazper
@elliew818
@AC2020
@Eli2020
@littletandme
@MichT4
@Banbi
@busby85
@Re6ecc4
@Bellabubble
@Chickoletta
@Lollol86
@Firevie
@Sjk89
@Emsnewmum
@stayinghopeful92x
@chloedancer897
@Lollol86
@MrsK21
@Rebecca1992

Update from me CD20, 3DPO (I think) 🥰.. Nothing going on at the moment, will wait impatiently for the next week xx

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MichT4 · 18/07/2020 14:54

@VP91x exactly, I think I need to give that smug face a chance. This month it would be up against it 😂 I'll use it next month, and hope that it's more wasted money when I don't need them!

Don't worry about the mixed messages, it is tricky when you're out. Just whip it off as soon as you can. Also, I guess encourage her to tell you when she needs to go and if she has a dry nappy when you get home, she deserves a little treat.

@Northernsoul90 yeah I'll stick with OPKs and just see what happens. I think that and DTD every other day is all we can really do in this unknown situation.
Am actually also looking forward to my blood tests so whichever happens I feel quite relaxed this month I think

How are you today? xx

MichT4 · 18/07/2020 14:55

Blinkin app posted it twice. It lied when it said it had failed to post. I can't trust it, much like OPKs 😂

Renna · 18/07/2020 15:12

@Hayleylou89 yeah I wouldnt recommend selling on Ebay or if you do use the royal mail special delivery which insures you for more xx AF hasn't shown yet ... I'm CD30 ... fememomter says was due yesterday. As it came CD29 last month . But since MC it seems to be coming a day late each month sometimes . So kinda waiting out to see if she comes today.
I'm just too scared to test if I'm honest . Even though AF is technically late I'm just convincing myself I'm not pg as I ddint get a peak opk but then i keep having these positive moments of hope like it could be .... I just cant bring myself to do a test I dunno why. I'm just scared. I think its because I'm like even though AF is late my cycle may be screwed up this month for some reason as I didnt get a peak OPK... so maybe I'm having like a weird long cycle or something.
If no AF in couple days I'll test !
@VP91x thank you for new thread xx
@2020wish aw amazing xxx you are damn good at falling pregnant that's for sure really hope this one is a sticky bean for you and I'm positive it is xxx so very deserved xxxx

HopeForRainbowbaby · 18/07/2020 15:30

Ladies I have ordered this calc Fluor. How are you taking it ?

2020wish · 18/07/2020 15:48

@Renna oh fingers crossed it doesn’t come and you test and get a BFP!!!! Have you not tested at all? You have such willpower. I know something definitely happening that I’m catching most months just do hope this is my lucky month. Thank you x

Northernsoul90 · 18/07/2020 16:03

@MichT4 Glad you are feeling relaxed, it's so hard not to overthink it all and control what's happening for me but really there's nothing we can do other than wait. I'm good thank you, did another test this morning and it had the faintest line that could barely be seen, I think if I wasn't so used to staring at tests by now I would have said it was negative. I'm determined to keep doing them until I get a pure white one though just for my own peace of mind!

Renna · 18/07/2020 16:07

@2020wish no not tested at all. Xx xx fingers crossed for you 😘🤞 xxx

VP91x · 18/07/2020 16:14

@MichT4 yeah on Monday when we go to the wildlife park, I will definitely take her without a nappy because you're in one place for a while, but today where we have been in and out of the car it would have been a faff.

So, I definitely didn't just go to Pets At Home and get two more fish 👀👀 going to end up with my own wildlife park 😂

Yeah, need to give them a chance. I hope you can just return the box and never need them xx

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VP91x · 18/07/2020 16:30

@HopeForRainbowbaby I take four a day 🥰 two in the morning and two in the evening xx

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DBTJ · 18/07/2020 16:30

@2020wish congratulations we sure are twinning.

Mc Mc Nothing(Which I was confused at) now bfp. I dont no about you but a part of me is happy I had a period as now when I'm asked I can actually give a date of a period rather than a mc.

Are u taking aspirin

2020wish · 18/07/2020 16:36

@HopeForRainbowbaby I take 2 in morning and 2 in the evening

@DBTJ twins!! Lol when did you get ur BFP again and how many dpo are u now? Yes I’m taking aspirin, are you?

2020wish · 18/07/2020 16:38

@DBTJ and yes I feel the month break in between has gave my body a chance to heal and get back on track

Stayinghopeful92x · 18/07/2020 17:40

@VP91x am good thanks how are u. Your wee stories about Bella keep me going 😂. My sister started using pants over the nappy when going long shopping trips my niece finally caught on pants mean to ask which resulted in a dry nappy most time..could be worth a shot. Also like a zoo in my house 😂 as both oh and myself love animals said last year no more but got surprised with a pgymy albino hedgehog recently 😂 cutest thing ever 😂😂 already have 2 rottweilers a jack Russell guinea pig and fish 🤦‍♀️ no more now definitely!

Hows everyone else getting on anyone testing soon ? X

VP91x · 18/07/2020 17:55

@Stayinghopeful92x glad you're okay! Yeah I'm alright thank you, just plodding on through this next week - must keep occupied. Ooh that's a good tip, thank you! Haha yeah, she's a little character.

Oh so cute!! What are they like to have as a pet? Three dogs 🙈 must keep you busy!! We have ours arriving in a few weeks! I used to have a jack russell such cute pups xx

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DBTJ · 18/07/2020 18:07

@2020wish I was shocked when you said you were bleeding and this was your 1st period as by then we both had mc same month and then in June we were both bleeding making it our 1st period. I had a faint line when I was 10dpo it has since progressed however previously I only got a faint by 12dpo so might have got my dates mixed. I got a postive opk on 30th so started counting dpo no idea if this is correct. I'm now 18dpo

How about you

DBTJ · 18/07/2020 18:09

@2020wish yes I'm taking seven seas ,aspirin ,vic E ,largine only started taking vic d recently

HopeForRainbowbaby · 18/07/2020 18:15

@2020wish @VP91x thank you ladies. Duly noted;) I will take the same 👍

2020wish · 18/07/2020 18:24

@DBTJ aw I hope this is it for both of us! I got my faint BFP at 7/8dpo on a clear blue early response this time. I’m not 9/10dpo. And they have been progressing over these three days. My app is telling me I’m 10dpo meaning I ovulated on the 8th of this month, CD16 but that was the day I got my peak opk so I’m unsure if I ovulated that day or the day after. My last pregnancy I got my first faint BFP at 9/10dpo and positive digital at 11dpo (it ended in a chemical at 14dpo) And the one before that I got it at 14dpo and carried to nearly 7weeks. So I just Think every pregnancy is different. Are you still testing? I might test every day until my af is due and in that day do a digital and then leave it at that... unsure tho. So nervous

2020wish · 18/07/2020 18:25

@DBTJ also what symptoms are you getting now?

@HopeForRainbowbaby no problem :) x

DBTJ · 18/07/2020 18:34

@2020wish so exciting funny enough with last pregnancy the opk was really bright but this one has been a slow creeper even though it showed alot earlier than the others. I did my last opk on the 14th I've decided not to test anymore as I feel if the line is not dark I will panic and I want to try and stay as stressfree as possible. I'm meeting with some friends today thankfully as I'm on antibiotics i have an excuse for no drinking.

My boobs felt heavier which I had in the previous 2, however this time around im alot more tired and get exhausted quickly. Not sure if pregnancy related or other health issues.

How about you.

SmileyT · 18/07/2020 18:42

@MichT4 well the dreams of working out are well and truly passed, I fell back to sleep for another 3hrs... think the busy week at work caught up with me 🙈 and training wise, I've been so rubbish since lockdown/ MC as I hate working out at home, I've only got 4kg weights, a pull up bar and a couple of bands but really want to get into a routine of moving more. I love strength work but I normally bench like 40kg and deadlift 100kg so the 4kg really isn't do much for me 😂 and cardio wise I'm normally found on a rowing machines and they are bloody expensive to buy for home. You must be motivated with a PT at home, I've actually got my qualification but never used it. Also the app always says failed to post but I have to click out and check most of the time it actually has, no idea why it does that x

@2020wish don't think I'm at hook affect her but yeah think because the FRER is sensitive the dye stealing happens early these were my pics from a week after period was due, so time to stop 👌🏾 is your OH excited? X

@VP91x I think the calc and Pom juice will do you perfectly and yay to additions to your wildlife sanctuary at home x

@Renna how have you been feeling? Any pre-AF cramps or anything... really hoping you get a surprise BFP x

TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 7)
VP91x · 18/07/2020 18:55

@SmileyT you are most definitely pregnant with those lines 😍😍😍

Have you checked out results with Lucy? They have a whole prenatal package with loads of workouts per trimester and great info from midwives etc about pregnancy in general. They have a 30 day free trial atm! Results with Bump - it's really good and then you can also access the general fitness workouts too xx

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HE88 · 18/07/2020 18:55

Thanks for the new thread @VP91x.

Congrats to those that have got a bfp over the last few days and sorry to those that have had a bfn or af has came.

Currently still waiting on af to arrive due on tomorrow.

2020wish · 18/07/2020 18:57

@DBTJ do you pregnancy tests and not opks? Lol think I’m going to test a few more days and then stop. I’ve been so tired, I’m counting down the hours to bedtime now... I would actually be in bed only my daughter isn’t having it lol sore heads, pains in my groin and thighs. When’s ur due date? How u joined a pregnancy forum?

@SmileyT oh wow that is a good dye stealer lol yes I think you have done all ur testing and now time to relax and enjoy lol so happy for u

2020wish · 18/07/2020 18:58

@HE88 did u test today?