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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 7)

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VP91x · 18/07/2020 09:33

Hey ladies,
I'm missing loads of testing days, so just let me know your updated days if you have one and I'll make a note xx

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@ManchNic
@Niisa


@fafi- 17th July
@2020wish- 17th July
@fafi- 18th July
@HE88- 19th July
@Rainbowhope11- 20th July
@GraceG26- 20th July
@HopeForRainbowbaby- 21st July
@Renna- 22nd July (?)
@Diorissimo1985- 26th July
@VP91x- 26th July
@Rb486- 30th July
@Wishingfornumber2- August?
@Northernsoul90- not testing
@Sallyjo27
@bxiiboo
@Pugprincess
@Jazper
@elliew818
@AC2020
@Eli2020
@littletandme
@MichT4
@Banbi
@busby85
@Re6ecc4
@Bellabubble
@Chickoletta
@Lollol86
@Firevie
@Sjk89
@Emsnewmum
@stayinghopeful92x
@chloedancer897
@Lollol86
@MrsK21
@Rebecca1992

Update from me CD20, 3DPO (I think) 🥰.. Nothing going on at the moment, will wait impatiently for the next week xx

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VP91x · 23/07/2020 07:06

@Northernsoul90 oh amazing!! You didn't get hounded by the flashies! 🥰🥰 Definitely jump on OH again when he gets home xx

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MichT4 · 23/07/2020 07:09

@renna sorry about the house. We moved into a new build last year and had the same things with delays. I hope your mortgage is ok, I'm sure it will be fine. Maybe it's just a nice coincidence that your hope for house and baby in the same year is still going to be the case as you hoped for for this year.

@Rainbowhope11 do you think you flash of red could have been ovulation spotting? I've never had it so not sure what it might look like, but a possibility? Did you kick the dog off?

@Northernsoul90 yay to your static. You waited so long for the negative but had such a nice quick peak! Hooray!!

@2020wish very high hcg - could be more than one in there! Definitely put the tests down now, try and relax until you see EPU or the doc

@VP91x I hope the spotting stays away for you. Not long at all now until you can test. I hope you are feeling more positive again today

xx

2020wish · 23/07/2020 07:09

@Northernsoul90 thank you. I’m taking every little milestone. Oh yea u will def be covered! The two days before are most important so just jump him tonight lol

SmileyT · 23/07/2020 07:18

@VP91x well it's a good sign spotting has stayed away and temp has stayed above cover line but definitely still speak to the Drs to put your mind at ease, I'm sure it's all nothing to worry about x

@Rainbowhope11 I've never taken an opk during period but I did get stronger opks before it arrived although definitely not positive maybe like 40% xx

@2020wish yeah I think that's normal on CB weeks, I didn't do my first CB weeks until 19dpo but it was 2-3weeks then 3+ 5 days later 👌🏾 x

@Northernsoul90 yay to a static smiley 🥳😃🥳

Northernsoul90 · 23/07/2020 08:04

Thank you @VP91x @MichT4 @2020wish @SmileyT I will be doing! Glad we dtd yesterday though because we almost didn't. I'm just glad to know my bodies actually doing something, I'm getting pinching pains on one side as well which is a good sign for me as I always got that prior to mc too.

Hope everyone is well this morning 😊 going to start calc Fluor today and I need to go and get some Pom juice for the next couple of weeks 🤞🏼

VP91x · 23/07/2020 08:13

@SmileyT @MichT4 thank you both, just called the GP and they don't have anything until Tuesday 😩 so that's a bummer.

@Northernsoul90 ah that's great news with extra ovu signs too 🥰🥰 xx

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Northernsoul90 · 23/07/2020 08:17

@VP91x Thats crappy about having to wait, have you booked in for then? Im still hopeful for you for Saturday, I have everything crossed for you lovely 🥰🤞🏼

VP91x · 23/07/2020 08:19

@Northernsoul90 yeah I booked in for then, but I've just had even more spotting so I think it probably is like last month. Xx

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Kitkatb0808 · 23/07/2020 08:30

Just want to say thank you for the messages you ladies are wonderful xx

Kitkatb0808 · 23/07/2020 08:31

6dpo off to wee on a stick my new obsession 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Northernsoul90 · 23/07/2020 09:05

@VP91x At least you're booked in now and can get some answers if that is the case, hope you are feeling okay xxx

MichT4 · 23/07/2020 09:20

Hey @Kitkatb0808 sorry to hear about your twins. My sister is 40 and has just conceived, so I'm sure you haven't missed any boats.
What sticks are you peeing on this morning?

@VP91x how annoying about having to wait until Tuesday. Nice to have something booked in though. How are you feeling?

xx

Rb486 · 23/07/2020 09:34

@Mommybear05 aww it doesn’t matter what age gap there is between them I’m sure whatever age he’ll be so excited for a brother or sister 😊 yeah I know it’s crazy how common it is. Sad ☹️ yeah no I know, I’m expecting it to be about 34-36 days I think. But hopefully will get shorter as it starts to get back to normal or not come at all 😃 are you feeling hopeful for this cycle?

@Renna sorry to hear about your home being pushed back, that’s really frustrating. Like you say after m/c it was still something to look forward too. Hopefully you fall with your rainbow, so you can move in in January before they arrive and everything just fall into place. What a dream 😍 fingers crossed! We did a 5% deposit, I’m sure it will still be available to you in a few months. Don’t stress too much over it! We’re with nationwide and they seem to be quite good with lending.

Hope everyone has a nice day! 😊

Kitkatb0808 · 23/07/2020 09:35

@MichT4
Thanks for your message I was doomed from day one I think 2 yolks one sac mo mo twins very dangerous apparently extremely rare trust me!!
Peeing on first view early pregnancy tests know it’s too early not due af for 8 days but it kind of makes me feel better 😂🤦🏻‍♀️
Anyone else due af on 31st ? I need a test buddy ........

MichT4 · 23/07/2020 09:42

@Kitkatb0808 😂😂 I do admire your acknowledgement for just loving POAS.

Mommybear05 · 23/07/2020 09:45

@Pugprincess I thought so. How are you?? X

Mommybear05 · 23/07/2020 09:47

@Lollol86 it would wouldn’t it??? And if I fall this month then we would find out the gender around Christmas and we would do a gender reveal by having a Christmas stocking with said baby’s name on hung up with our stockings on the fireplace and invite family round to see... not that I’m getting carried away or fantasising or anything 🙈 x

Mommybear05 · 23/07/2020 09:49

@SmileyT aw that’s good to know 😀 it’s so good to have seen that positive ovulation test this month and really know I’ve got a chance! How are you?? Xxx

VP91x · 23/07/2020 09:53

@MichT4 @Northernsoul90 I actually just went to UC in a moment of frustration to see if maybe they'd do bloods or something, but instead they called my surgery and made them see me today. So just waiting for a call, let's see what they say.

How are you today? Xx

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Mommybear05 · 23/07/2020 09:53

@Rb486 hopefully not come at all for you 😃 I darent day I feel hopeful. I’ve had months of this emotional rollercoaster especially spotting before af always thinking it could be implantation when it isn’t. But it’s nice to have seen a positive ovulation test so I’ve got every chance 😃 isn’t it like a 25- 30% chance even when conditions are perfect??? I keep reading that it takes Perfectly ‘healthy’ couples up to a year to conceive and that’s reassuring to see there’s no indication of a problem but it makes me awfully impatient. I’m just trying to enjoy my little one I already have. Been doing lots of self care this month too which has been great. I think that helps. What about you??? Do you ever have a feeling about whether this is your month? Xx

Northernsoul90 · 23/07/2020 09:58

Good luck for this cycle @Kitkatb0808 🤞🏼 I love poas also 😂😂

@VP91x Oh brilliant hopefully they will see you today!! I'm good thank you the weather here is awful today, DH has taken my car and I have my 2 year old nephew to entertain so not sure what we are going to do. I also now really want to go out and buy Pom juice but again no car... shopping isn't as simple is it as nipping in and out now either!

VP91x · 23/07/2020 10:02

@Northernsoul90 yeah, just waiting for their call 🤞

Ah no way! We are lucky we have sun today here. Is it too long a walk for the little one to go the shops? Xx

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Pugprincess · 23/07/2020 10:10

@Mommybear05 I’m urghhh I’m still in the faint positive preg test group 😩😩😩 even with the hosp 25 one. I think I’m going to have to ring them as today’s the date I’m supposed to call if still positive but question will be how positive does it have to be for them to be interested. They might even tell me to wait another week. But il defo call x

MrsK21 · 23/07/2020 10:13

@Northernsoul90 aw amazing on your static smiley this morning! Hopefully not too long of a wait for either BFP or next proper cycle now, though obviously a BFP is preferably :)
I share a car with my DH too and it's so hard now trying to get any small errand done. I'm also babysitting a niece and nephew these next few days, they're definitely keeping me busy!

@VP91x Hope your GP calls you back soon, I'm glad your urgent care centre gave them a kick up the backside. By next Tuesday you'd have known if it was indeed AF anyways!! Hope you get some answers soon and can put your mind at rest xxx

DBTJ · 23/07/2020 10:14

@2020wish have you been to epu with this pregnancy

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