TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 7)

[VP91x]

Hey ladies,
I'm missing loads of testing days, so just let me know your updated days if you have one and I'll make a note xx

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@ManchNic
@Niisa

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@fafi- 17th July
@2020wish- 17th July
@fafi- 18th July
@HE88- 19th July
@Rainbowhope11- 20th July
@GraceG26- 20th July
@HopeForRainbowbaby- 21st July
@Renna- 22nd July (?)
@Diorissimo1985- 26th July
@VP91x- 26th July
@Rb486- 30th July
@Wishingfornumber2- August?
@Northernsoul90- not testing
@Sallyjo27
@bxiiboo
@Pugprincess
@Jazper
@elliew818
@AC2020
@Eli2020
@littletandme
@MichT4
@Banbi
@busby85
@Re6ecc4
@Bellabubble
@Chickoletta
@Lollol86
@Firevie
@Sjk89
@Emsnewmum
@stayinghopeful92x
@chloedancer897
@Lollol86
@MrsK21
@Rebecca1992

Update from me CD20, 3DPO (I think) 🥰.. Nothing going on at the moment, will wait impatiently for the next week xx

@VP91x I would say you are 5 also. Those apps can be hit or miss. Femometer has me at 12dpo but I honestly believe I’m only 11dpo. And ur ovulation dip sets you at 5. But that second dip def looks like implantation dip!! I’ve everything crossed for you!! So exciting

@2020wish something happened yesterday for sure, just a waiting game now which is frustrating 😂, AF is due in a weeks time. Maybe because I have an 11 day LP things happen more quickly? Eek, I'm trying not to get ahead of myself.

Hope work goes well for you, I'm sure they will be supportive ❤️

@VP91x hopefully that’s the case! When do you plan on testing?

I’ve been up from 3:30 fs I start at 7am and finish at 9pm so I’m sure it’s going to be a fun day of exhaustion lol

@2020wish oh my that's such a long day, you work at a hospital don't you? (sorry if I'm completely wrong)

Well, I really need to not start testing from 7dpo 😂😂 (help!) I'm hoping to hold out until Saturday at 10dpo.. Xx

Yea I work in the icu unit. Feel like I’ve forgotten how to be a nurse with all this time off

Less then a week until testing then! I was never good at waiting, 7dpo and i had the testing sticks out and ready to go

@2020wish ICU must be tough to work in, but amazing that you do that 🥰, hope it isn't too tough today.

Honestly, I'm under no illusion that I will probably be doing the same 😂 I can't help myself xx

I have everything crossed for you @VP91x

@2020wish I hope work goes well today and it feels good to be back xx

@MichT4 thank you❤️ how are you this morning xx

@2020wish morning! I'd be interested! I'd heard about a WhatsApp group but I prefer to keep ongoing discussions like that away from there.

I will still stay here too but agree it might be better to move full on PG chat elsewhere but stay together - I don't wanna join a group with randomers ha!

@fafi yea I’m still staying here also but would be good to have the Facebook group. I’ll get one started later tonight and we if the rest of the girls are interested

@VP91x yeah I'm not bad thanks, just got to the office 😴. I'm going to try again to tell my boss today 😂

How are you? Much planned today? xx

@SmileyT @Rebecca1992 @Dipsy77 @ManchNic @hayleylou89 @DBTJ @Niisa @Girlmum83 @Ebj86 @peonyrose87 @Tink20058 @1990EM hey ladies, I hope I've tagged you correctly! @2020wish has suggested setting up a secret Facebook group for pregnancy chat for those with BFPs - are you interested?

@MichT4 ah, I hope you manage to tell him and all goes okay. Yeah, all okay here. Just going to see mum this morning and then wildlife park in the afternoon. Weather is looking lovely! Xx

Aw thanks for lovely message @Mommybear05 xxxx
@2020wish woke up feeling down. Just done a test with the last one I have left a CB early detection and nothing comes up. I still have no AF im CD32 now and AF 4 days late which has never happened to me before . I keep checking my cervix and feels well and truly closed so have no idea what's going on. As it normally feels open a few days before AF comes on . So I'm lost 🤷‍♀️ maybe give it a day or 2 and I'll go to the doctors if still no AF. Just feel so lost. Cant even focus on when I can try next xx

@2020wish good luck with work today xx hope all goes well

@Renna hi, I hope it gives you clarity soon. If no bfp, then AF ASAP! What is your typical cycle length ?
I'm now also waiting for my AF and hoping it to arrive now, so I can start with new cycle as I'm over this one already. I also hope to be pregnant with healthy bean before due date of my first pregnancy ( October).

@HopeForRainbowbaby post MC I've had a 26 27 and 28 day cycle . Even before MC I'd never had a 32 day cycle or longer. Yes same this is what was upsetting me yday too when talking to DH I was saying the baby we lost was due sept and we pretty much have one more chance of getting pg before then really xx is your AF late ? How much and you been testing ? Xx

Damn I have no progression this morning so it's residual hcg. More than 12 weeks past ERPC. What the hell. And I'm going away for two weeks on Friday so I won't even be able to get a scan before I ovulate next, so that's another cycle wiped out. This is mad, how can I have a HyCoSy and she's seen that my tube is blocked but not seen retained products.

@2020wish congratulations for your progression!

@Pugprincess I can relate to what you feel. In my darkest days I'm even jealous of women who have only had one mc. Hugs.

@VP91x I would say 4dpo. FF isn't counting cd17 as ovulation because it doesn't rise above your previous temps until cd18. It's a slow rise so it takes a few days to climb. When I have a slow rise which is most months my O is the second day of the rise. I've attached mine so you can see. I don't temp past confirmation of ovulation as I think it's pointless and just stresses me out!

Damn I have no progression this morning so it's residual hcg. More than 12 weeks past ERPC. What the hell. And I'm going away for two weeks on Friday so I won't even be able to get a scan before I ovulate next, so that's another cycle wiped out. This is mad, how can I have a HyCoSy and she's seen that my tube is blocked but not seen retained products.

@2020wish congratulations for your progression!

@Pugprincess I can relate to what you feel. In my darkest days I'm even jealous of women who have only had one mc. Hugs.

@VP91x I would say 4dpo. FF isn't counting cd17 as ovulation because it doesn't rise above your previous temps until cd18. It's a slow rise so it takes a few days to climb. When I have a slow rise which is most months my O is the second day of the rise. I've attached mine so you can see. I don't temp past confirmation of ovulation as I think it's pointless and just stresses me out!

Damn I have no progression this morning so it's residual hcg. More than 12 weeks past ERPC. What the hell. And I'm going away for two weeks on Friday so I won't even be able to get a scan before I ovulate next, so that's another cycle wiped out. This is mad, how can I have a HyCoSy and she's seen that my tube is blocked but not seen retained products.

@2020wish congratulations for your progression!

@Pugprincess I can relate to what you feel. In my darkest days I'm even jealous of women who have only had one mc. Hugs.

@VP91x I would say 4dpo. FF isn't counting cd17 as ovulation because it doesn't rise above your previous temps until cd18. It's a slow rise so it takes a few days to climb. When I have a slow rise which is most months my O is the second day of the rise. I've attached mine so you can see. I don't temp past confirmation of ovulation as I think it's pointless and just stresses me out!

@2020wish Hope work goes okay for you today ☺️ xx

@Renna Sorry that your cycle is playing up this month it's so unfair as it gets your hopes up, I had cycles like that before mc. I hope you can get some clarity soon and if no bfp af shows up asap... is there any chance you could have ovulated later than you thought?

@Doughnut100 Sorry that you haven't had any progression, 12 weeks is such a long time! Will you contact your GP/hospital to let them know?

@2020wish should you be going in to work? I think they will normally try and sort you something which is not patient facing or more office based. I have to pregnant friends that are nurses and that’s what they’re doing at the moment. I am also a nurse and I had a whole 10 weeks off until m/c as I work on a ward and they had no where else for me to be. They should do a risk assessment 😊 hopefully they’ll sort something you! Hope the first day goes well, you’ll be fine when you get going! It all comes back to you xx

@VP91x yay to temps shooting back up, I'm sure they will stay up now and you'll get your 2 pink lines on Saturday, only 5 sleeps to get through 🤞

@fafi @2020wish ahh I'd love to join a Facebook group but probably after my scan, I'm feeling really positive but also want to wait until I know that things are progressing as just feel a bit too early to be talking pregnancy before the little bean even has a heartbeat (probably a bit of self-preservation).

@Mommybear05 I normally count ovulation as day after peak CB as it's normally within 12-36hours after start of surge so that makes sense. Glad I've spurred you on and your OH has been able to keep up 😉

@Renna ahh I can imagine this is so frustrating, definitely worth talking to your Drs about how it's all making you feel, I think they generally won't investigate a lack of AF for 2-3months but having the conversation will definitely help and they can maybe make some suggestions like bloods etc. I know it doesn't help you now but I had one random 43 day cycle when I was tracking just periods last year, I've been off hormonal contraception for 5years and every year or so I seem to have a longer one, no idea why as don't think I was particularly stressed or anything so could just be a random late ovulation for you. Fingers crossed you get an answer either way soon xx

@Doughnut100 I think our bodies can have a baseline level of hcg so maybe you don't have retained product but just a higher baseline now which is showing a really faint line on sensitive tests, bit crappy though and hope if you speak to the hospital they can give you some answers x

[quote fafi]**@SmileyT* @Rebecca1992* @Dipsy77 @ManchNic @hayleylou89 @DBTJ @Niisa @Girlmum83 @Ebj86 @peonyrose87 @Tink20058 @1990EM hey ladies, I hope I've tagged you correctly! @2020wish has suggested setting up a secret Facebook group for pregnancy chat for those with BFPs - are you interested?
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Hey, I'm sorry I've been so quiet, trying to manage the anxiety but yes I'd definitely be interested in a BFP group with you all xx

@SmileyT That's interesting, I didn't know about the baseline hcg. With that in mind, and for fear that I'm losing the plot staring at tests, I think I can count todays test as negative! 6 weeks after the mva! I can see a hint of something on the test but it's only when I'm turning it in certain lights - it looks more like a shadow/evap line. I bet if I did another test that wasn't sensitive it would show as negative... I might get one? Or am I just wasting my money 🙈

How are you feeling? Hope you are well ☺️

Hopefully I see a peak opk in the next week or two. If nothing has happened within 2 weeks (no af or ovulation) I'm going to contact my doctor I think because that will then be 8 weeks after mc.