TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 6)

[VP91x]

Hi lovelies,

Gorgeous to see some more BFPs!!

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@Chickoletta

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@Jazper
@Sunflower1988 - 8th July
@ManchNic - 11th July
@elliew818 - 11th July
@AC2020 - 11th July
@Eli2020 - 11th July
@littletandme - 13th July
@mrsssk - 14th July
@Rebecca1992 - 14th July
@fafi - 17th July
@chloedancer897 - 17th July
@Lollol86 - 17th July
@2020wish - 17th July
@fafi - 18th July
@HE88 - 19th July
@Rainbowhope11 - 20th July
@Bellabubble - 20th July
@GraceG26 - 20th July
@HopeForRainbowbaby - 21st July
@Renna - 22nd July (?)
@Diorissimo1985 - 26th July
@VP91x - 26th July
@Rb486 - 30th July
@Wishingfornumber2 - August?
@Northernsoul90 - not testing
@Sophj19 - not testing

@Banbi
@busby85
@calimommy
@Quail15
@Re6ecc4

Update on me CD12 - in FW waiting on ovulation. On Soy Iso this month and doing a (reduced) SMEP approach. 🥰

Anyone else would like to join please do xx

Hallo ladies, I'm also away ;) I'm in tww too. 6dpo.

Congratulations to bfp! 😘

One thing I will advised everyone is dont feel that others are not going through the same issues. You would be surprised how many of your friends might have mc but never say anything. (Similar to alot of us in this group who have not told our friends or even family). You never know one of your friends might even be in this group. Try and remain positive and remember you are not alone. Have a blessed Sunday

Ladies - I need help 😂 I saw other people with bfp at 9dpo so thought I’d try today too at 9dpo and it was a bfn! I have been so good before now - waiting, but it got the better of me this month! I don’t feel too bummed out just yet, as I know it can be positive closer to af..my pre-af symptoms have been soooo similar to when I was pregnant these last cycles that I don’t even bother to get to excited about them now! But just thought I’d share my poas cave moment for you all this morn 🤦🏼‍♀️

Hello everyone it's my first time ever posting on here!
I have 3 children and had a miscarriage back in April, I really want my last baby. I'm currently 10 dpo and did a test this morning which was negative, I've had all the symptoms of being pregnant sensitive boobs, tiredness, back ache, headaches and just that feeling you get when you just know. I just feel like I'm going a bit mad really feeling pregnant but negative test, I know its early but I got a faint line around now with all my other pregnancies so it makes me think maybe I'm not, so Im going to wait until AF is due (17thJuly) and test again.
Is there anyone in a similar position as me ?

Thinking of you this morning @micht4 hope you get some good news xxx

@MichT4 good luck today. Sending lots of hope and best wishes your way xx

@CherryBx Good morning, I think we are all in similar situations tbh. I have two children and we been trying for our 3rd for the last two years with no luck so far. I've just turned 40 so I'm starting to worry it's just not going to happen for us.

@Rebecca1992 congratulations! I'm so excited for you! Fingers crossed for a sticky healthy bean.

@chloedancer897 I'm reasonably fit and for each of my two early pregnancies this year I was very short of breath early on and I don't even have asthma! So I definitely think it's a symptom.

@MichT4 thinking of you this morning xxx

@Bellabubble Ned is such a cute name for a guinea pig! I had two when I was about 19 and they were called acorn and chestnut, loved them so much! Such characters. They were long haired and I used to trim it into a mohawk! Was your pregnancy test a FRER? It could deffo be a false negative at this point so don't worry xx

Thinking of you @MichT4 hope all goes ok xx

@VP91x yeah it's the one that used to be in mothercare ☺️ ooh interesting you've had a little temp rise, but as always you can never tell what's going on properly until way after ovulation, keeps us entertained though doesn't it 😂 I'm feeling okay trying so desperately to stay positive but it's bloody hard 🙈

@HopeForRainbowbaby enjoy you've had a lovely time away aswell x

@Bellabubble don't feel bad for POAS it doesn't do any harm and just stay hopeful, when will you test again? x

@CherryBx hi and so sorry for your loss, you could definitely get a +ve test at a later date as every pregnancy can be different, fingers crossed for you x

@SmileyT @MrsK21 @Baba458 @fafi @Dipsy77 @2020wish thank you all 💕

I’ve had the blood test so now I have to wait. I saw a couple leave with their baby, and heard a hysterical lady in the room next to me who was in pain and was having her first of two hcg blood tests. Emotional morning!

How is everyone?

@Bellabubble sorry it was a bfn, but no issues with caving here. Time seems to slow down at the end of the TWW so I don’t blame you. Hoping it’s just early!

@CherryBx welcome to the group and sorry for your journey. Again, let’s hope it’s just too early this month and you get your bfp soon xx

@fafi ahh they are cute names too - hehe - I but they looked cool with a mohawk!! Thank you for the reassurance! I used one of the clear blue early detection tests, that says from 6days before your missed period - so if I have a 28day cycle I’d be due on Friday - but I have had 29/30 day cycles too. Fingers crossed there’s still a chance - it’s been 5cycles since mc trying for my first - but am 36 so a little worried about age! xx

@MichT4 thinking of you today - hopefully they get back to you quick with answers xx

@SmileyT @MichT4 thank you ladies!! I think I may have scared myself into waiting for af lol!! I did the clearblue when to test and it said Weds was the earliest (probably should have checked the website before cracking open the test 😂) My luteal phase is 14days but can be plus/minus 2 according to natural cycles - so Friday is when af is due, but it could be between then and Sunday - the female body is so confusing!! xx

@MichT4 Thinking of you today lovely, I'm praying that your bloods come back with a good result 🙏🏼💕

@Bellabubble @CherryBx I have never tested until either the day af is due or the day after, imo I think 9 and 10 dpo is still early and I'm just not an early tester - the hormones may still be too low to detect on a test and then surge quite quickly. I know some ladies get positives at that point but it depends on individual cycles and when implantation happens as well so don't lose hope just yet until af arrives 🤞🏼🤞🏼. Sorry for your loss @CherryBx 💖

@SmileyT ah yeah they are fab, that is the one I was going to go to if I needed to book an early scan ☺️. Yeah weird that temp rise but definitely no peak yet on either test! Let's see what happens today. I can imagine how you are feeling in these early weeks, but try and read something positive everyday and step by step it will be scan day, then nhs appt, then 12w scan. Just milestone by milestone. I'm sure that goes out the window a few times a day though. Hope you aren't too anxious though and enjoying it a bit ❤️

@MichT4 I really hope everything goes well today and you get your results soon!! Did they say how long it would take? How are you feeling? Xx

@Bellabubble honestly I'll be worse if I ovulate this cycle, I'll be cracking them out at 7dpo like a loon. So normal 😂 but yes it's early definitely don't write yourself off 🥰

@CherryBx welcome and sorry you've had a loss 😔 I'm TTC baby number 2, it's so hard! Also definitely early test so you're not out for this month xx

@Bellabubble @Northernsoul90 thank you

@VP91x she just said this afternoon, or could be tomorrow morning if there’s no one testing 😳. She said she thought there would be though.
I feel ok, still no boob pain really but I do feel sick - probably nerves. I’m happy I’ll know soon, but sad to think this could be the last few hours I can say I’m pregnant. Will just see I suppose.

How are you? xx

@MichT4 god, I hope you get them today. Are you staying in today or doing something to pass the time? I really really hope all is okay 🥰

I'm okay just plodding along fertile week (I think) xx

@VP91x I’m laying on the sofa at the moment, OH is working. We will probably do something when he finishes and after some lunch. No idea what though. Are you up to much?

Fingers crossed it’s fertile week. You’ve seemed so much more relaxed this month and I think it’s a great thing xx

@MichT4 aw that sounds nice! The weather is nice today so hopefully you can get out for a bit even just for a walk.

Atm lying on the floor next to LOs bed trying to get her to nap. Then going to stick a roast on, my sister is visiting my mum so might go see them later. You know, I think I am a bit more relaxed this cycle. I think because my temps have been more stable, until yesterday 🙄. I meant, done get me wrong I'm still testing 3/4 times a day. But, don't feel to crazy about it. More of a routine. Xx

@VP91x I couldn’t believe how stable your temps were. I think mentally it helps that you’ve been referred and you have the private tests in your back pocket. I guess when you know either way you are moving in the right direction, the pressure comes off slightly. It’s really good, and I think you’ll notice the difference for sure 🥰

Roast sounds delightful. I need to get into a Sunday lunch routine I think xx

@MichT4 yes there is that too, also quite interesting to see if the soy had any effect at all. Yeah they were so stable! Femometer obviously now thinks I've ovulated. If I got another temp rise tomorrow FF would say the same too. Xx

@Bellabubble @CherryBx I'm 9DPO today and was literally just about to post that I'm dying to POAS but I'll wait now! It's too early. When I got pregnant with my MC, all my tests were negative until I got my positive at 14DPO so don't lose hope yet. The wait is so difficult though!

@Northernsoul90 @VP91x thsnk you ladies - i’m going to be mich stonger from now on lol!! Thsnk god I have one week left at school - I am always so manic in the morns that I won’t have time to poas until sat now!!

@chloedancer897 thank you too - it is reassuring to know you can get a bfp after a bfn!! Also - I am so glad I helped you not poas today 😂 xx

@Bellabubble lol yes thank you! The last few days of TWW are the worst aren't they? I might test with FRER on Wednesday, I'll be 12DPO by the.

@chloedancer897 it's so hard not to keep testing isn't it but I'm going to fight the urge until the day my af is due. I'm feeling very crampy today one day I think I am then I feel like I'm not. Hopefully we all get some bfp's over the next week fingers crossed xx