TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 6)

[VP91x]

Hi lovelies,

Gorgeous to see some more BFPs!!

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@Chickoletta

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@Jazper
@Sunflower1988 - 8th July
@ManchNic - 11th July
@elliew818 - 11th July
@AC2020 - 11th July
@Eli2020 - 11th July
@littletandme - 13th July
@mrsssk - 14th July
@Rebecca1992 - 14th July
@fafi - 17th July
@chloedancer897 - 17th July
@Lollol86 - 17th July
@2020wish - 17th July
@fafi - 18th July
@HE88 - 19th July
@Rainbowhope11 - 20th July
@Bellabubble - 20th July
@GraceG26 - 20th July
@HopeForRainbowbaby - 21st July
@Renna - 22nd July (?)
@Diorissimo1985 - 26th July
@VP91x - 26th July
@Rb486 - 30th July
@Wishingfornumber2 - August?
@Northernsoul90 - not testing
@Sophj19 - not testing

@Banbi
@busby85
@calimommy
@Quail15
@Re6ecc4

Update on me CD12 - in FW waiting on ovulation. On Soy Iso this month and doing a (reduced) SMEP approach. 🥰

Anyone else would like to join please do xx

@chloedancer897 i’ll be 12dpo then too!! Although I think I have scarred myself lol!

@CherryBx I feel exactly the same. One day I'm convinced and the next I think I'm completely deluded! Fx for us all this month x

@Bellabubble I figure the FRER should pick it up by 12DPO so I'm going to test. At least when you test early, you can tell yourself it could be a false negative. I tested last month and it actually softened the blow for me when AF came because I knew to expect it then. Whereas when I just wait for AF and it comes with a vengeance, it hits me really hard

Hay everyone. Just an update from me - not good news, hcg has dropped by almost half. It’s what I expected but I’d held onto some hope and we are devastated. Can’t work out what the problem is, it’s heartbreaking.
Thank you all for being lovely and caring xx

@MichT4 I'm so so sorry!! Sending you lots of love ❤ Take care of yourself x

I am so sorry @MichT4 we are all here for you ❤️ sending lots of love xx

@MichT4 oh I'm so so sorry 😭 I was so hopeful for you. Did they say what they would do next? Sending you so so much love xxx

@MichT4 aw you hear the statistics and don’t expect it to happen do you. I hope all goes well for you tomorrow. I’ll be thinking of you.

@SmileyT yes I really hope it happens soon! I get you not wanting to tell people. We aren’t sure what to do. Last time I didn’t tell anyone but then when it happened I had to tell my mom so she could look after my son. And she didn’t know so I had to tel her all at once about pg/ possible mc and it was a bit much for her. So who knows this next time (if/ when I get pg again that is!) hope you’re having a good weekend, possibly a different weekend feeling pregnant and not ttc the first weekend in ages! The suns out for you as well xx

@MichT4 I'm trying to take a bit of a break from obsessing over ttc this cycle and so have been distant from group but I came back just to check on you.
I am so incredibly sorry 😔❤️ so sad for you xx

Thank you all 💕

@VP91x she said they won’t do anything, but I have to take a test in 3 weeks and if it’s positive I have to go for a scan.

I don’t know what we will do, I want to get back to trying but the thought of it happening again is just too much to deal with. Might call my health insurance tomorrow and see if they suggest anything. No point calling my doctor xx

@MichT4 my heart is broken for you, maybe take a few days to process everything and then once you call your insurance you can make a more informed decision. 😔 Xx

@MichT4 I'm so sorry to hear your sad news my heart breaks for you, I went through the same thing 3 months ago. Sending you big hugs x

@MichT4 I am so sorry that this is happening to you - be kind to yourself, and take time to grieve and process it all. Love and hugs to you xx

@MichT4 I’m so sorry you are having to go through this again. Take some time to allow you to grieve and decide what you want to do. Your well being needs to come first xx

@SmileyT what larginine where you taking and how many times

@MichT4 really sorry 2 hear such, hoping it can be painfree as possible and you are able to heal quickly. Try and keep occupied. How many MC have you had. Also I noted you don't seem to have any faith in your gp could you possibly change

@MichT4 I'm so so sorry this has happened to you. Sending you all my love x

@micht4 I feel so heartbroken for you and your OH 😞 I'm so sorry you're having to go through this again. Please take good care of yourself and give yourself the time you need.
Ringing your insurance sounds like a good positive next step when the time comes.
I really hoped you'd have some good news, you're such a kind caring soul on these threads.

We will all be here for you for as much support as you need xxx

@MichT4 I'm so, so sorry to see this update. So sorry. I was so hopeful that you would get good news. I wish I had the right words to say. The thing that got me through our loss was just the knowledge that our baby mattered and he or she was real. I believe no matter what stage your loss happens at that is true. Whatever you decide about starting to try again is the right decision. Don't put pressure on yourself either way. Please know you aren't alone 💓

@MichT4 I’m so sorry to hear that your going through this again 💔 Lots of love your way xx

@MichT4 I am so sorry this has happened to you again... I'm so very sad for you. Big hugs to you and DH be kind to yourselves and give yourself time to be sad 😔

@Mommybear05 our parents are a few of the only people I've seen and not told most people I've seen I've told about the MC but I'd want that conversation to be on my terms not having my friends checking up on me daily, but I dunno maybe that will change as I go on. I feel strangely out of control at the moment, like there isn't anything else for me to do but wait. x

@VP91x I'm desperately trying to be less anxious but I'm struggling to be honest, especially as nipple soreness has completely gone and I had some brown tinged CM today but just need to keep busy I guess. Testing everyday probably isn't helping either 😩 I'm glad you are feeling more relaxed this month aswell x

@DBTJ how are you doing? I've attached a pic of the supp I took, just one I found on amazon x

@MichT4 so sorry look after yourself 💔xx

@SmileyT your period was due this weekend wasn't it? Hopefully it is just that! God, TTC seems like the hard part then you get PG and it's a whole other level of anxiety. Sending you a big hug too, hopefully it doesn't come back xx

@CherryBx @Bellabubble after telling you both I wouldn't test I did an FRER with 2nd void of the day and of course it was a BFN! I stupidly did an OPK and it was positive so convinced myself to test. So annoyed at myself

@chloedancer897 dont be so hard on yourself we all get impatient and can't wait to see those bfp's. Just have to keep telling ourselves we ain't out until af arrives. I have awful cramps today I'm hoping its implantation and not af coming early. Xx

Thank you all so much

OH won’t really speak to me at all. Think this whole thing is doing us more harm than good. It’s meant to be a happy time and it’s bringing nothing but sadness and worry. I don’t know what to do or what to say to him.

Thank you all for your wishes and kindness 🥰