TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 6)

[VP91x]

Hi lovelies,

Gorgeous to see some more BFPs!!

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@Chickoletta

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@Jazper
@Sunflower1988 - 8th July
@ManchNic - 11th July
@elliew818 - 11th July
@AC2020 - 11th July
@Eli2020 - 11th July
@littletandme - 13th July
@mrsssk - 14th July
@Rebecca1992 - 14th July
@fafi - 17th July
@chloedancer897 - 17th July
@Lollol86 - 17th July
@2020wish - 17th July
@fafi - 18th July
@HE88 - 19th July
@Rainbowhope11 - 20th July
@Bellabubble - 20th July
@GraceG26 - 20th July
@HopeForRainbowbaby - 21st July
@Renna - 22nd July (?)
@Diorissimo1985 - 26th July
@VP91x - 26th July
@Rb486 - 30th July
@Wishingfornumber2 - August?
@Northernsoul90 - not testing
@Sophj19 - not testing

@Banbi
@busby85
@calimommy
@Quail15
@Re6ecc4

Update on me CD12 - in FW waiting on ovulation. On Soy Iso this month and doing a (reduced) SMEP approach. 🥰

Anyone else would like to join please do xx

@SmileyT yeah it was the same test. I’m grateful to have recovered quickly, so that is definitely a positive. I’m just so worried this will keep happening. I don’t know what is stopping it sticking and I can’t help but feel it’s something, so I just feel a bit helpless. Hopefully it is just incredibly bad luck and third time is a charm

How are you feeling today? Good to hear you are keeping very busy. I’m sure the scan will come round in no time xx

@MichT4 I've started taking 1000mg Vit C and am going to order:

1000mg Vit E
1000mg L-Arginine
100mg B6 (can't seem to find anything higher)

Based on this research - sites.google.com/site/miscarriageresearch/hormones-and-miscarriage/progesterone-research/how-to-increase-progesterone

@SmileyT Thank you! It's reassuring to see your chart!!

@MichT4 thanks I will keep hoping! My normal cycle is 28 days which would mean I am due today, however as it's first cycle post MC I guess anything could happen!

@littletandme so sorry to hear it's a chemical, I hope you are ok and your body recovers quickly, sending you a massive hug x

@VP91x those easy @ home strips are so confusing! I'm hoping the CBs were accurate and your temp carries on rising xx

@MichT4 I completely sympathise with you about worrying about age, I'm 33 (I think similar to you) and also trying for no 1 and part of me thinks we should've started trying earlier, I'm so acutely aware of my ticking clock right now.

I had a massive cry last night thinking it just might not ever happen for me but picked myself up today and putting my big girl pants on trying to concentrate on all the positives in my life x

@Sallyjo27 that sounds like an awful experience, I hope you're getting lots of TLC at home today xxx

@Sallyjo27 I'm so sorry you've had such a rough time. I hope you are feeling okay today and getting plenty of rest and tlc 💕

@littletandme I'm sorry to hear this 😔 try and stay positive it sounds like you have a good plan moving forward with the supplements xx

@MichT4 It must be so hard seeing the negative but as @SmileyT said on the positive side hopefully this means your body will reset quite quickly for your cycles to return. Hope you are okay ❤️

Hi everyone, as usual I'm trying to keep up! Welcome to the new joiners and sorry to hear your stories.

I've been a bit quiet as I'm absolutely terrified, but I took a couple of tests on Tues, and this it what they say.

If anyone needs reminding (I always do!) I'm 39, 40 next month. We lost our son Henry at 18 months old, 16 months ago. I had a tfmr in Nov last year at 10 weeks, and a natural miscarriage at 8 weeks in April.

I am so so scared about all the what if's, but trying to be positive and hopeful. It's so hard because it's impossible to assume it'll all be ok anymore, but I am trying to accept that I am scared, and continue to be hopeful in spite of that.

As I was catching up with the thread there were so many people I wanted to comment to, but once I've read through it all I can never remember who I wanted to comment to and what I wanted to say! Thinking of you all though x

Congratulations @ManchNic. This is wonderful news. Did you have any symptoms?

@Northernsoul90 thank you. I’m ok, just really worried about it all.

@MrsK21 I know how you feel. I’m so scared this just isn’t going to be easy. I had dreams of having children, and a nice smooth pregnancy was always part of that. Feel a little low about it

@littletandme thanks for the link. I’m tempted, but I take so many pills already. I’ll be rattling even more
xx

@ManchNic - omg I am so sorry to hear what you’ve been true but equally excited for you! Sending you lots of positive vibes xxx

@littletandme really sorry that it might not be a positive this month 😔. Hopefully things are more settled in your new cycle if it comes 🤞

@fafi thank you that's reassuring, also as @SmileyT said don't count yourself out yet xx

@SmileyT ah yes that is another busy day!! Where are you going for dinner? 23 dinner dates to plan 😅. I'm hopeful that all is fine, OH got back from work a bit earlier, I was napping, woke me up for a quickie 👀 god knows what's gotten into him 😂.

@MichT4 I know it must be so so hard to look past how you are feeling right now, but there is no reason to say you can't carry a baby. It will happen for you, hopefully really really soon. Focus on each day, affirmations, audiobooks anything that will calm your mind or make you laugh. ❤️❤️❤️

@MrsK21 I know they are so confusing, but yes I hope I have ovulated. I'm sorry you felt crap last night, but definitely keep positive it will happen ❤️

@ManchNic that's amazing news, massive congratulations. I understand how scared you must be, but wishing you all the best with your pregnancy ❤️❤️

@ManchNic awww that's wonderful news, I am so sorry to hear about Henry, I hope luck is on your side now and you have a healthy pregnancy xxx

@ManchNic I wasn't familiar with your story, I am so sorry for the loss of your son and your miscarriages, you've been through so much. Huge congratulations on this pregnancy and I'm wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months ❤️

Thank you all 🥰

@Sallyjo27 sorry to hear and hope u recover well and your cycle is back in sync soon x

@VP91x that’s how my charts look after ovulation... three slight rises in a row. Fingers crossed it looks promising

@Niisa hi! Glad the pregnancy is progressing well and sorry about the sickness :(

@SmileyT how are you doing? I know it feels so long when you u find out ur pregnant really early... 5 weeks feels like forever lol

@MichT4 sorry about the bfn :( I hope u are ok. It’s a horrible feeling when this keeps happening. Ok actually so scared to fall pregnant again because of it

@littletandme how far along are u? Ok the beginning tests can be so temperamental. Fingers crossed for stronger lines next time you test

@fafi I think as long as it stays above cover line and it known to have a dip of temp around implantation time. Fingers crossed

So I dunno why or what processed me but of course I tested this morning and got a bfn! At 8dpo lol I actually thought I seen a line on a frer so I opened it to find a really bad indentation line along the back. Never had one like that. So just disposed of them.

My friend had her baby 4 days ago and is sending pics every day. I’m so happy for her but sad at the same time. I’m calling today to see the baby. My other friend who is due when I would of been due just posted that she can now feel her baby kick :( should of been me. Ugh

@MrsK21 sorry ur feeling that way. It can be so lonely can’t it? People expect ya to just get over it quickly.

@ManchNic awww congrats!!!! You definitely deserved this after all you have been through!!! Hope you have a healthy 9 months!!! How many dpo are you?

@2020wish that sounds so hard knowing that could be you hopefully in a few days you'll get a BFP!

@2020wish this is all so reassuring with the chart, thank you ❤️

Oh no, that's so annoying about the indentation. HPT should not be so prone to these things. I'm sorry you're getting so many reminders of your losses, but keep strong that one day again it will be you xx

@fafi I know :( and that friend that is due the same time as me didn’t even want to get pregnant :( I actually begged her for laugh to start trying along side me so we could be bump buddies. And low and behold she found out she was pregnant same
Week as me but still said i scudded her and that she wasn’t trying. But yet it’s me who miscarried :( I know that’s lame to be annoyed over but can’t help myself :(

@VP91x I know I couldn’t believe it when I turned the test over and seen the indentation. It was the frers of Amazon. I’ve ordered loads of there and never had that

@ManchNic wohoo congratulations ! Wishing you healthy 9 months ❤️

@ManchNic when did you find out that you are pregnant?

@ManchNic when did you find out that you are pregnant?

Aww congrats @ManchNic, lovely news!

@Niisa I remember you saying you were going to show your OH your positive test on Father’s Day. Did you do that in the end? Remember thinking that was sweet!

Sorry to all those going through a tough time at the mo. Big hugs to you all 🥰. X

@ManchNic congratulations to you. I'm so pleased for you xo

@MichT4 I'm so sorry for BFN but at least as one door closes another opens. Onwards and upwards for you xo

@2020wish I have everything crossed for you this month

@2020wish I did that too with FRER. They're not my friends anymore! I even ripped my tests open convinced I would see something. 8DPO is incredibly early. Don't lose hope yet x