TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 6)

[VP91x]

Hi lovelies,

Gorgeous to see some more BFPs!!

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@Chickoletta

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@Jazper
@Sunflower1988 - 8th July
@ManchNic - 11th July
@elliew818 - 11th July
@AC2020 - 11th July
@Eli2020 - 11th July
@littletandme - 13th July
@mrsssk - 14th July
@Rebecca1992 - 14th July
@fafi - 17th July
@chloedancer897 - 17th July
@Lollol86 - 17th July
@2020wish - 17th July
@fafi - 18th July
@HE88 - 19th July
@Rainbowhope11 - 20th July
@Bellabubble - 20th July
@GraceG26 - 20th July
@HopeForRainbowbaby - 21st July
@Renna - 22nd July (?)
@Diorissimo1985 - 26th July
@VP91x - 26th July
@Rb486 - 30th July
@Wishingfornumber2 - August?
@Northernsoul90 - not testing
@Sophj19 - not testing

@Banbi
@busby85
@calimommy
@Quail15
@Re6ecc4

Update on me CD12 - in FW waiting on ovulation. On Soy Iso this month and doing a (reduced) SMEP approach. 🥰

Anyone else would like to join please do xx

@VP91x yeah I know I’m being silly. I’m just worried what if this actually is just something that won’t happen, maybe my eggs are poor. Urgh there’s always something to get wound up over. I’ll get over it.
Still quite a strong line, but then I had dark ones for about 3 days after my peak. Let’s use your temps instead.
Good on Bella, clever little lady 💕

@MichT4 yeah, there is always something to think about and wonder if it is going wrong. Hopefully the tests all come back okay for you, when you do get them.

Yeah, definitely will just go with the temps. 🥰 Xx

I can’t have them until I have a period, so the first one will be day 1-8 and then whenever else though my cycle. The progesterone one probs a I. CD28 depending when I think I ovulate. Not sure when the PCOS ones will be.
It’s only hormones for now so I don’t think it’ll say much about my age xx

@MichT4 it will give you a starting point though with where hormones are etc which is good. 🥰 Xx

@VP91x @SmileyT I'm not throwing up luckily but just constantly feeling like I'm about to

How have you guys all been? It's been aaaaaages! Xx

@2020wish I had the same before my BFP! Praying it's a good sign for you!

@MichT4 there’s a blood test they can do to check eggs, I think it tells them egg count. Think it was AMH hormone levels they look for. They do it as part of the fertility tests with NHS. X

@MichT4 agreed 🙏

@VP91x mmm I still don't get these new opks, but you won't need them next month ☺️ and yes I am staying positive, kinda counting the days to the early scan, also trying not to wish away weeks... so a constant internal battle. Ahh bless her that's so good she had a successful afternoon she'll be all sorted by the time another one comes along, saves having to buy double nappies.

@Niisa I'm all good thanks, ahh bless you I bet that's not nice at all, when did the nausea start for you? x

Hi ladies another little update- currently in a&e. The medical management worked- well a bit. Tissue got stuck in my cervix and was bleeding so heavily at home, nearly fainted and was in agony so little trip to the hospital, they used a spectrum to open my cervix and used forceps to remove all the tissue. I had gas and air but decided to have a little sob half way through so it didn’t work very well. Easily the most painful thing I’ve ever gone through. Anyway the positive but they’ve taken the tissue and sent it for testing and I’m hoping I can go home tonight. Never do anything easily. Hope your all okay xxx

Sorry I should say I’ve changed my name, I was sophj19

@MrsK21 good to see you've got authorisation for gyno tests and a referral from the dr. I think it's always good to get the ball rolling with that as soon as possible!

@2020wish watery CM is deffo a sign of PG! Fingers crossed for you x

Oh @Sallyjo27 that sounds so scary! I hope you're doing ok and you can go home soon!

@Sallyjo27 oh no I am so sorry to hear!!! Hope you can recover and heal now and get to go home tonight! Sending hugs xxx

@SmileyT a week after my last period! But it's really ramped up now to the point I can't sleep. I'm glad you've been okay... there's been 2 whole OTHER threads so that's wayyyyy too much catching up to do haha but really been thinking about y'all 💕

@Sallyjo27 I'm soo sorry to hear that hun & praying for you! Hoping the rest of your week is better & you heal well 💕

@SmileyT how far along are you now? sorry I've got mush brain 🙈

@SmileyT this is the chart with this mornings temp, I'm unsure whether I did ovulate yesterday as the temp hasn't gone up massively, what do you reckon?

Maybe plan little nice things to look forward to so that it doesn't seem so long to wait for the scan? Like a nice lunch etc xx

@Sallyjo27 oh that sounds so so scary, I'm sorry you've had to go through that. I hope you're resting up loads and bring well looked after ❤️

@Sallyjo27 I'm so sorry you had to go through this, really hope you are home to rest and recover soon x

@Niisa have you seen the Dr about the nausea? Sorry if I've missed it but have you had a scan already? I'm only 5weeks today so still a long way to go, I didn't even test until 6weeks last time so I think it feels even longer 😩

@VP91x well it's a definite rise from yesterday maybe you ovulated late and you'll see another rise tonight. Although mine rose over like 3 days this time and dropped below cover line twice so I'm going to use my standard unhelpful comment of you can't really see bbt chart clearly until about 4days post ovulation 🤪

@SmileyT yeah, I'm hoping I did. Was just looking back at my chart on the month I did ovulate and I had a similar rise then the next day had more of a rise. But yes, BBT is such a waiting game 😩. Hope work isn't too brutal today xx

@Sallyjo27 oh gosh that sounds scary, sorry you had to go through that. How are you feeling today?

@VP91x I think you’ll get your rise tonight. Mine went up over 2 days 🤞🏼

I had a stark white BFN this morning, it’s sad but a relief in the circumstances. I’m going to use an OPK later and see if I have a miraculous cycle xx

@MichT4 did you use a sensitive test? Not easy seeing a negative, I'm sorry 😔, hope you are ok? Xx

That's reassuring - thank you 🥰xx

@VP91x it was a cheapie, although I think those femometer ones are actually quite sensitive.
It’s good in a way, or they’d have wanted me back in to scan etc. But I actually do now feel really rubbish, thinking about where I should be and that this just shouldn’t have happened. Why can’t I carry a baby? I honestly thought the second time would be ok. But anyway, nothing I can do 😔.

Much planned today? xx

Hi ladies. Unfortunately yesterday's test was really faint and also barely a squinter this morning. I temp and my temperatures have never really been as high as they usually are the last two times I've been pregnant so have been mentally preparing myself for it to be a chemical period is due tomorrow or Saturday so we will see.

I always had a feeling that my hormones weren't settled yet as I spotted for 2 weeks, until 3 days before ovulation. So I'm thinking my progesterone isn't high enough at the moment. Going to order some supplements to see if I can boost it and try to be positive for next month.

@littletandme I'm sorry 😔 x

@VP91x your chart looks normal to me! I have 2-3 days of rises before with a general trend of rising with the of dip.

I was convinced that I was gonna be PG this month as I've had CM and twinges but my chart seems to be disagreeing now 😔

@MichT4 was it the same test you used the day before you went in for your scan... I'm sorry that you've had to see that test this morning but positives are that hopefully it means your body is recovering quickly and you will have a nice fresh cycle to try again and just remember there is no evidence you can't carry a baby you've just been cruelly unlucky, lots of hugs x

@littletandme I'm so sorry to read this, give yourself time to be a bit sad but definitely the right attitude to be positive about next cycle x

@VP91x yes I think it's normal not to be able to confirm on the 1st day so don't panic and think positive about this month ❤️thanks lovely, I've got another mental day and meeting my friend for dinner so I'll be shattered by the time I get home but it does mean another day should fly by, only 23 more days to fill until scan time 🤣 x

@fafi my temps started to drop to cover line and I still got my bfp so definitely don't count yourself out, don't count yourself out 🤞

@littletandme I’m so sorry. I hope you are ok? What supplements will you try. Definitely stay positive

@fafi you’re not out yet. When is AF due? Charts are funny things, so don’t worry yet xx