TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 6)

[VP91x]

Hi lovelies,

Gorgeous to see some more BFPs!!

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@Chickoletta

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@Jazper
@Sunflower1988 - 8th July
@ManchNic - 11th July
@elliew818 - 11th July
@AC2020 - 11th July
@Eli2020 - 11th July
@littletandme - 13th July
@mrsssk - 14th July
@Rebecca1992 - 14th July
@fafi - 17th July
@chloedancer897 - 17th July
@Lollol86 - 17th July
@2020wish - 17th July
@fafi - 18th July
@HE88 - 19th July
@Rainbowhope11 - 20th July
@Bellabubble - 20th July
@GraceG26 - 20th July
@HopeForRainbowbaby - 21st July
@Renna - 22nd July (?)
@Diorissimo1985 - 26th July
@VP91x - 26th July
@Rb486 - 30th July
@Wishingfornumber2 - August?
@Northernsoul90 - not testing
@Sophj19 - not testing

@Banbi
@busby85
@calimommy
@Quail15
@Re6ecc4

Update on me CD12 - in FW waiting on ovulation. On Soy Iso this month and doing a (reduced) SMEP approach. 🥰

Anyone else would like to join please do xx

@Northernsoul90 i used first resp. But is afternoon urine because i did not want to check it in this morning .. is first time when i can see something

@Chickoletta I'm so sorry to hear it's a CP :( please don't blame yourself! As @Northernsoul90 said, sex doesn't affect the embryo but I understand it's natural for us to want to find a reason for why something has gone wrong. I really hope you look after yourself. Whatever decision you make regarding TTC or not will be the right one for you both as a couple and family xxx

@BabyNR1 I think I would wait another few days and then do a FRER with fmu... can you see the line at all with the camera in normal setting? I do think I can see something there though on the photo 🤔 xx

@Northernsoul90 i can see better the line in the photo is more faint

@Chickoletta I am so sorry to hear about your CP . I understand how your feeling x

Really hope it's a bfp for you @Baba458 🤞🏼

@Chickoletta I’m so sorry it’s a CP - it’s so hard, I am sending you all the love xxx

@Chickoletta as the other ladies said you definitely didn't cause it, sex wouldn't have affected anything. It's so hard😩 really sorry you're having a chemical. Ultimately you have to do whats best for you and your family ❤️

@2020wish did you see my post yesterday? Got a blazing positive OPK d9dpo. Smiley said she had one too before her BFP!

@Chickoletta I'm so sorry ❤️❤️

@Baba458 Sorry tagged the wrong person! 🤦🏽‍♀️ really hope it's a bfp for you @BabyNR1 that was supposed to say! X

@chloedancer897 I didn’t but oh how interesting! Have you tested since? When will u do a hcg? I’m dpo 4/5 today. Femometer is saying 5DPO but I think 4.

@Chickoletta it’s so easy to blame ourselves. I’m guilty of it also after having an early loss after sex but that’s just us trying to make sense of the lost by blaming something that caused it to go wrong when in reality it was just never going to progress. Don’t blame yourself. Hugs xx

@Northernsoul90 thank you honey

@Chickoletta I'm so sorry to hear you are having a chemical, please don't blame yourself for this. Be kind to yourself and whatever you decide to do about ttc we are all here for support. Xx

So sorry to hear this @Chickoletta. Easy to feel like it but as the others have said it’s nothing you have done wrong. Big hugs to you. X

@mrsssk congratulations ! Wishing you healthy 9 months 😘 btw how many dpo are you ?

@mrsssk I meant @mrsk21

@chloedancer897 when will you be testing hcg? That sounds super positive with a high OPK, I read about this on another thread too that it can indicate a BFP!

@HopeForRainbowbaby I'm between 10-12 DPO. I'm unsure because I never got a peak OPK, just a bunch of high readings for about 4 days on the trot and I haven't had an AF since my MC. My poor body is all over the show
I don't think I'll be convinced that it's a real BFP until I see a stronger line as it's ever so faint! I've got FRERs arriving from amazon tomorrow for retesting x

@Chickoletta so sorry 2 hear that. Don't give up hope my cousin tried for 11years and in the end she now has a 2 year old and a 3month old. Miracles do happen might happen when you least expect

@VP91x @MichT4 @SmileyT Just a little update @Northernsoul90 results have come back and nothing was found however I need to go in another review on Thursday. The saga continues

@Chickoletta so sorry ❤️xx

@Chickoletta I'm so sorry dear :( it so heartbreaking to hear your news. We are here when you feel like talking or not. Big hug❤️

@VP91x your stable temps screwed up the data for FF, hopefully it'll update itself when you get your peak... i had to discard 1 temp for it to understand me in the end 😂 how has your day been? Love how the MIL being there can't even stop you during fertile week 👌🏾

@Baba458 when is 12dpo? Wednesday? 🤞

@DBTJ that's what my line looked like at 13dpo on a cheapie so I think that is good line progression 🙌🏾 glad the original results weren't negative though and hope it goes well on Thursday xx

@Renna thanks lovely, I'm feeling super calm and positive today definitely better being busy at work, weekend had way too much time to worry. Sorry people around you are having a tough time, it really can take its toll on you, make sure you look after yourself maybe a bit of meditation 🧘‍♀️

@littletandme @MrsK21 @BabyNR1 hoping that those lines develop over the next couple of days 🤞 🤞

@MichT4 how was it at work? I'm all good thanks, such a busy day at work just got in and actually didn't think about it all for about 5hrs today which is progress 🙏

@Wishingfornumber2 that scene in workin moms really did stick with me, like wtf!? No supplements, no bum in the air and pregnant 😩

@Chickoletta ahh I'm so sorry to hear it was a chemical sending you lots of love x

@SmileyT work was a godsend. I was so distracted and feel happy (ish) back on the bus. Obviously I’d rather have had a sticky bean but it’s not to be this time. I’m relieved it’s coming out quickly. I’m going to call the docs tomorrow and try and be firm for hormone blood tests - I’m worried it’s something simple like low progesterone that they can just supplement.

I may be running on adrenaline and will crash soon but for now I’m keeping my chin up.

Glad you were distracted today too.

@VP91x i need your brain. I was in Tesco and bought SI but I don’t know why. For some reason I’m scared to take it. I’m worried it’ll throw other hormones off balance. Have you read anything to suggest that might happen?
Also, what would your thoughts be on using it in the first cycle post MC?

xx

Thanks to you all for your kindness. I’m ok and do know deep down that it wasn’t my fault. As lots of you say though, we do look for things to blame in these situations.

We are going to stop trying and concentrate on all of the other wonderful things in our life now, including two amazing, healthy, happy children who give us so much joy.

I wish you all so much love and luck for your TTC journeys - there are so many wonderful stories of rainbow babies out there, I just feel that time has run out for me and it’s time to draw a line. So grateful for the support I’ve always found here. I’ll loiter first a bit so that I can see all of those BFPs which are just around the corner. Very unmumsnetty hugs to you all, I’m off for a long bath and a large gin!