TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 6)

[VP91x]

Hi lovelies,

Gorgeous to see some more BFPs!!

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@Chickoletta

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@Jazper
@Sunflower1988 - 8th July
@ManchNic - 11th July
@elliew818 - 11th July
@AC2020 - 11th July
@Eli2020 - 11th July
@littletandme - 13th July
@mrsssk - 14th July
@Rebecca1992 - 14th July
@fafi - 17th July
@chloedancer897 - 17th July
@Lollol86 - 17th July
@2020wish - 17th July
@fafi - 18th July
@HE88 - 19th July
@Rainbowhope11 - 20th July
@Bellabubble - 20th July
@GraceG26 - 20th July
@HopeForRainbowbaby - 21st July
@Renna - 22nd July (?)
@Diorissimo1985 - 26th July
@VP91x - 26th July
@Rb486 - 30th July
@Wishingfornumber2 - August?
@Northernsoul90 - not testing
@Sophj19 - not testing

@Banbi
@busby85
@calimommy
@Quail15
@Re6ecc4

Update on me CD12 - in FW waiting on ovulation. On Soy Iso this month and doing a (reduced) SMEP approach. 🥰

Anyone else would like to join please do xx

@MichT4 I'm ok thank you. Please take care of yourself.

So ladies, I've been having right sided cramps for the last few days on and off. I send a urine sample off thinking it was that but it came back clear. It's more like a stabbing pain, not like period cramps. Anyone ever had this? I'm 10DPO x

@MichT4 I would second what @Baba458 says and consider letting your boss know so you have the support there if you need it. Sending you lots of love today xxx

@VP91x how many flashing smilies do you normally get? I hope you get your static soon and the Soy Iso's have done something to help.

@littletandme I can definitely see a line - tentative congratulations to you! I really hope this is a sticky one for you!

@Renna hope she manages to find her own space soon, not ideal when you want to be maximising DTD. Sorry to hear your OH's ex is being difficult too. Hope you manage to get some down time, sounds like you have a lot going on at the moment.

@DBTJ I can definitely see your lines are getting stronger. Again, tentative congratulations and pray you have a healthy 9 months to look forward to. These tests aren't the best either, I bet if you did a FRER you'd get a really good strong line! X

@MichT4 yeah definitely no rush whenever it is right for you xxx

@MrsK21 well, me and CB digis haven't had the best relationship 😂 month before last finished the box and never got any static (I was using two a day). Last month got a static after like 10 days? But didn't actually ovulate (no temp rise or cheapie opk positive). This month I'm on 5 so far...

@chloedancer897 I've not had that I don't think, but sounds positive? Xx

I'd be very grateful for some line eyes please - just as a reminder, I had my first pg and MC end of May at 7.5 weeks and haven't had a period since. I had plenty of negative tests white as snow prior to today.
I think I may have ovulated between 30 June to 2 July which can put me at something like 11 - 13 DPO. I've had sore boobs on and off the last week or so and had a weird pulling cramp a few days ago.

I thought I'd take a cheapie one step pg test and I think I'm imagining things but there might be a vvvvv faint line. I want to think it's a very early positive but also think there's a real possibility I'm going bonkers.
I took it out of the casing too as lots of reflection on these tests.

Please help!! Xxx

@littletandme I can see a faint line 🥳 fingers crossed for some good like progression over the next few days xx

@DBTJ I can definitely see line progression! Xx

@Renna Sorry that you are having a bit of a thought time, it sounds like a lot to deal with! I hope you are feeling okay! Xx

@VP91x fingers crossed for your static/surge soon!! The flashing smileys drive me insane... I think I had 9 or 10 one cycle and no peak like you it's very frustrating xxx

@MrsK21 I can see a very faint line as well!! Really hoping that this is a bfp for you... why don't you get a frer to do in the morning? Or have you got one? 🙏🏼🤞🏼

Let me just add, I feel like throwing shoes at myself for posting these pics - but at 6 weeks post MC and no period, I'm desperate to believe anything at this point lol

@VP91x oh yes I remember! Have you heard anymore about your scan that the GP referred you for? X

@Northernsoul90 they are very frustrating!! I'm back up with cheapies too, but they're just high atm 🤷 thank you. How are you xx

@MrsK21 I can see a faint line! Xx

@MrsK21 I didn't even really have to squint either. Def get yourself a FRER tor tomorrow.

No, nothing yet from the GP! Xx

@MrsK21 I see a line in both pics!

@littletandme

Morning ladies. 10dpo and a squinter!! Tweaked slightly to make it show up better on the photo but definitely very present IRL. Can't believe it, it's only our first proper cycle since the miscarriage.

I see it! Congrats!xx

@littletandme

Morning ladies. 10dpo and a squinter!! Tweaked slightly to make it show up better on the photo but definitely very present IRL. Can't believe it, it's only our first proper cycle since the miscarriage.

I see it! Congrats!xx

@VP91x I'm good thank you...still getting faint positives this morning 🤦🏽‍♀️ I did a cheapy opk which showed a clear line - darker than the pregnancy test but definitely not a peak, again I'm thinking it's picking up hcg still if I'm still getting a positive.

@VP91x I really hope so. If not, I have no idea what the pain is as I've never had this before. It's not awful but I'm aware of it. Kind of like a pinching sensation that comes and goes? No bleeding. I'm hoping it's implantation. But I don't want to get my hopes up x

@VP91x no it wasn't FMU so that probably didn't help either 🤦🏼‍♀️ I shouldn't have done it really but I'd just convinced myself I was def pg. I'll try again tomorrow or wed xx

@VP91x @Northernsoul90 I don't have a FRER at home as used them to confirm negatives post MC, so have just placed an amazon order, they should be here tomorrow. I'm glad you both and @chloedancer897 could see it too, I felt so silly posting those pics!
Thank you ladies xxx

I'm just going to carry on living in ignorance for the time being as not sure I can take the stress of the first 12 weeks just yet and certainly not before a clearer test on a FRER or a CB. I definitely think a mc just takes all your innocence away x

@Northernsoul90 thanks will update as soon as they let me know. Yes hope the progress sticks

@fafi yes top one is today

@VP91x @michT4 thank you let's hope this progress is here to stay

@MrsK21 I have never used frer i dont no why I was expecting it to be alot darker.
I can see the line on yours honesty there should be a job for analysing preg test.

@Renna sorry to hear about oh ex still being a witch and your sister splitting up with her bf not great timing for you, I hope things settle down a bit. Xx

@MichT4 beyond gutted for you. I've been keeping an eye out and thought I'd come back to check just now. Sending you all love and best wishes lovely xxx

@MrsK21 YES I can deffo see a faint line! So excited for you to take your FRER!

I'm 7DPO and feeling twinges but they are more like IN my vajayjay - like I've DTD vigorously but we haven't! Very strange. Anyone had that before? Damn TWW! I might have had it when I was PG last time but I put it down to my sudden mission to do daily pelvic floor exercises but I haven't been doing any lately!

@MichT4 I'm so sorry that you go through it again. My heart goes to you ❤️ take care of yourself dear.

Just want to share what midwife told me after second miscarriage that even with 3 MCs, for 9/10 of couples there are no issues found why MCs happens. And even after 3 MCs you do have the same chance for healthy pregnancy as without MC. I hope that helps dear ❤️

@fafi i fell pg in Jan this year but had a mmc at the end of Feb. We were really lucky and fell pg first try last time but since the mc have had no luck. My TWW symptoms have all been so similar to what I felt when pg (twinges, sore boobs, lightheaded etc) that I have given up symptom spotting!!

@VP91x yeh it’s so sucky - I never had this before the mc!! Last cycle was only one day so I thought that was the end of it - but if I have a 27/28 day cycle this month I’m looking at 3 or 4 days again 🙄 I hope you don’t get too many flashys this month!! xx

@MrsK21 I can see the lines too, no need to throw any shoes. Fingers crossed for a development on the FRER.

@CasperFlamingo @HopeForRainbowbaby thank you both. I'm doing OK. I'll jump back on the bus - being here isn't the worst place to be, even if I do end up sat alone in the back row!
The bleeding is pretty heavy and clotty today - mixed feelings - firstly I wish I could wear a tampon (what's a Monday without a TMI), and secondly, I'm relieved it's happening on it's own.

I can't remember who said, but I emailed the Miscarriage Association and they were lovely. They said it's common (urgh) and normally they won't find a cause, hence no testing until 3. It makes me think not to push tests yet, as I'd rather trust my body will do what it needs to when the time is right. I don't want to start treating it like it's failing in some way, even though I feel a little bit like it is xx

@MichT4 That sounds really good advice, and @HopeForRainbowbaby that is super reassuring that it doesn't change the odds! Fingers crossed for us all - third time lucky for us @MichT4 I hope xx

@MrsK21 yes can see a line! Excited for you test again. X

So I have been watching workin moms and got up to the bit where one of the characters only does one OPK and it’s positive, DTD and gets pregnant! I remember someone saying about that in a previous thread a while ago. I know it can happen but man not what you want to see when TTC for a while 😂!