TTC after MC - June/July 2020 (Part 4)

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I'm on CD25 AF due 2nd July, potentially no ovulation this month or my body just refuses to budge on temp 😩

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

@Mich2020 sorry i missed ur question yest, yes this time iv been more emotional and cranky i had had an argument with the hubby over something stupid the other day like clothes washing and literally threw my phone on the floor like a crank and smashed the back of if (thats not me atall)!!! So im defo more hot-headed (god love him), he understands though thankfully and he said from then on this is defo a boy before we got the results back! Iv still got the sickness though that i had with the girl so thats not changed. its mainly mood and emotions that are different x welcome to the club uv got it allllllllll to come my love! Enjoy every min of it though xx 💙💖

@MichT4 absolutely and I'm sure your little bean will definitely be cooking nicely in there for the next 9 months! Hopefully we will soon be chatting all things pregnancy 🥰🥰 forgot to say before, don't leave this group!!

Yes, final day at nursery for her today. She's only doing 3days a week atm, wed-fri but from 3rd Aug will be full time which will be different she's never gone full time before! Although today she had a full on meltdown over the colour of her jumper so they can have her today quite happily 😂😂 although I'll miss her as soon as I am back xx

@SmileyT oh did it go down by much? That makes sense. And I'll be in FW week then hopefully and we can do our swap! Haha. Yeah all good here CD5, AF seems to be going which is earlier than usual maybe the soy has been responsible for that xx

@MichT4 exactly why i stayed in here cos i felt by keeping in touch it was my way not letting go completely and staying in touch with the girls who are still trying, it keeps me grounded a bit as i know it can all be taken away in an instant xx but then at the same time we all support each others anxieties in the whats app group too, were all in the same boat with the same feelings, but yeah when ur ready just drop her a message and she will add u x

@Lollol86 hi I am just over 11 weeks I had a miscarriage in April and was so lucky to get caught my next ovulation xxx

@MichT4 wow congratulations 🥳 just chill and enjoy it. Each pregnancy is a blessing. I guess we all just have to think some ladies don’t even experience that so we’re very fortunate to have fallen and I’m sure your going to have a happy, healthy pregnancy. All the best 😘 xx

@MichT4 congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉 wishing you a very healthy happy 9 months xxxx

@Eli2020 yeah I feel like if I have any inkling i might be pregnant then I'll probably find it harder not to test but since the MC in March I've known I wasn't pregnant so was testing at 12dpo just to confirm what I already knew with an ic again if I actually thought I was pregnant then I might get a better test but haven't seen the point in wasting the money so far 😞

@MichT4 ahh he'll sleep well now without the stress of ttc, and yeah just tell people in your own time. Will be lovely that you and your sister will have children so close in age aswell 🥰 Really hoping August is my month xx

@VP91x 😂😂 I’ve missed the strops over such critical things! And love that you’re marching her off today. Dare I ask what was wrong with the colour?

Yes I hope we are too, and I’m sure we will be. Definitely won’t be going anywhere. Especially for all the Disney recommendations!

@Hayleylou89 😂😂 your poor phone! And bless OH for being so good. I think mine would lock me in a cupboard.
I already notice the difference between my normal motion sickness nausea to this. I feel like I’m going to vom. I won’t grumble though.
Do symptoms come and go because I’m already worried that I’ll be non-symptom spotting from here on in xx

@Tink20058 @Rb486 thank you both.

And you’re right, it is a blessing so I’ll enjoy every minute of it and just assume everything is ok. I don’t want to miss a moment with worrying but it is just tricky.

@SmileyT yeah it will be nice to be going through it together. I hope after all this she doesn’t now think I’m stealing her moment 😳
August will be your month, if not before. Maybe your body has given itself a month off before it has to work hard 🤞🏼 Xx

@SmileyT aw why are you saying you knew you weren't pregnant? X

@MichT4 honestly the things they get stroppy over 😂😂 she was wearing a green jumper but of course I get shouted at 'naughty mummy' because obviously I should have picked yellow. I'm a terrible stylist haha!

Symptoms definitely come and go xx

@HopeForRainbowbaby Hey lovely, course I can tell you ny journey.
So ill explain from very beginning, hope i dnt upset ppl 😓
So last year in Jan i come off all contraception to get it out of my system as i had been on depo injection and pill since i was about 17 (now 30) ..we were actually getting married in June abroad, so i was using the natural cycles app to AVOID pregnancy until we wanted to try which was after the honeymoon early Sept, obv by then natural cycles was well used to my cycles so when we go bk off our honeymoon, I switched the app to trying for a baby and was the luckiest because by the end of sept i had my positive test, we literally dtd a few 2 times around ov and that was it, I had an IB a few days later and knew then that i was pregnant as id never had a weird mid-cycle pinky wet cm ever.
Apart from pains at the start, which turned out to be bowl related, I was sooo relaxed never thought about MC or anything tbh i was naive to it...went a whole 22 weeks like a breeze when one day in work i felt desp for the loo in work like a uti type feeling, so i went the loo and on wiping i had like that pinky tinge again that was similar to IB but vvvvv slight, like hardly anything there but id never had it before so went over the maternity assessment for check up on my own as i didnt think it would be anything to worry my hubby about about l, i just rang him and said i maybe have a uti, ill let him know as he was in work too and then when i got there they checked my my water sample and the babys heartbeat and it was all ok...but then said we will do an internal just to reasuure u....think they were as shocked as me, they literally gave me the shock of my life and said my waters had gone and i was 1cm!! I was admitted immediately and called my hisbamd and he come straight the hosp, The baby was fine at this point still but over the course of a few days i started to lose more water, but wasnt in full labour and the baby was fine so they moved me from delivery suite to a ward and it was that night 2am i just woke up and knew something was wrong, i felt reduced movement and called the midwife to check, they sent me for a scan and me and husband literally seen her last few heartbeats on a screen and then it just stopped, it was like she wanted us to see her before she went, it was absolutely the worst nightmare u could ever imagine 💔... I then got induced the following day 11am and had my baby girl Bonnie by 5pm, but then the cord snapped and placenta was retained so i had to get an op to have it removed (this all happened in Feb).

After this nightmare and the funeral, I got my first period exactly 6 weeks later and wanted to get back on track with ttc to take my mind off everything and take control more than anything i think, so i joined these threads and Started opking, taking ttc vitamins, my cycles were always on the long side 35- 38 days and it took me from feb to may to fall pregnant again by may, I was taking
BBT
seven seas ttc vitamins
Calc flour
Using pre seed
Omega 3
Id got the fertlily cup
CB opks
And hubby was on hcg injections for a few weeks too, I ordered the Ava and it turned up after id just found out i was pregnant 🤦🏽‍♀️ so iv still got that but not using it.

Now im almost 10 weeks and found out from an early sneek peak test im having a boy 💙 due the same week Bonnie was born ironically...and due to what happened last time i am under a consultant lead pregnancy and may need a cervical stitch in a few weeks which they take out at 37 weeks and it prevents preterm labour, but they will try a pessarie first before the stitch, if my cervix is really weak i could be put on bedrest, but there night be absolutely nothing wrong this time, we just wont know until im further along.

my 12 week scan is on 20th which is when i
might just start to relax a little but ill be honest its so hard to relax this time round but the hospital have been amazing so far i have a secretary i can email anytime and she asked the consultant anything and gets back to me so its good i have that it really helps. xx

So now im fully aware of how common it is to lose a baby at all stages, its difficult to enjoy it as such and although its not taken us long time either time to fall pregnant & we do have that on our side, its other worries that my cervix just isnt strong enough, but there are ways to fix that, so fingers crossed I can carry this one to full term 🤞🏻💙 and last time was nothing to do with my cervix and just one off streak of really bad luck 😓

Xxx

@VP91x green?? What on earth is wrong with you? 😂😂

@Hayleylou89 I’m so happy you’ve got your bfp after all that. Reading it again, it’s just so sad.

Can I ask if you continued taking anything after your bfp? I’m thinking I should keep taking everything just in case it’s holding it in there xx

@VP91x yeah went down by like 0.2 just so many fluctuations compared to previous months definitely not the norm 🤷🏾‍♀️ hopefully if AF is finished earlier that also means ovulation will move forward, did it say how long it normally takes to work? x

@MichT4 no I doubt she'll think you've stolen her moment, all pregnant people I know want people around that understand them. Yeah maybe my body needed a break, hopefully it bounces back 😔

@Eli2020 i don't know for certain but I've been off of contraception for so long I feel like now I'm looking for signs I'd see it. When I look back on last pregnancy if I'd been ttc it would've been obvious 🤔

@MichT4 Huge congratulations! 👏 Hoping you have a healthy and enjoyable 9 months!!

@Mich2020

yeah so iv swopped to the seven seas pregnancy multi vits now and im still taking calc flour and omega 3 but thats it :) x x its strange cos i just researched the omega 3 thing myself and then in the review paperwork i got regarding Bonnie it mentioned putting me on omega 3, it apparently helps with preterm labour issues so just one of them a day iv been taking which i didnt take last time i was pregnant plus there good to take anyway x

@SmileyT it will, keep positive lovely.

Have you used the chart search on FF? I did it to look at charts like mine and some temps do fluctuate after ovulation. You might not want to do it but it helped me realise how many things are normal xx

@MichT4 Huge congratulations!! This news has made me feel happy after a slightly down day yesterday ✨ wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months! xxx

@HopeForRainbowbaby thank you for checking in 😊 I’m feeling much better this morning thank you all part of the ups and downs I suppose xxx

@Hayleylou89 Just read your story which I haven’t heard before, I am so sorry for the loss of your Bonnie and that you have had such a difficult time. So happy that you got bfp and are expecting your little boy. Wishing you the happiest and healthiest of pregnancies 💙

@Northernsoul90 thank you so much. And as I said yesterday, down days and moments will happen. I think it’s important to get them out of the way so you can move forward.
I hope you’re feeling better today xx

@Northernsoul90 Thanks lovely! Its been tough, but we have all had a tough time in our own ways! And will all get to our happy place im sure! I really wanted to be pregnant before her due date in June and i was, so that little goal for me worked out! And the fact im due around Bonnies Birthday will hopefully turn what would normal be a sad time of year info an amazing time of year and we will always celebrate her bday with her big brothers, she wont be forgotton x

@SmileyT could just be a normal little dip if you're about 5dpo as you said? Do you have a pic? (sorry being nosey!). Well apparently anywhere from 3-10 days after your last dose! I'll start OPKs from CD8 see what happens xx

@MichT4 I know 😂😂 guarantee you tomorrow she will want the green one. Cant win!

@Northernsoul90 glad you are feeling better today lovely 🥰

@Hayleylou89 omg I had no idea you've been through all of this ;( I'm really sorry to hear it. I wish you a super healthy pregnancy and I hope you have no worries at all. I really do. I remember reading on the previous thread you mentioned something about being monitored for pre term labour and you mentioned something about conization. Have you had cone biopsy by any chance? Asking as I've had and was told I may have problems with premature labour so just wanted to ask if yours was related x

Thank you @MichT4 @VP91x x

@Hayleylou89 I’m glad your goal worked out and I think that it’s so lovely that your due date is around the same time as Bonnie’s. It’s nice that you can celebrate the special days with her big brothers as well 💕

Awwww @MichT4 that is amazing news, congratulations ❤️

Hi ladies😊 so I'm still awaiting a call from my doctors office to tell me when I can come in to get a script for the Provera, and now it's 4th of July weekend so I'm probably only going to get to go in at the end of next week.

Anyway, I did a cb opk and I got a peak (after 3 days of flashing smileys). So I seduced DH 😂😂🤣 I didn't tell him that I got a peak, but it just so happens that he had a haircut today and I told him that he looks handsome with his new haircut. Now he's thinking that I wanted to dtd because I'm turned on because of how he's looking with his new haircut 😂😂🤣🤣🤣 I had to try very hard not to laugh😂