TTC after MC - June/July 2020 (Part 4)

[VP91x]

Hey lovelies ❤️


BFPs 🥰
@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts

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@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@MichT4
@NightDreaming
@Renna
@ManchNic
@Jazper
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@chloedancer897
@Niisa
@Bellabubble
@Ejb86
@Wishingfornumber2
@DontStandSoClose
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@NightDreaming
@Saim86
@bxiiboo
@IWM20
@busby85
@Northernsoul90

I'm on CD25 AF due 2nd July, potentially no ovulation this month or my body just refuses to budge on temp 😩

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

[busby85]

@mrsssk thank you! It is what I have been waiting for just awful to see. I am hopeful now about moving forwards and thinking ahead to brighter times. Xx

[Jazper]

Seems weird if af is arriving already @VP91x , you must be done in 🤯

Sorry to hear of your losses @Quail15 and @busby85 ❤️

@Dipsy77 hey cycle buddy 👋🏼 sorry to hear you have struggled this month with the OH's bad back. I sympathise. Mine has torn a muscle in his shoulder which has meant we've had to adapt dtd as certain positions were just not possible.
A little earlier in the month I did wonder if we should take this cycle off to give it time to heal but we're just about managing.
Are you still testing for ov?

[1990EM]

Wow can't believe were on thread 4 but just a testament to how great and helpful this group is!

Sorry for freaking out on everyone yeaterday. My cramps have lessened today and I havent had any bleeding so I'm feeling a lot more hopeful. EPU said to phone back if bleeding started or if they started to worsen again. Thanks for all your advice.
Just wondering if anyone has felt crampy with a bout of thrush? I only ever get thrush when pregnant so wasn't surprised to see it pop up but in all of my late night googling I saw that yeast infections and UTIs can sometimes cause cramping while pregnant. Learn something new every day.. just thought id pass that on in case it helps someone else some day.

@VP91x keep us updated on your kitty and also temps. Hope it starts going the right direction..

@Ejb86 I see it! How wonderful! I would wait till you have confirmed with a digital maybe and then you could get a doctors note to give to your employers so that you don't have to specify exactly how far aling you are if you dont want to. Will you be testing tomorrow? Such lovely news to see today ❤

@2020wish I have been thinking you and your wee girl all day. It must have been so difficult. Sending you the biggest hug in the world ❤❤❤

[Jazper]

@VP91x @MichT4 @SmileyT
Look who arrived 😀

[1990EM]

@Quail15 and @busby85, so very sorry to hear of your sad losses. I only joined this group this month after lurking a little but it has got me through..

@busby85 I stopped bleeding just a day or two after passing the foetus. I hope this means it is nearly over for you. I'm so sorry. It is so traumatic and I'll never forget it happening. Take good care of yourself. X

[1990EM]

@Jazper that's fantastic! Woohoo!

[Jazper]

Thank you @1990EM . So relieved to get my static and put an end to the testing this month.

I had thrush and cramping with my first pregnancy. Very uncomfortable but gave birth to a perfectly healthy baby so worth going through.
I hope it eases soon for you. Xx

[Emsnewmum]

Hi @VP91x thanks for new thread.
Thanks, I had alot of blood loss and ended up with a blood transfusion after calling the epu several times and being told it was normal even went to out of hours to be told probably anxiety when I went for a scan I was about to be sent home when a lovely nurse finally took my blood's because I told her how long it had been going on for weeks. I'm just going to take ovulation tests dont think il do temps as my sleep is so off skew at moment.

@mrsssk
Thanks, I was supposed to be 12/13 weeks but scan showed 6 weeks. I had a misscarriage late last year but that was not a missed miscarriage and it was all much smoother in comparison so I really wasnt prepared this time.
@smileyT
Thanks Yeah its definitely looking like it's my period should no for sure if I stop bleeding soon. Then i can get back on track !

@HopeForRainbowbaby

I feel much better thanks and will feel even better when I know for sure it's time to ttc x

[MichT4]

@Jazper yessss!! Knew it would arrive soon! Little smiley sh*t 😂😂
Get going!! 🍆

[MichT4]

@1990EM so glad you’re feeling better today. Do you have any appointments coming up?

[VP91x]

@mrsssk no definetely not, I only got my peak on CD21 and I'm CD25 now with no temp rise so looking like an anovulatory cycle and potentially early AF 🤷

@Jazper YAY to your static! Enjoy DTD 🍆💦
Yeah feeling really fed up today xx

@1990EM so so glad you're feeling better today and all seems ok! Good that the EPU will be at the end of the line if you're anxious.

@Emsnewmum ah no, that doesn't sound pleasant at all. I wish they would just trust womens opinion on their own bodies. We know if something doesn't feel right. Hope you are feeling better 🥰 xx

[1990EM]

@MichT4 nothing booked yet. To be honest I only filled out my form to refer myself to maternity services on Monday. I wanted to get to 6 weeks before I went back on the system. Because of the awful way you often keep getting scan appointment letters after a loss i thought I'd wait a couple weeks first :-(

[1990EM]

@Emsnewmum how horrific 😢 I'm so sorry..

[1990EM]

Just found out something interesting.. was looking at my Fitbit app and for both of my pregnancies this year my resting heart rate increased significantly each time at just 5 or 6dpo! By about 14dpo it was nearly 10bpm higher that pre-pregnancy! How did i not know this could be a sign of conception! I didn't have that happen for any of my cycles where I didn't fall pregnant so I know it was directly related to my pregnancies. I know its not foolproof but in the 2ww it would have been something else to obsess over!! Not that i needed that🙈 anyone else use a fitbit or tracker and seen this happen?

[MichT4]

@Emsnewmum sorry to hear about your experience. Infuriates me that you can get so pushed aside when you know something isn’t right.

@1990EM I completely get why you waited. Not that you need to worry about that happening again 🤞🏼

[MichT4]

@1990EM that is interesting. The Ava tracks mine and it’s creeping up every day. I haven’t had a spike or anything, it’s just rising day by day. What sort of trends did you see?

[Quail15]

Thank you so much for your kind words everyone. @Diorissimo1985 im sorry to hear that you are also a returner ☹️

@busby85 I'm sorry you are going through the same thing. My last MC I bled on and off for 2 weeks. I'm currently spotting but it has been getting slowly heavier each day.

Im waiting for surgical management so that I can have my twins genetically tested but if I start to properly misscarry before my op (probably on Friday) then they will leave me to MC naturally again. This time I just want it all over and done with as quickly as possible now.

[mrsssk]

@1990EM I just checked on my tracker and interestingly mine also went up when I was pg (only by 5bpm) but was much lower in the TWW then spiked up. I'm not going to try and obsess over it though as stressing out will probably raise the heart rate and give false hope!

@VP91x ah sorry, I lost track of your cycle days as there were all those flashing smug buggers beforehand. So many changes happen with the hormones, it's hard to tell exactly what is going on anymore

@HopeForRainbowbaby do you have any more symptoms or any sign of AF? No change to report from me yet, not sure if that's a good or bad thing at the moment....

[Hayleylou89]

@VP91 thank u for the add hope ur well x

@Ejb86 That test looks like a progressing positive definitely!!! 💖💖 so happy for u x

[1990EM]

@MichT4 sounds promising! Here is mine. I think i ovulated shortly after the start of the graph. It was quite a climb in 2 weeks. June 13th is whem i got my bfp xx

[Dipsy77]

@Jazper I had pains last night and this morning so tested this morning and lunchtime and had my peak. So this morning I made out I was so up for it and he was making me really horny and that if he wasn't interested I'd use a sex toy got it out and he managed to dtd (things we have to do !!)but that is definitely it now for this month his back is so bad now because of it , I've just tested again and it's high so I've definitely ovulated today

[HopeForRainbowbaby]

@mrsssk I have been having cramps for several days so I think I get AF every day but not a hint of blood. I have tested last on 12dpo with bfn and I'm 14 dpo 30CD today. and you?

[SmileyT]

Thanks for the new thread @VP91x 🥰

I'm late to the party with the intros but I'm cycle 4 (although think I've been saying 3 for the last month 🤔) ttc #1 after MC in March. CD12 5th day of flashing smily faces hoping I've only got one more day of flashing before my peak 🙏

@busby85 did they both stop progressing at the same point? It may be if they were at different stages that might be why the bleeding is different. I had surgery so not sure how long it would be with a natural MC but sending you lots of love x

@VP91x what is the bleeding doing now? Surely not AF this early 😩

@Quail15 im so sad to read this, honestly there is nothing to say that makes it better right now but I'm giving you a massive virtual hug. Hopefully the RMC will at least do some tests so they can support you even better in your next pregnancy x

@Jazper and there was you worrying but you are in fact like clockwork 🕰 yay to static (obvs can't tell if it's flashing but I'm guessing not 😂)

@1990EM glad that you are feeling better and that the EPU have offered extra support if you need it. Sorry I can't remember but are you having an early scan? And yes to RHR, pre-COVID and pre-MC I worked out all the time and one of my first signs was my RHR increased to 72 by the time AF was due when it normally sat around 60bpm. Annoying post MC it hasn't gone back down (May be the lack of exercise) but it seems to rocket before AF now, so will no longer be a clue 🙄 x

Sorry this is now really long going through replying as I went, I promise it's not all me talking about myself 🙈

[Wishingfornumber2]

@VP91x thanks for the new thread. Sorry to hear if AF is on its way. Have you had any cramps? X

@Quail15 & @busby85 sorry to hear about your loses. Hope you can get all the support you need. X

@HopeForRainbowbaby I have been feeling exactly the same, really feel like AF is coming and have been having cramps but no show yet. X

@Jazper Yay to static!! Nice to see it working for once lol! X

[Ejb86]

@1990EM yes, I'll probably test again tomorrow.

I decided to tell work. I'm now working from home for the foreseeable future.