TTC after MC - June/July 2020 (Part 4)

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Hey lovelies ❤️

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@Rainbowhope11
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@MichT4
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@Jazper
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@Eli2020
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@Saim86
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@busby85
@Northernsoul90

I'm on CD25 AF due 2nd July, potentially no ovulation this month or my body just refuses to budge on temp 😩

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

@Rainbowhope11 I absolutely love that 😄 you go girl! So impressed with your creative skills-this could be the lucky dtd 😉

@Eli2020 thank you 😂🤣 it will be hilarious if it is going to be the lucky one!

@MichT4 huuuuuge congratulations to you lovely!! What beautiful news😘

@Rainbowhope11 love it 😂 it’s the best way sometimes to not let them know! I like your tactics 😉

@Tink20058 oh wow that’s such good news

@Hayleylou89 what an awful thing for you to go through with Bonnie, your little boy will definitely make the hard times a lot more bearable. I’m wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy ❤️

So ladies, yesterday on my cb test I had a flashing face and today it’s a non flashing smiley face, so does that mean I’m ovulating now? That’s bang on 3 weeks since I have the mva. Also does that mean I have high chance today and tomorrow and then it’s onto the waiting game?

@Rainbowhope11 love this 😂😂 do you normally have 3 days of flashing faces?

@MichT4 I'm in bits! Congratulations!!!!! I am genuinely so so delighted to see this!! Actually in tears! Feels like a victory every time one more of us gets there!
Sorry ladies I've been off this thread for a few days with phone issues and i dont know if I'm going to be able to catch upon all I missed lol but what fantastic news to come back to. Hope everyone else is doing ok.. anyone else going to test this weekend? Will maybe try to use toddler nap time to catch up on the thread later.
I'm feeling ok, 7w3d today I think and feeling much stronger nausea this time round which I'm taking as a good sign. Still unsure whether I should pay for an early scan. So tempting but if my husband cant be there I don't know if I could handle bad news!!

@MichT4 huge congratulations 🎉 I can understand why you are trying not to get too excited I'm nearly 6 weeks now and I'm not going to lie I'm finding it hard, I'm so paranoid something will go wrong again. I've had terrible nausea for a week, like struggling to do anything bad and sipping ginger tea all day. Yesterday I felt much better and hardly sick at all of course I had a flap. When I was pregnant last time I suddenly stopped feeling sick then I realised the next day I was spotting. So I'm sat wishing to feel sick at the mo which is ridiculous as it's an awful feeling!!

@Hayleylou89 I didn't realise you were so far along, how awful. I hope everything goes well this time, it's good you are being closely monitored too. Hopefully you don't have any of the same issues and it's smooth sailing. How have you found out the sex so early? I'm curious, I didn't think it was accurate before 16 if not 20 weeks? We've never found out anyway, I like a surprise!

I don't post on here very much but I still check from time to time to see how everyone is getting on. I didn't really want to keep posting once I had got my positive.

@Hayleylou89 just read your story... How heartbreaking. Congratulations on your baby boy 💙 very exciting! 💙 praying all goes well. Thank you for sharing your story lovely.

@Lollol86 @Rainbowhope11 @1990EM @DontStandSoClose thank you all so much.

@rainbowhope11 literally LOL at your seduction! Bless your hub. If it gets him performing, go for it!

@lollol86 I think static smile means ovulation is in the next 12-36 hours, something like that.

@dontstandsoclose oh don’t say that, I’m sure everything is fine. That’s why I have to get my head round the fact symptoms may come and go otherwise I’ll drive myself mad.

I’m trying to work out how to be more calm and enjoy it. I have to find a way xx

@Hayleylou89 I'm so happy for you to have this angle on the way❤️After the loss of your baby girl, you have got boy due the same week! I just wish for you to relax more. I know it is difficult but it is such a beautiful time to have your growing angel in your belly. I'm trying to think that you never know what tomorrow brings, so let's enjoy today. And I'm trying to think well of course tomorrow can bring BFP, but worrying about tomorrow will not help today so why not enjoy today 😘 thank you for sharing your story and remaining on group with us and giving us all hope 🥰

@Northernsoul90 😂🤣 I didn't want to tell him, because yesterday we had a great talk about possibly not trying too hard this next month and not stressing about testing😂 so I thought it's best not to let him know that I tested again today🤣 will have to lure him again tomorrow 😂

@Lollol86 it varies. Sometimes I have 5, one time I had 9 and no peak. 3 weeks ago I had 5 and a peak, but then I don't think I actually ovulated, which is why my body is trying again now. We'll see what happens. I'm not too worried about ttc this month because I have a lot of stuff going on, and my cycle has been really weirdl since my Hcg finally dropped to 0 a few weeks ago.

@HopeForRainbowbaby what a lovely positive way of thinking about things ❤️

@Rainbowhope11 when did you have your mc?

Omg @MichT4 !!!!! Well done for holding out until now to test as what a strong line it's given you 😍❤️🥰 I bet you are elated, and scared, and anxious, and excited, and all the rest 😂
Congrats, congrats!!! Woop woop xx

@Lollol86 I had a mmc in March, decided to go the medical management route because things weren't moving along naturally. AF came 6 weeks later, but my Hcg only dropped to 0 after 9 weeks. I was still getting positives right up until the middle of May! It was a long wait, but it also forced me to deal with my emotions that I was trying to bury.

@Rainbowhope11 so a blessing in disguise then. Hopefully your body is finally back to normal now 😘

Massive congratulations @MichT4 🥳 so delighted for you and wishing you the happiest , healthiest 9 months

OMG Congratulations @MichT4 so so so happy for you! I had the biggest feeling you would get a BFP today but held off checking the thread till later in case you hadn't posted yet - needn't have worried as you'd checked at 4am!
Wishing you the healthiest 9 months ahead xxx I totally get you probably don't feel it's real yet but I'm sure your body will start giving you all sorts of symptoms. arrrghhh so happy for you xxx

@Jazper @Girlmum83 @mrsssk thank you ladies, so much 💕. All of your support today is amazing.

I’m glad I held out, the line appeared really quickly and no line eyes were needed. I’m just so worried I’ll do another one and it’ll be gone. How silly.
I knew it would be hard but it’s really hard.

Yep @mrsssk 4am. Couldn’t sleep at all so thought I might as well get to it 😂. Really hope I sleep better tonight, am shattered!

How are you all? Xxx

@MichT4 I hope you get a good nights rest tonight, you've certainly earned it!

So glad it's Friday - my second week back at work after mc and feel totally drained. Really need the weekend to come round, though we've got an IKEA trip planned so maybe not be the stress free weekend I want. DH and I don't play well together in IKEA 🤣

On top of that been trying to DTD as I think my body had a go at ovulation (attached my OPKs pic- what do you ladies think?? I also had EWCM)
targeted DTD on 27, 28, 29 and 1st 😅 Might attempt to have a last hurrah tonight and then hopefully I'm in an actual TWW. But hopefully covered enough?

I think my earlier OPKs in June were just picking up the last of the Hcg as I still had positive tests up to the 9th of June.

Also finally bought my calc fluor after seeing your success @MichT4 what dosage did you take if you don't mind me asking?

@MichT4 yeah definitely looked at that on FF but think I'm comparing it more to what's normal for me but I guess I haven't got pregnant whilst temping before so no idea what it will look like when it's my time ☺️

@Rainbowhope11 that story really made me laugh, definitely the right way to seduce OH x

@VP91x attached chart for you, no idea what is going on 😩

@Rainbowhope11 yessss, get it girl! 💦🍆 Love that you seduced him haha. It'll always make you laugh if this turns out to be your lucky month!! Great that you got your peak and maybe the timing meaning you can't get your provera until next week is a sign? 🤞🤞🤞🤞

@DontStandSoClose lovely to hear from you, try not to worry as the other girls said my sickness when I was PG with my little girl was awful until 20w but it always fluctuated. I'd feel relieved that maybe it was subsiding but, no. Sending you hugs.

@1990EM hey lovely I'm not 100% for the ones near you but when I was looking at private scans in case I fell PG, they were still letting one other person come in. So worth checking out!

@MichT4 that line isn't going anywhere 🥰

@SmileyT I reckon thats the normal hormonal dip you get in your charts! The annoying one that could be implantation or hormones. 🤞