TTC after MC - June/July 2020 (Part 4)

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I'm on CD25 AF due 2nd July, potentially no ovulation this month or my body just refuses to budge on temp 😩

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

@Tink20058 how far gone are you? Good luck for your scan tomorrow x

Thanks ladies. Me and my OH both work shifts and we’re both on nights next week then off to Cornwall for a week so should be fine to manage it this month but if unsuccessful, dependent on shifts may be hard in following months but we will give it a try and I’ll let you know how we get on 😜 @chloedancer897 oh bless you, that does sound very tough. So your m/c was very recent and they say your most fertile after so hopefully in these next few months you will be blessed with your rainbow. I will pray for you. Take good care of yourself xxx

Thank you @Rb486

Good morning ladies.

Well I slept terribly, my Ava wouldn’t even sync because it said I didn’t have enough data to analyse 😴. So at 4am I couldn’t waste my FMU and I did it.

I can’t believe it!! I am elated but terrified. Help!

I woke OH up at 4 to tell him and I think he’s going to wake up thinking it was a dream 😂

I have to say, you’ve all been so amazing. Thank you for your support and being just wonderful. Your hope gave me hope. Let’s now wish this one stays put 🤞🏼🤞🏼 xxx

Yes @MichT4!!!!!!!!! Congratulations lovely!!!!!

@MichT4 yay!!!!!!!!

Omg @MichT4 !!! I'm so happy for you !!! I can't even ... I'm genuinly happy! I wish you a super healthy pregnancy ❤️

@MichT4 yesss!! Massive massive congratulations ❤️❤️ such fantastic news. What a wonderful result of an uncertain month for you. Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy 🥰

@Ejb86 @chloedancer897 @Eli2020 @VP91x

Thank you all so much 🥰

I know @VP91x what a bloody month that was!! I’m so happy but almost a little reserved at the moment until another few weeks pass. I think I’ll remain blissfully unaware 😂

I’m not going anywhere by the way. I love this group, I want to stick around if that’s ok?

So now I have a dilemma....we have 3rd party take 2 with the whole family including my PG sister. My other sis will have the prosecco to hand.
What do I do?? I’d rather not tell yet but it’s a tricky situation.
Am tempted to tell the non PG one as I see her all the time and can’t turn down prosecco forever without suspicion. Might not say to everyone else though.
What do you think? xx

@MichT4 yeah I can imagine the first few weeks you will be tentative but I'm sure everything will be absolutely fine with tiny bean. So so happy for you.

Ooh, do you drink vodka or something? You could bring some and say you're drinking vod/coke and just pour yourself a coke? Xx

@Northernsoul90 I'm sorry you had bad day ! But ladies said it is normal to have those feelings. How do you feel today ?

@MichT4 wonderful news ! Congratulations 😊🎊wishing you healthy 9 months !

@MichT4 so how what did you this month to be successful ? Which dpo are you today ?

@VP91x I occasionally drink gin but prosecco is my go to and I know she will suss me. I might just tell her, but I can fool everyone else I think.

@HopeForRainbowbaby I am either 13 or 14DPO today. I don’t really know what did it this month. Definitely trying to relax a bit. My first attempt at ovu didn’t happen and I thought I was out. Then I got the second surge after I just stopped fretting over each detail.
I know I kept panicking about temps and stuff but deep down I was ready for another month and I’d kind of got to the point where I was ok with that.

DTD was because we wanted to, we missed ovulation day because we were tired and apart from a little moment thinking how typical it would be if we missed the key date, I didn’t really worry about that either.

I’m going to really try and take that with me now, just not overthink it. I’m going to stop wearing Ava because if the temps shift I’ll panic. I feel like it not syncing today was a sign!

This month we both also started coq10, and I took calc Fluor. We were both already taking the pregnacare/well man and I don’t know if it’s coincidence, but it’s 3 months since we did and they say about the effect on sperm taking 3 months.

And also, You lot!! Honestly I think my stress levels would have been through the roof if it wasn’t for this group.

I can’t think of anything else really.

I almost want to pretend it’s not true until a few weeks time. I might still use up my OPKs 😂

@MichT4 do whatever makes you feel comfortable ❤️

Good idea about not wearing the Ava! I think it would stress me out too. I'll definitely be getting rid of my BBT if I get a BFP xx

@MichT4 what do Calc flour and coq10 do? And how often do you take them? Please remind me when was your MC?

Your bfp was literally the first thing I saw this morning as I went straight to mumsnet when my eyes were half open 😅 what a lovely news to wake up to! In terms of the Prosecco that's tricky-do they all know you are ttc? If it's me and they know I would say I want to make sure I'm doing my best atm. I had a business trip in February (was in the tww) and people asked my why I wasn't drinking and I said I just became vegan too and I'm trying a healthier life style 😂 utter bulshit but some believed it 😁

@Eli2020 😂😂 I assume that meant you had to eat vegan food too? Commitment!!

I think they’ll assume we are after the MC. I mean I can just drive but even that raises suspicion as my mum had offered to drive us. I’ll come up with something!

So Coq10 is meant to help with both Male and female fertility. It’s meant to reduce stress and also improve speed concentration, density and motility. For women I think it helps egg quality (thanks google!)
We took one a day in the morning. I think the Wellman conception has it in but he just boosted it.

Calc Fluor I just saw on here but also watched that calming American lady talk about it. It’s meant to support implantation but I don’t know any more science.

MC was in March, confirmed on the 17th.

I’m still a bit worried talking about it, doesn’t seem real. What if I have to take it all back soon? 🤯 aaarggh

Stress free going well so far 🙄😂

Congratulations @MichT4 that's brilliant news xx

@VP91x yeah I think it’s the best thing to do. Doesn’t really matter what happens now, as long as it sticks in there.

How are you today? Last day before you have your LO home for a couple of days 🥰 xx

Thank you @Dipsy77 💕

@MichT4 massive congratulations 🥳 I'm so happy for you what a great way to kick off this Friday morning. If you are close with your family and want to tell them them go for it, I'm so confident that everything will be great with this little bean but I'm a big believer that you should tell people when you want them to know and we shouldn't keep pregnancies a secret just in case of loss, so if you want to shout it from the rooftops enjoy. How is OH feeling? xx

@Eli2020 yeah I'm maybe 5dpo but not 100% what happened with ovulation as temps haven't been consistent after peak opks 🤷🏾‍♀️ tbh I never get any symptoms before AF or even last time I was pregnant really so I don't bother symptom spotting. When will you test? x

@VP91x as I'm not sure about ovulation think I'll wait until the 12th and only test if my period doesn't turn up next week as I may have ovulated later/ not at all anyway. Temp was down today so really no idea what my body is doing. Think I'll have the weekend off temping and just pin my hopes on getting pregnant in August 😂 how are you this morning? xx

@MichT4 my MC was on the 21st of March so 4 days after you. But let's not talk about sad things-let's hope in 4 days I'll join you in the bfp world 😉 yes Eli, let's more likely it 😏 happy thoughts 😁
I have a boob question, how much do your boobs hurt 😂 the previous 3 cycles they would hurt me sooo much from 1 dpo and now I'm 6 dpo and they just hurt a little

@SmileyT I want so much to be able to have will power and to only test if af doesn't arrive but since the MC I've been so desperate and would start testing at 9 dpo and each bfn has broken my heart. So let's hope for once I've learnt my lesson and will test later. Setting myself a more feasible target and thinking 12 dpo 🤷‍♀️ I test with IC which are 25 miu so not the most sensitive but after spending quite some money on first response I said that's enough. Will you test with a proper early response test when you do?

@Mich2020 amazing news congrats!!! If u want to join the whats app group just messaged @mumoftwobeauts and she can add u :) xx 💙💖

@SmileyT thank you lovely 💕
I think that’s what I’m considering as I would tell them if god forbid it happened again. I don’t think I’ll tell my PG sister yet. She gave me the second of her CB digital as I said it must be lucky, so I’ll wait to take that and tell her then.
But with the other sister, I see her all the time. So it would be so tricky to not say.

OH is asleep again. He cuddled me, went to the loo and then back to sleep 😂. He seemed delighted though 🥰

@Eli2020 yes no sad thoughts allowed, although I’m already going to the loo more than is required to check. Need to snap out of it and adopt the PMA that I tried for this cycle.
I hope you join me too. When will you test?
Funny you should say that, the last 2 months I got sore boobs and thought it was it, but AF came so I assumed it was just a new thing. This month, they took longer to come - not sure what day as I don’t log it - but they were more uncomfy to touch and go up/down stairs. Nothing to make me think it was different but looking back it probably was. This morning I woke and they felt like 2 hard balls 😂. It’s eased now though. They just feel fuller xx

So @Eli2020 my point is, I didn’t think mine were as sore as normal at first. Hope that makes sense 😂

@Hayleylou89 thank you so much. I do want to join but I might wait a while. I’m in the terror stage where I think I’m chatting away and getting excited and then I’ll wake and it was a dream.
Hopefully I’ll have the guts to join soon, just don’t want the sadness of having to leave again xxx